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when a guy sleeps with you on the first day what does that mean?

He is a normal male and you spread easier than Land O' Lakes.

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Hahaha, absolutely.

If you're a woman who has to even ASK that question, you're not only easy, you sure as Hell can't be all that bright either. Sheesh.

goodkarmagirl

I thought it means there's gonna be 6 more weeks of winter......wait......what?

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It means the pair of you wanted to screw, and then you did.

If you're asking whether that's a good or bad sign, it's no use asking a website, you have to actually ask the guy in question. Either he couldn't wait to make a move because he finds you passionate and beautiful and brilliant and you'll spend the rest of your lives together making passionate and beautiful and brilliant babies or he wanted a quick roll in the hay, not expecting anything more.

Sigh.

Excellent answer to a dumb question.

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In my case I prefer the first option.

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Haha gotta love MM's responses! Just classic!

I can so totally relate to that question too...

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Well it worked out well for me, still together one year later and counting!

Mystery Man

Me too.

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Me three!!!! :D love this

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Me...four? We are still strong after four years.

Teakany

that sounds so insulting.. why are women always looked down on for having sex on the first date but men it's "normal"? smh.

sex on the second date worked out for me. still together 7 months and happy. all 3 of my brothers long term ladies even started out as FWBs.

It depends on the guy weather its a good or a bad thing. coulda wanted a roll in the hay or something more. gotta ask him, or wait an see. I see no point insulting the poor girl :(

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It's that old double standards. We like to feel our sex is a conquest resulting from our overwhelming sexiness. So when a man has lots of partners, or sex on a first date, he's seen as being super sexy. But, if a woman gives in too quickly, she takes that "prize" from the man and in general we don't like that. I mean, really, how is it a measure of my masculinity or sexiness if a woman just "gives" it away? So, women who has many partners or quick to put out is degraded and put down, due to hurting male ego.

In my opinion its a foolish archaic notion, we're not animals in the jungle anymore, we're sentient beings.

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MM, usually I love your answers... But dissing her for getting her mack on? C'mon seriously?? SInce your relationship stemmed from a one night stand, couldn't you have mentioned that? Or that's it's COMPLETELY fine for a woman to wanna spread her butter?? Sheesh, your comment was meant to be witty but it just came across as jerky.

Mystery Man

Well, to be fair, mine wasn't exactly a one night stand. She slept in my bed. I had to work all night, and, in the tiny single room apartment, just kept glancing at her while I worked.
Call it an early morning sex call - but I was already totally lost before I got into bed.

Questions that have "what does it mean" in them are always obvious.

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It really doesn't really matter when you sleep with a guy.
If that is all they are after, then they will drop you like a hot potato after they get what they want.
If they are actually interested in getting to know you, then they will take the time to get to know you.

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Yess! Very true!! This has sorta just happened to me. I met someone who claimed he loved me and wanted to "make love" to me he was very passionate but I didn't feel the same way and I said I wanted to take it SLOOOWW and he didn't have the time or patience for me and I didn't give it to hime cuz I respect myself and others! So yeah, it pretty much means that he's just to screw you over!!!

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