I'm with you. One hunred percent.
I've never understood the whole concept of lingerie. For me, it's just like non-physical foreplay. Sure women can look sexy in lingerie, but for me, chicks look just as sexxy in a wifebeater and boyshorts, which is probably one-tenth the cost and purchaseable anywhere underwear are sold.
I've heard most people say that lingerie is to make the woman feel sexy. And that makes sense, but at the end of the day, there is nothing sexxier to me than a naked woman. Nothing. No amount of lace is going to make me hotter for her than seeing nude boobs.
It's all a matter or preference. Some men and women love it. I just don't. So I won't knock anybody's hustle or piss in anybody's snow, but I'm not a big fan of the lingerie.
You know what is also really sexy? Seeing a woman wearing one of my t-shirts and her panties. That is sexxy and does more for me than anything Frederick's or Victoria's Secret could ever sell.
A lot of my female friends complain about how they only get to wear it for a bit, and tear it off for sex. I love the look on my guy's face when I'm wearing something scandalous, and he prefers me to keep it on the whole time!!
With lingerie it really all depends on what you and your partner like. It's meant to be fun, sexy, provocative, and out of the ordinary. It's also all about finding the right kind that not only enhances your own unique natural curves, but also a piece that makes you feel confident and sexy! :). Yeah it seems worthless to go through all that kind of trouble and money, just to have it off in a matter of 30 seconds; but have a little fun!! Make him keep it on you, let him only be allowed to unhook one eyelet at your say.
I was never really into the lingerie thing until I was with my current bf. Me wearing it and seeing his reaction only made me more confident in having it on! Best part of me wearing something like that for him was, when he took me to dinner but suggested I keep it on. I wore regular clothing but only him and I knew what i was truly wearing underneath my clothing. It hightened the moment and made it more erotic. Having him picture me in the lingerie while eating dinner at a new middle class restaurant only made me wearing it sexier. I got to wear it for at least an hour before it was dismantled off me! Lol.
Point is have fun with it see how you can make your man keep a fixed thought of you in Lingeire!! Nothing is hotter than a woman in lingerie who is confident in what she wears or him being the only guy who knows what really is hidden beneath a womans clothing, and the challenge of dismantling that lace of armor!!