No, it does not always mean he's cheating on you! If you're asking your guy if he's cheating on you, you're doubting his loyalty...but why? Is it his behavior, or is it really an internal problem with you?

Now, if this guy is spending less time with you, not answering your calls, spending a lot of time with a "friend", or pretty much doing anything suspicious like that, yes. He's probably cheating on you.

But if you're racking your brain trying to find reasons why you think he's cheating, and you can't come up with any real reasons for why you started that fight, this could be a "baggage issue". We have a tendency to carry our emotional baggage over from one relationship to the next. Sometimes really bad things happen to us, and it takes a long time to get to a point where we can trust somebody again. And sometimes we're so worried of getting hurt like that again, that we're always on the defensive, building things up in our heads, and acting like crazy people.

But that's not what a relationship is. A relationship is based on mutual trust. You've just got to jump off the edge, and hope to God that the other person is going to catch you. So if this guy is being a sneaky asshole, run for your life. But if this argument with him was the result of a "baggage issue", get your mind out of the past, and into the here and now.

#1 up there's a bit of a blanket sweep, isn't it? I won't deny that it's an effective distraction technique for people who DO cheat, but I know plenty of loyal guys who would be genuinely offended if their partners accused them of cheating. My flatmate, in particular, considers trust the only thing he requires in a relationship. If a girl questions that trust for no good reason, he leaves. Extreme, I know, I'd probably just laugh it off if it was me, but whatever floats your boat.
However, if he's given you plenty of other reasons to be suspicious, AND he's being evasive, it's probably time to re-evaluate your priorities. They should probably move in a direction that doesn't involve him. Don't let his bastardry turn YOU into something won't like.

So, men don't get pissed at being accused of something terrible which they didn't do?

Fuck you, Mystery Man. You have terrible advice.

I think mystery man is right and we just dont want to admit it who better to tell the truth than a man who is trying to be honest! face it girls men are assholes!

I agree with Mystery Man. Although there are always exceptions, I can't see why anyone would become enraged if their partner asks them if they've been cheating. I'd be surprised and I'd want to know why they think that, but I wouldn't yell and scream over it...

While it's normal to get offended when someone accuses you of cheating, I agree with MM -- if the accused gets overly angry, it's pretty much guranteed that they cheated. Sadly, I've seen it.

Ive seen it too. I lived it. My ex used to CONSTANTLY accuse me of cheating, even though there really wasnt a possible way I could.(I wouldnt anyways, I know how it feels and id never do it to anyone) It turned out that he was definately cheating on me, and with several women. So I agree with the fact that if he gets really angry over a simple, right to know question (ESPECIALLY if you have evidence or just a gut feeling) then yes he is mostlikely cheating

my boyfriends friend yold me he was going out with another gir and i got so mad. i called him when i got home and asked him if he wanted to hang out and he said maybe. so after that i told him delaney told me that rylan is dating another girl and is cheating on me and it go where di d you hear thaat and she told me i didn't hear it i just saw it . so sorry if this wa s not the answer for your question and sorry for wasting your time..