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When receiving blow jobs, do most men expect it in and of itself, or as a pre-sex thing? I usually go down on my guy prior to sex, but have him finish inside me. Just giving a blow job is rare. Is that strange?

No, not too strange at all. Most couples that engage in sex consider sexual acts that lead up to sex, as just that: appetizers, starters, pleasure builders.

In other words, for most couples, sex is the endgame, and the rest is foreplay. Of course, there are always exceptions to the norm and they are important. if menstruation or a penis related injury puts one of you on the sidelines, there's nothing wrong with a him going down on you till the end, or a hand job that ends with a spew, or r a lovely make out session against a large oak tree after a moonlit walk around a lake.
 
 What's more, if you are new to each other, its perfectly normal to go all the way with him oral style - sort of strutting your skills and desires.  
 
And, even couples that aren't knew to each other can benefit from switching things up and climaxing each other in ways other than intercourse. I call it "throw back sex" or, "Excuse me,  I only go to 3rd base" night. It's a means of widening your sexual spectrum and shaking things up -- much like having cereal for dinner.

"Ah, man chicken and rice again, ma?" " Nope, tonight were having frosted flakes and blowjobs!"

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