What type of relationship (lasted 4 days) do you think this was-
He ignored me face to face- yet messaged everyday
Slept over but never cuddled or kissed (or had sex)
Messaged other girls while with me, yet got defensive and came into my work to still be "friends" when I called the whole thing off?
Mystery Man answered this question on September 11, 2011 1:40 AM
You got played by someone with all the grace and maturity of a baby hippo.
Um.. that was a friendship, not a relationship. Next question.
I gotta disagree, a friend wouldn't ignore you face to face, no friendship, no relationship, just a baby hippo
hmmm, he was bored, and needed a place to crash?
Agreed. A friend would at least act, well, like a friend!
Myst..., do women act like this? Seriously?
They do.
And it's women like that, who don't have the wherewithall to either: a) figure the scenario out, or b) tell a guy like that to take a hike, who give the rest of us a bad name.
I admire the decorum you guys use - even when someone is blunt or sarcastic. I am literally unable to read some of these questions without launching into some low-grade tirade, directed at my web browser.
I'm thinking he might be gay...?
Hey was trying you on, and exerting power over someone.
(or is homeless and needed a place to crash).
Excuse me?! Baby hippos are cute! Eh, they could be smelly but a whole lot more loveable than this dude.
P.S.
I love hippos. :)
no he had a place to stay, hes really wealthy and very succesful. Hes dated heaps of FHM girls and ZOO magazine girls so im thinking i might have been a handbag
hes very succesful and wealthy. Hes dated alot of FHM girls and ZOO girls so I was probably just a handbag. I was very lovely to him and would cook him meals and ask him questions about him but he never would ask anything about me and would be very hot/cold. Like he wanted to like me but didnt know how. He was very insecure. Guess I just wanted to know if he was interested in me or whether or not I was just someone who was filling in the space.
Love, I have dated girls from FHM, ZOO, Playboy, Cosmo and Penthouse. Some for a couple nights, some for a couple months. Like I say - I was a lot of a jerk when I was younger.
Eventually, you get sick of cotton candy and want an honest to God steak. Steak is pretty tough to digest if you are used to candy. Still worth it though.
Call yourself a handbag again and I am gonna growl at you. His problems ain't yours, so don't claim 'em as your own. You just head out and find someone who likes you as you, and who preferably knows their a*s from their elbow.
And yes - I know - a heck of a lot of the girls in the various mags are smart, educated and very able. Probably know it better than the ones who will want to criticise. I married one.
HeHe. Spoken like a true man, MM.
Thanks for your time Mystery Man, very wise and honest.
I JUST went through a really similar thing!! It was only a few months long, but it was a roller coaster of crap from his end like you wouldn't believe. and If I tried to explain my concerns, I was told I was "being dramatic". haha. "the maturity and grace of a baby hippo" is simply a PERFECT way to describe guys like this. Just perfect.
Um.. that was a friendship, not a relationship. Next question.
I gotta disagree, a friend wouldn't ignore you face to face, no friendship, no relationship, just a baby hippo
hmmm, he was bored, and needed a place to crash?
Agreed. A friend would at least act, well, like a friend!
Myst..., do women act like this? Seriously?
They do.
And it's women like that, who don't have the wherewithall to either: a) figure the scenario out, or b) tell a guy like that to take a hike, who give the rest of us a bad name.
I admire the decorum you guys use - even when someone is blunt or sarcastic. I am literally unable to read some of these questions without launching into some low-grade tirade, directed at my web browser.
I'm thinking he might be gay...?
Hey was trying you on, and exerting power over someone.
(or is homeless and needed a place to crash).
Excuse me?! Baby hippos are cute! Eh, they could be smelly but a whole lot more loveable than this dude.
P.S.
I love hippos. :)
no he had a place to stay, hes really wealthy and very succesful. Hes dated heaps of FHM girls and ZOO magazine girls so im thinking i might have been a handbag
hes very succesful and wealthy. Hes dated alot of FHM girls and ZOO girls so I was probably just a handbag. I was very lovely to him and would cook him meals and ask him questions about him but he never would ask anything about me and would be very hot/cold. Like he wanted to like me but didnt know how. He was very insecure. Guess I just wanted to know if he was interested in me or whether or not I was just someone who was filling in the space.
Love, I have dated girls from FHM, ZOO, Playboy, Cosmo and Penthouse. Some for a couple nights, some for a couple months. Like I say - I was a lot of a jerk when I was younger.
Eventually, you get sick of cotton candy and want an honest to God steak. Steak is pretty tough to digest if you are used to candy. Still worth it though.
Call yourself a handbag again and I am gonna growl at you. His problems ain't yours, so don't claim 'em as your own. You just head out and find someone who likes you as you, and who preferably knows their a*s from their elbow.
And yes - I know - a heck of a lot of the girls in the various mags are smart, educated and very able. Probably know it better than the ones who will want to criticise. I married one.
HeHe. Spoken like a true man, MM.
Thanks for your time Mystery Man, very wise and honest.
I JUST went through a really similar thing!! It was only a few months long, but it was a roller coaster of crap from his end like you wouldn't believe. and If I tried to explain my concerns, I was told I was "being dramatic". haha. "the maturity and grace of a baby hippo" is simply a PERFECT way to describe guys like this. Just perfect.