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When a guy slaps you on the arm what does that mean?

It means there's a bug on your arm, and he's trying to kill it. Or you are about to get hit by a car and he's trying to get your attention. Or he's eight and has a crush on you, and the only way he knows to express his feelings is through pinching and hitting you. Otherwise, he shouldn't be slapping you on the arm.

It might be that he has a crush on you, but he still acts like a five-year-old. I'm assuming this guy is young (otherwise he's "cray cray") and is a volatile cocktail of hormones and immaturity who can only relate to girls through hair-pulling, arm slaps and name-calling. (I'm assuming this winner also calls you names.)

So call him out. Say, "Stop hitting me. I'm not going out with you." Watch as he freezes up and runs away. If you like him, talk to him privately and ask him why he keeps slapping you. Maybe it's the start of a wonderful relationship. If not, slap him back. Harder. And then walk away.
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My guy was ALWAYS hitting my arm to get my attention because I wouldn't give him the time of day. He only had to hit my arm 5 times before I actually looked at him and saw how cute he was. Now we've been together for 1 year!

Nick Nadel

I guess it works sometimes! Maybe arm punching is the new "What's your sign?"

ana.xo

My friend who i had mutual feelings for, would slap me, grab me from the back, and slap my arm or grab me by the wrist, especially that time when he slapped me three times on my face, because i made out with his friend, and he was upset, even though he has a girlfriend.
Then i finally came around and called him drunk (worst mistake) and told him i liked him, and all, and he told me not to cry, then i heard he said i was dumb and shit

idk too drunk ha

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Well it happen to me today at work when a woman I really like awhile lot slapped me on my arm for useing her phone.I don't know why she did it but she met it in a nice way.she knows I I'm crazy about her cuz I told her.she is 49 years old and I'm 36 years old but I am in love with this woman hopfully someday soon we will be together.

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Your totally wrong. My friend hits me and he does it just to big me cause it's technically rude to hit girls. Iran what kind of guy hits a girl to get a bug????

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