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Whenever Im on dating sites,TONS of men seem open to a three way relationship,open relationships, etc. What gives?Even the nerdiest guy possible states they are open to it. I know about the nature of men(more ladies, more babies to pass on their genes, etc) then does that mean that monogamy really has no real meaning?

Nah, they are just total horn dogs, totally open to the idea of watching you getting it on with another (presumably attractive) woman. The idiots don't realize that two women to satisfy in bed is at least 4 times the performance anxiety and stress of just one (don't ask, OK? Just take that as the voice of experience and move on.).

It is crap. We all know it is crap and accept that, just like we know that the profiles only bear a very distant relationship to the actual person they are meant to describe.

It is fairly harmless crap - as long as you don't actually believe it. Pick one of these guys for a relationship, then express the slightest interest in rocking the world of another guy and watch Mr. "Totally Open" Nerd turn into a ragingly possessive Neanderthal. Of course, if you are interested in another woman - he'll watch.

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rab09011

Haha! That last part reminds me of a conversation I had with my boyfriend.
He was absolutely okay with me doing stuff with other girls...as long as he could at least watch...or preferably join. But when I suggested that, in fairness, I should be able to join in whenever he and one of his "bromances" did anything, he turned into that possessive Neanderthal that MM referenced, saying that I "belonged to" him and only him.
We have since agreed to keep our relationship mutually closed ;P

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How about when the guy wants to watch you with another guy?? What does that mean??

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