Your gut feeling that receiving half dozen squirts of warm semen on your face is gross and degrading is not so strange.
But, I'm not sure what kind of help you are seeking. My opinion is that any sex act that requires immediate body washing and temporary blindness should be taken seriously and exercised judiciously. Here and there, I think it can be a lovely denouement to a powerful session of sex play. But using your face as a day in and day out hockey net for his puck shot? I don't think so. There's a line between wanting to satisfy your man's visual cravings and taking a face full of wang sauce regularly - not a fine line, but a thick-ass line.
Remember, under open communication and a safe framework exploring "give and take", S&M, "degrading" acts, etc, can be fine. But if your secretly absorbing shame while absorbing these facials I'd stop it. Besides, there are far less jarring ways to exfoliate and nourish the skin.
I actually love it, anywhere but my hair, partly because I know how much my lovely hunk of manstuff is loving it too.
I get not liking it for yourself, taken out of context it can be a pretty ick kind of thing, but if you focus on how much he's enjoying it then that might make it better for you. The act itself is not degrading, it's all about the context. If he's making you feel degraded then that's not good, but if he's grateful and respectful about it then that's how it should be.
"a lovely denouement to a powerful session of sex play" is a fantastic way to put it. :) You should be comfortable with it, and if you're not, you need to have a look at whether you're uncomfortable because of the way he treats you or because of the way you feel about the sex act in general.
you going to ask your gf for one?
Maybe he doesn't see it as degrading, but I know plenty of people (even some of the more 'kinky' or whatever ones) that do so if your feelings on the matter are perfectly normal! Your pleasure probably matters as much to him as his does to you so don't feel you have to do something you're uncomfortable with just to please him!
I never understood the attraction of that particular act--for either party, but to each his or her own. If you don't want to do it, don't do it. There are other ways to get him off.
To me it says he is just having sex with her. Not a lot of love with that one on his part.
Not true! Not even a little bit. Under that logic, any guy who was into bondage, anal, spanking...well, basically anything other than plaid old missionary would be a loveless douche. And I'm pretty sure not many people would agree with that.
Anyway, to the question-asker. I happen to love getting facials (just make SURE to keep it from actually entering your eyes as best you can, it will make your eyes extremely sore and red as it dries in there--not fun haha) as well as getting cummed on my chest, lower back, etc. In fact, I've always been the one to ask for it, as it's a safer bet than him cummiing inside me, and I'm not a fan of having it in my mouth. I'm certain that many girls would feel differently, but to each their own. Some people are just more cool with semen than others, and that's fine. You should never have to do anything you're uncomfortable with.
If you're willing to at least give it a try, I would reccommend telling him that you want to do it once, to see how it is for you, with no guarantee of it becoming a regular thing. If you feel gross afterwards, then boom--done. And he'll have to deal with it. On the other hand, you might actually decide that you enjoyed it and want to repeat it on occasion. As long as your guy is generally a respectful, understanding person, and he doesn't pressure you into doing things, you should have no reason to feel degraded. Best of luck!
For all im sure guys do or have done for you , you should gtfo with that logic.
Why are girls doing these demeaning sexual acts? Don't you know girls have all the power sexually? If you don't like it don't do it! Just because it is depicted on porn does not mean you have to do it. Unless you're ambition is to be a porn star. Having said that I think its okay do do something outrageous once a year for his birthday.
I personally love it!! Especially when it runs down all over my face all the way down to my full, plumpy lips. Mmhm I would love to bathe in it!! Yummy :)
I think it's so degrading, it makes me want to cry. Why would a man be so much as an idiot to do that to his woman or any woman? Does he think were porn star/hookers?
I think it's embarrassing, and a man should make sure a woman is comfortable before doing any sex act!
I also think he wants to be giving you a facial there should be an even exchange of special presents for you! Say NO, you'll regret it, and I'm sure you will not enjoy it. Tell him to stop watching porn too. I think it's about ownership not enjoyment!
SINGLEMINDED PERSPECTIVE B-B-B-B-B-B-BULLSHIT. Leave to each their own. If he was FORCING it on her, and sai dhe woulnd't have sex with her or would dump her otherwise, then you could say that.
You're just overly defensive and not confident in who you are more then you think it's degrading, if you ask me.