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What should I say when my boyfriend asks me if I think he's more attractive than [insert attractive male celebrity]? I don't want to lie and say yes, but I don't want to say no and hurt his feelings. He has told me that he thinks I'm the most attractive girl, and I feel bad that I can't say the same back.

I mean... how often does this conversation come up? Is he constantly asking you to put him against Leonardo or Channing? It is a forgone conclusion that most of us aren't as hot as (insert attractive male celebrity). If we were, guess what, we wouldn't be managing that Denny's or working mid-level finance jobs. We'd be male celebrities. The fact that your man thinks you are the queens t*tties when it comes to looks is fantastic. But you don't need to (nor should he expect) a knee jerk confirmation that he is too. He is obviously attractive enough that you date him and sleep with him. Where is it written that he should out look David Beckham?

Lastly, if all else fails, use some Disney magic on him. Tell him, sweety, everyone has a unique look. No two men or women are created equally. That's the beauty of life. His sexiness is reserved for him. Just as say Paul Walker, Bradley Cooper, Ryan Reynolds and Jerry Seinfeld's are only theres.

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sweetlatina47

I would just tell him he's hotter. I don't think he REALLY cares if he's hotter or not - he just wants to be number one to you. Maybe he's feeling insecure? ( testing you to see if you'll leave him for another guy.) Also, he thinks YOU are the most attractive out there......because he loves you. You may not be as hot as a celeberty either. He's just saying it to tell you no matter who he looks at - you have him. to HIM you're the hottest because he loves you. If you love him just say it back :S What's the big deal? It could also be that you talk a lot about people you think are hot to him.....celebs and friends. I once asked my ex if I was as hot as some of my friends or where I measured up to get an idea because he talked casually about how hot one of my friends are. He didn't say hot but that she's perfect and looks like a model. I have a tendency where my mind tricks me and makes me think who ever I'm in love with is the HOTTEST guy! More than a celeberty! I think I do this to be loyal and keep my thoughts and actions safe. I don't even want to think any other guy could be cuter. Because I don't want to cheat! Not that I would but this helps me. If I see a guy that's REALLY hot and he's interested in me and might be a little cuter or come really close ( close to model looks or celeberty litterally but just a guy next door.) I instantly find something on purpose I don't like. I'll compare mentally. " Yeah but my guy does _ or he has _this better!" A better smile or something he does with his eyes that this guy doesn't do. I do this because I 'click' with a lot of people and to be honest A LOT of guys like me. Some of them are really hot or really smart. My ex was really hot too. But in order to value him the most I have to believe he's the BEST out there at least to me. I have to think he's the HOTTEST, NICEST, Funniest and most intelligent guy on planet earth. Doesn't matter if he's not. He could be average to the world but I have to think that everytime I see him I'll want to pull his pants down and have sex for 3 hours or that I'll never lose interest - ever. Or that he's the most interesting guy I ever met. The only down side is that the guy usually gets cocky. The upside is he treats you good and lots of sex. Oh, and no cheating! Sounds about right!

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sweetlatina47

I don't recommend saying thee sexieness is only reserved for that particular celeb. That's like saying he's like everyone else! Why on earth would you stay with a guy who's like everyone else? I litterally thought my ex was hotter than any celeberty....litterally. That's how much in love I was. It wasn't a lie for me either. The way he walked was hotter to me, certain facial expressions itrigued him, or his made face and how when he got mad at me his voice got hotter. Love is powerful it's the best way to be attracted. To me he stood out the most. Put him in a group with guy models 6-packs who everyone thinks is HOT ad they can have any woman - and I would still think he was the hottest. Because I know he could love me the best. It's also important to like your sex life. that builds attraction too.

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I tell my bloke that if I had to choose between him and any other being on the planet I'd still choose him. Therefore he is the most attractive man ever. Maybe your bf just wants to hear that instead of worrying you'll trade him in for a better model when the opportunity presents itself!

chrissie1101

oh i hate this question too. its the guy's version of "does this dress make me look fat?" it's a trap. don't answer it lol last time i did i got a 30 minute rant that made me write a mental note that it's best to keep my thoughts on anderson cooper to myself for future reference lol

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Stop dating 14 year olds!

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sounds like he has confidence issues, especially if this has come up more than once...

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First of all - he's totally full of it when he says you're the most attractive girl in the world physically. You're not - it simply is not possible. He thinks that it's bad to find other people sexually attractive so he pretends he doesn't.

Second - sounds like a confidence issue to me. Why does he care if you thing Channing Tatum is a god among men? Tatum is smokin hot and you are allowed to think so. You're allowed to fantasize about him. Why does your bf feel the need to be told he is more attractive than someone he damnwell knows he is not more attractive then? Why can't be just be happy knowing that you find him attractive inside and out? Super lame.

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