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Why are guys such a##holes? I mean seriously every one of them either start out as one or end up being an a##!!!

Every one of us is an a##hole? Really? Good lady, I question your scientific methods.

Your question isn't really a question, of course. It's a statement full of anger, disappointment, and hopelessness. If it really were a question, I'd have to respond that, no, not all men are a##holes. Sorry, I can't reinforce your prejudicial bleat.

And you're expecting me to tell you that all men aren't a##holes. Either because you want to hear from someone that you're wrong or because your statement was also an invitation to fight. But, yeah, not all men are a##holes. Many are. But I find that a##hole knows no race, gender, religion or creed.

Men are not all a##holes because not all women are b!tches. Granted, alot of women are totally shallow, cruel, and disingenuous b!tches. But not all.

Lincoln wrote that if you look for the bad in people, you will find it. Same goes for a##holes. They're not hard to find if you're looking. I dare you to look harder for people who aren't.

And a warning: sometimes the universe gives us what we put out there.

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Dovey

I see a heart that's been shattered a few times. Pulling yourself out of bitterness is hard, but don't let the load of limp-dicked morons on this earth stop you from finding a good guy. Assholes aren't worth anything, so don't give them anything.

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not all guys are a##holes. my bf is a total sweetheart even after being together for years. the good ones are hard to find sometimes but it's worth the wait. don't fall for the first guy that smiles at u. I know many girls who date a guy after knowing him for just a few days then regret it for much longer.

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well we have been friends for 3 years or more so i thought i knew him pretty well but i'm glad you and your bf are happy!!

jude

JDV is right, it's people in general who are asscakes, not only men or only women. Just ask anybody in retail.

jude

As anyone in customer service knows, dingleberries are not restricted to males. Every human being alive has their own little hangups and bitchy moments.

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i was the one that asked this question and you were right i was very upset when i asked. I was dating a guy that i'd been friends with for about 3 years and then all of a sudden he just stopped talking to me and now him and my best friend are dating so i was mad and i thought he was the one when we meet he was a good christian guy and i have a daughter and he didnt mind that he was very excited to meet her but didnt get the chance yet.

jude

Sorry that happened to you, girl.
However, something to keep in mind: Most Christian guys ARE going to hold it against you that you have a kid, whether you made a bad choice a few years ago or you're no longer with your husband for one reason or another. Even if he says he doesn't mind, he does, and the more strict the religion, the more it's going to be held against you. It's the rare Christian guy who will be kind to both you and your kiddo.

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