If you're not having sex, it means he wants sex.

If you're having sex, it means he wants to continue having sex because he's unable to find anyone else at the moment to have sex with.

Be wary of people who use the word love if it's not directed at a family member, spouse, or to be engaged. They're either infatuated or manipulative.

Sorry, it's safer to watch what someone does -- how they behave -- rather than to just listen to what they say. Hard to believe, but sometimes people don't always mean everything they say. Crazy, I know! And yeah, they may have strong feelings but may not have enough experience to know what those feelings really are.

Take it as a compliment, but don't take it to the bank.

It means "I love you", as long as his actions fit the words.

oh i hate those two words

seriously..

a guy said that to me WAY too soon, let's just say i didn't respond the way he wanted and now he doesn't want anything to do with me

At this point, we will refer to Extreme's "More Than Words" for further answers of this topic. "I love you" can be said for a wide number of reasons, but a person should be showing their love as well.

At this point we will refer to Extreme's "More Than Words" for further answers on this topic. "I love you" can be said for a wide number of reasons, but a person should be showing their love as well.

I absolutely believe it's true, i love you means i love you, as long as his actions show as well!

I had an older man say he loved me after two years of watching and nurturing me in a work setting, then he took it a step further, not for sex, but I believe
he meant it It was spontaneous. out of the blue, in a park setting.

Okay i came here because im in love with this guy and i am so happy with him when he is with me he doesnt even glance at another girl he loves me and i trust him he is so amazing and i agree that if a guy says i love you first before you do and doesnt take it back then he/she loves you
(Btw i love my country man haha)

Okay, so here's the story to my problem can someone tell me what they think?

Okay, so I was like 15 and there was this boy who I still have feelings for and I'm 18 now and I never really been in an actual relationship before ... and when I was 15 I told him that I loved him and I'm not 100% sure if me as a girl should have said it first because as far as I'm now aware that the guy/boy/man should have said it first but my emotions were getting to me and I thought by telling him how I felt would have brought us closer but it seems as if it didn't because whenever he was around his friends (my cousins) he would act like a womanizer I guess to make his friends think he wasn't into the relationship phase and he was only 16 at the time and I was 15 ... then later down the line any time I would flirt in front of him he would seem kinda angry but tryna not make it show as if he didn't like/care about me .... and after a while I moved away from the area where him and my cousins would hang-out at all the time ... and within a month's time he was involved in a inccident which almost took his life .... and when I went to the hospital to look for him he said "I Love you" ... I was kinda shocked that he said that then he said " you hear" and I just nodded my head. But because I was never in a relationship and still isn't I don't know the signs as to weither he does like/love me!

What a lovely day for a 414025! SCK was here

My bf just told me that he loved me and I ignored it and I pushed him off. I was just in shock. Ijust didny know if to belueve him or not cause everyone throws it as in hello. He texted me nd said after last night we shoulf stop talking but later try he night he texted me and said he shouldnt let us go but that I fucked up and will talj tomorrow

A friend and neighbour I have known for 15 years (we are both married) has said this to me 3 times in the past 18 months, the last 6 weeks ago. He turned, smiled, looked me straight in the eyes and said it. An affair is not on the radar for either of us but there is a very strong attraction. Do you think he meant what he said?

a guy said it to me i was like okkk because he had dumped me earlyer and i left it at that is he just ealouse i have been dating other guys and he cant get one girl?

I have this boy i'm dating well i'm 13 && he's 14,&& he tells me he loves me all the time! He always says it first i just really want to know what it means when a boy says it first i might be young but i really like this dude.

say i just started hanging out with this guy and the very next day he says he loves me what does that mean?

lolz... you are too young to say I love you to someone. You don't know what love is and neither does he. I think that if an older gentleman in his late 20's or even in his 30's is saying this then he probably means it because why would he throw it out there if he didn't. I have a weird situation going myself. This guy that I told I loved who is 37 listened and was ok with it. We talk very well together and get along great. I was at his house one day and we had a really good conversation. I asked him to rub my shoulders and he did. He never tried anything else at all. After that we talked for a couple hours. Anyway when I was leaving that night I said I'm gonna go ahead and go i'll see you later. He responded with Ok I love you baby. I turned back around and said what making sure that I heard what he said. I asked what did you just say? He said as he looked me straight in the eye I said I love you baby. I simply said yeah whatever i'll see you later. He just laughed. I didn't understand that. I'm 24, and this guy and I have been talking since I was 19. We aren't dating and never have. That's a long story, but he always seems to be jealous if he knows I'm talking to another guy. He looks me in the eye when we talk. He hugs me and kisses me a lot. He rubs my shoulders which most guys don't like to do at all. I don't know if he says it I would say he means it, but I don't know either. The guy that said this to me said this the same night we talked about love and he said that a guy only has one kind of love. He either loves you or he doesnt and he wont throw it around. I said a girl has a friend love and an i'm in love with you love that she'll tell a guy... So does anyway have any ideas on my situation?

so there is this boy and i really like him but he has a gf but before he started dating his gf he asked me out and i rejected him because at the time i did not really like him as much as i do now. so now that he has a girlfriend me and him talk on the down low and we kissed and he says i love yhu and i say i love yhu back and he even said that he wil dump his gf for me.. in text messages he says i hope me and yhu last a long time....i love dis boy. eventually his gf found out about us kissing and she still did not break up wiff him. they dont even really talk like that but she still stay with him

I met this guy we was talking for 2 weeks n told me he loved me i told him i couldnt say this back bc i didnt feel that way i told him that i really liked him n could maybe in the future love him but just didnt know yet well he didnt even care that i didnt say it back he was just like thats fine i wouldnt want u to say it n not mean it well we continued talking and i did say it well some stuff happened i asked him if we was gonna be together(date) or not n he said we just coudlnt bc it would be harder when he leaves for the marine core in Oct so my heart was just broke n i tured away n i started dating someone else n so did he but we met up not to long ago n he told me no matter who hes with or where he goes in life he'll love me more then anyone till the day he dies and i said oh yeah then how come you can date this other girl but not me and he said shes just a temporary..idk what to do about all of this bc i mean i feel like if he truly loves me he would wanna be with me no matter if he was leaving in Oct or not i told him i would wait on him ne advice?

so i was datin this guy when i was 13 & he was 15 and we dated for bout to years and he broke up with me last summer and now after i dated other people and he did he asked me back out and says he loves me and always has should i believe him?

ok, i need help. I was talking to this guy over facebook and knew some of my friends so i started texting him. Hes very nice and sweet so i decided to go on a date with him. (btw were both 18) and i think we just were having too much fun being silly and jumping/wrestling on the trampoline and we layed down and looked at the stars he said, "i know this sounds crazy, but ive never been this happy before, and i think i love you". he had a hard time saying it because i think he knew it would shock me. I just smiled and didnt say anything back. I really like this guy but Ive only said i love you once to a boyfriend and it was the guy i lost my virginity to and ive known him for 2 years. so i need help, what should i do about this guy if i really like him but im a strong believer that you dont say those words unless you mean it. ???