First off, I have to applaud you on the fact that you don't care about repercussions and issues and all those other silly excuses people tend to make because they are too afraid to take any risks in life. The fact is you want this guy in the sack and here is how to do it . . .
Go out for drinks. Afterward make him come over to your house: Tell him you have a mouse you need help getting rid of or a leaky faucet or some such pretext. Once inside, get real close to him and kiss him and don't let go. The rest should take care of itself.
Note: If the guy is gay, which is possible, you may be out of luck. In that case, look for a new best friend to seduce.
LOL. Too true!
The "art" of man seduction when there is already an established relationship that allows the 2 people reason to interact and end up alone somewhere isn't really that complicated.
Drunkness on his part definatly helps.
What sort of BS is this? Get him drunk is plain stupid. Not only will that make sex more difficult it will also give him an excuse if afterwards he feels ackward for doing his best friend. I'm sure she would want to know he had sex with her because of an attraction and not because he was drunk and Horney.
Jeezzzzz.
You know as well as I do that it's very rare for straight men to have a woman as his best friend. So either she is a good friend and over rates the friendship or he is gay and she is a female supporter he identified with.
Can you see any woman cruzing bars with her best buddy helping him to pickup women. What sort of wingman could she make?
So, if you want in his pants and he is straight forget the bar approach. Have him over for a meal. Or better invite to watch a movie or game on tv. Get close get busy with your hands on his shoulders his hair and chest. If he doesn't pull away slowly work your hand into his pants. If he asks what your doing keep it light and funny. " heck my hand was cold and I could feel the warmth of your member". Or, " do you mind turning your head and coughing, I'm practing hernia exams". Or something so as to be light and fun. A straight guy will dig it if he is at all attracted to you. After that you know what to do grab it.
If he complains or pulls back he is gay or he doesn't dig your looks sexually. In either case you can still mess with his mind.
HOT
Merci M.M.. i'll give it a shot! i'm glad it doesn't involve any uncomfortable conversations or extravagent confessions. Essentially, the approach is not different from any other guy, n'est-ce pas?
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UMMMMMM dont you think that if he was into you he would have DONE something already. He stuck you in friend territory girl! If he was attracted wouldnt he have done things differently? I'd just hate to for you to get rejected and lose that friendship!
But in case he's a pussy or doesnt want to ruin the friendship and IS interested: If I were you, I'd get sneaky like this: just spill something on yourself "accidently" at his place like coffee or another 'hot" liquid that ist actually hot when you spill it and then whip off your shirt like omg (and/or pants). If he likes you he'll check you out. If he doesnt he'll get uncomfortable at seeing your lady bits. Then you'll have your answer, with no risk of rejection.
WHY IS EVERYBODY TALKING LIKE SHE WANTS TO MARRY THE GUY??!!With all this talk of dinner & conversation,WHATEVER!! Shes clearly saying she doesnt care what shes risking if anything at all. I AGREE WITH HER NOT GETTING HIM DRUNK!I THINK SHE SHOULD GET HERSELF DRUNK(not sloppy drunk) SO THERE WILL BE NO VOICE OF REASON LOUD ENOUGH FOR HESITATION!!! if you wanna get knocked down by this guy stop being a big fat sissy & just freakin do it!!geesh!
YOU HAVE GUTS (:
very helpful advice. I've been trying to do the same for some time and don't seem to have the courage...
i have been sleeping with my ale friend and now he is avoiding me,i want us to continue this sex partnership but he says its too risky what should i do coz i really do enjoy our time of play...Don,t get me wrong i dont love him
maybe he has a disease he doesn't want to give you. Or maybe he's uncomfortable. Either way, talk about it and try to see what's up. Right now you'll lose him totally if you pester him too much. Let him be a friend.
Get him alone. Make sure you look great and wear parfume. Let your clothes be conservative but with a sexy twist (i.e. no bra). Have an "accident" of some kind that will bring you in close contact with him. Do not loose your innocent demeanor that he loves about you, but once you are close your sexual nature becomes revealed, and it will really turn him on. Then go for the hook, now that the bate is snagged. Try to pretend to be emberrassed too, before letting your tiger side out.
I have been seeing someone for a almost a year now and I rreally want a more intimate relationship with him, but it hasn't happened yet. We do have an attraction, but he is really a confirmed batchelor and has a lot of activities on the go and he lives about an hour away from me. Any suggestions as how I can make this relationship worrk