Hate to tell you this, but you can't. There's nothing you can do to stop your man from straying. It has to be a personal choice that he makes to not go outside of his relationship. What you can do is attempt to keep him happy in his relationship so that he doesn't feel an urge to go elsewhere...
...as long as you aren't compromising yourself in the process. But here's a factoid you can take to the bank and on family trips with you if you'd like: if a man wants to cheat, he will. There is absolutely nothing you can do about that. Men have so many options and so many women are tossing their panties around like an Olympic discus competition that men literally have to say "no" constantly to the myriad sexual advances that come our way. Hell, since I started typing this I got approached by two women of questionable character and hygiene offering me a little stank.
Of course I said no, but apparently its hard out here for women. Point is, if a man is looking for another chick to boink he can probably find one. So my suggestion to you is do what you do best - be you. And trust in your man unless he gives you reason not to. And believe this, save for a few circumstances, if a man gets caught, he's not sorry he cheated, he's sorry he got caught.
You could always break his leg as an OUTSIDE alternative. I don't suggest it because it has a shelf life and if you break my leg I'm definitely going to cheat later. You know what, I don't know where I was going with that.
Good night.
I read two books on how married couples had DAILY sex, one for 101 days another for 365 days and how it brought them closer together.
So this is my gameplan in a loving serious? relationship. I don't intend to have man unhappy in this department. Emotional support provided through learning to have convos with him.
And anyways why shouldn't men be faithful. An unusually shallow answer from a mega deep and profoundly thinking Male Team.
Whilst I love the "let's get it on daily" approach -phew, is it hot in here?- I disagree that Panama's is a shallow response.
He got into the heart of the matter which is, while there are things you can do to keep a man interested, there is very little you can do to stop him from _cheating_. For example, you could keep him so sexually exhausted that he doesn't have the energy to cheat, but would you take that advice seriously coming from a man? Talk about putting a huge burden on the woman to always be up for it and it kinda feels like that would take some of the responsibility out of the man's hands.
Panama is trying to emphasize the fact that it's generally NOT her fault if he cheats. If he cheats, he's the loser.
However, don't get me wrong, I give HUGE props to any woman who says "I don't intend to have man unhappy in this department." WOOT! And hopefully, that man's response it to meet your every need, too! That is the best way to approach a relationship.
Shallow response?? LOL u guys are kidding right? I think it would have been shallow if he took the "Bang ure man 365 days a year" approach.
I agree with what Panama said.. if a man "wants" to cheat, he will find a way to do so - even if you're the best girlfriend in the whole world - same with women.
And btw whoever cheats is a sore LOSER - be it a man or a woman. Cheating is never an excuse; and if the relationship is so bad that ure needs are not being met, well then let the other person know so that they can get a fresh start as well.
Loved the last paragraph btw... I dunno where u were going either LOL
Shallow response?? LOL u guys are kidding right? I think it would have been shallow if he took the "Bang ure man 365 days a year" approach.
I agree with what Panama said.. if a man "wants" to cheat, he will find a way to do so - even if you're the best girlfriend in the whole world - same with women.
And btw whoever cheats is a sore LOSER - be it a man or a woman. Cheating is never an excuse; and if the relationship is so bad that ure needs are not being met, well then let the other person know so that they can get a fresh start as well.
Loved the last paragraph btw... I dunno where u were going either LOL
I don't know what you could do to prevent them from cheating, but a keylogger for the computer sure helps find out if they are so you can kick them to the curb.