It's very simple. Men like naked women. Strippers get naked. Ergo, men like strippers.
Or, should I say, men like seeing strippers naked. I don't know the deal with guys who think all those friendly strippers are really into them and they have a shot at getting laid. Poor dumb fools. The only thing in your pants that a stripper wants is in the back pocket, not the crotch, and they are quite mercenary about getting it, too. Guys can be such sad suckers sometimes. (Say that three times fast.)
I'm not sure what other deals you might have in mind. Guys who go all the time? I don't get that, either. Porn addicts with too much money is all I can figure. I've been to strip clubs before but it's been years. I don't think I would have the patience anymore for all the rampant BS, and now I have better uses for my limited time and money.
I can't think of any other deal to which you might be referring, except maybe the philosophical debates about whether or not committed men need to be looking at naked women other than their partners. That topic has been discussed ad nauseum in past posts on these pages, so I won't go there. You can do a search for "strip clubs" if you want some other opinions.
Thanks for the question.
Then again, my boyfriend doesn't like them at ALL... he finds the whole thing rather creepy. He actually left his buddy's bachelor party when the strippers came, b/c he felt uncomfortable!
They exist... just far and few between.
Well, I can tell you that I don't care for strip clubs at all. I mean it's not like you actually get to DO things with them. In my mind that's like going to a restaurant and paying to watch people eat.
Yep. My friend Bobby says, "I can't touch them, and I can't touch myself, so what's the point?"
Thank you so much for the answer. I guess I was referring to the 'should men stare at naked women's bodies when they're in a committed relationship' bit.
I just don't understand the infatuation when it comes to strippers, models, actresses (referring to my bf).