A dumb guy pays several hundreds of dollars for more lapdances and an overpriced bottle of cheap champagne.
Strip clubs aren’t brothels. At least the ones that stay in business aren’t anyway. The back room is just giving the suckers more of the same they just got for $20, only now “one-on-one” and “private.” They’re paying a ton of money to continue the illusion that the dancer sees them as more than just a walking night school tuition fund.
If a guy says he got more than a lapdance in a private room of a strip club, first off, eww, gross, why are you with a guy who brags about this sort of thing? And, two, he’s lying.
Strip clubs are like porn — the sooner you take the scary “they’re leading my man astray” edge away from them, you’ll realize they’re just a fairly depressing place for lonely men to waste money at.