Attraction is based on polarity. You have to have a positive charge and a negative charge in order to keep the tension between two particles/beings.

Male energy tends to be action oriented, doing, achieving a goal, pursuing, initiating, etc. Female energy tends to be more receptive, receiving, creating, nurturing, sensual. If a woman puts off too much masculine energy in a relationship she basically repels the male. Two negatives or two positives repel each other. You need a negative and a positive to maintain the attraction.

My guess, is that you are possibly putting out more masculine energy killing the attraction. If you out do a man in the man department, his ego will recoil.

Hahaaaa, this gave me a giggle. It's funny because it's true!

Ha! Must be a rough life.

Easy, femme fatale!
I am in favor of being confident and embracing yourself but I sense a little arrogance in your persona. Maybe THAT is what causes guys to run away from you. They don't cower before you, they just don't want to be with you.

Assuming this isn't a joke question, it's not your strength, intelligence, and beauty that repels men. It's your arrogance and superiority complex.

Us men have this strange need to act like men in order to feel manly. Much like you chicks having unrealistic standards of beauty that only a few can attain, us guys have unrealistic standards for being a man that only a few can attain. TV, movies, parents, friends and peers are constantly telling us we need to be strong, independent, dominant and stoic breadwinners to be manly.

An intelligent woman is better able to provide for herself, making it that much harder for a guy to feel he's living up to part of his role as a man. He needs to achieve more and become an even better provider to feel the same amount of "manly" that he would when dating her brain dead twin. Men feel insecure around intelligent and beautiful women the same way women would feel insecure around men that made them effectively fatter, uglier, smaller chested and less popular.

Mirror Mirror on the wall who's the fairest one of all? (giggle, snort)