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while having sex he said to me this is my pussy and dont be giving it to nobody else

Possessive and untrusting little rat, isn't he.

While I can appreciate the sentiment, I very much dislike the way he phrased it. He don't own you. Nobody does, except yourself. Remember that.

Now, I ain't gonna slate him for what he said, some guys are not that good on the word front. The dude is worried you might go out and cheat. Either he has problems or thinks you have. With a one line question, how would I know?
If this guy is your man, well he should spend a couple hours reading Hallmark cards and learn a wee bit of romance.
You might want to grab his junk next time you have sex and throw his words back at him - see how he likes it.

I will say though, your body. Your heart. Your pussy. You bestow them as you wish. No one has the right to change that save you.

Just dislike intensely possessive guys.

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7 Comments

Tariana

Ahaha. I'd be more worried if he told me it's ok to share...

Although I do have to admit, MM, you GuySpeak pips do get a lot of hilarious questions/phrases.

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Maybe he was trying a little dominance play possibly? one of his friends idiot suggestions? a lot of times kinky things fail in bed. my ex put my hand on his throat during sex once (we were into rough stuff). but I'm more submissive so it was uncomfortable and I took it away.

thats the only non-arsehole reasoning I can see. other then that, maybe he;s just a posessive arse face like MM said.

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People say weird stuff in the middle of sex! I think maybe before getting too freaked out sit him down, tell him what he said and how it sounded to you and see what he has to say be way of explanation or clarification. Then you can explain that over-possesiveness is a big turn-off. Like Tiki said, maybe he was just trying to be kinky and it came out a bit wrong.

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So funny since that is exactly what my wife says about hers, that it's mine and mine alone. Of course she also insists my body is hers to ravage.

Jlove

Guys just like to say stuff like that during sex. I've had variations of that said to me before. Usually I think it's meant to be sexy. Don't take him seriously about the comment, it just means he cares.

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I'm pretty sure you were fkcing my ex. He said that all the time. But, I like it rough. Granted, we're not together anymore. It seems the sweet possessive controlling nothings I enjoyed while we were having sex, translated to personality traits I loathed while our clothes were on. If you like it roll with it. If you don't, which I'm assuming is the case since you wrote in, bounce.

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This sounds exactly like the guy Im having sex with right now. I like it though. He makes me tell him its his pussy, and he tells me its his big black dick and that turns me on like crazy! Enjoy it. It means he wants ur pussy for him, and him alone. Its hot. Its possessive. Its strong. mmm

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