About 20 seconds. Thirty if you're lucky.
First-time sex is notoriously awful. It usually improves with practice, though, so don't be discouraged. And please--please--wear a condom.
Good luck.
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What should I expect of our "first time" if my boyfriend is a virgin and I'm not?
Cary McNeal answered His First Time's question on September 14, 2011 10:20 AM
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Perfect answer
Thanks, Dr. T.
HAHAHA! Great answer and so true. In those types of situations (ahem), I always felt like most of the major action had already taken place before I even showed up!
On the bright side, the recovery time for newbies is pretty brief.
I recently deflowered a guy and we went at it for like 20 minutes, he couldn't orgasm. We have gone at it two more times and he still can't orgasm. I know it's not me, I'm as experienced as it gets. But damn boy.
So they don't all end in 20-30 sec.
That's a self-centered response. He was a virgin and couldn't finish so he could very possibly be having some insecurity issues when in fact a more experience partner, who would encountered the same circumstance, would chalk it up to you just not doing it for him. Grab a piece of that humble pie and ask him what you could do to help him get off instead of assuming it's not you because you're "experienced."
True. In that case she might be pleasantly surprised.
He's probably masturbated a lot before, got used to his hand to get off, kinda got desensitized to the vagina.
Good thing though, that conditioning can be broken...
Have had sex with two virgins. Both times with was over before I knew it even started....
If you get him off a while before you actually have sex he could actually last for longer than just a few seconds. I recently had sex with my boyfriend and it was his first time and not mine. Honestly I think I was more nervous than he was (but he might have just been good at hiding it!) Anyways, it might have some awkward moments, but if you're really into the guy your with- trust me it can still be a good experience. And obviously it gets better too, we've been having fun trying things out together and figuring out what works for each of us.
Relax and have fun! (and absolutely use a condom-- that will help make things last a little longer too)