While I will agree that many men do give up too easily on love nowadays – or at least that’s what women all tend to believe – I can flip this around to you: why do women fight so hard and long for love that isn’t good for them?
I think men and women have a problem. But I think part of it stems from how we pursue love in the first place. Most women start dating a man and at that point are ready to bet the farm on him regardless of whether or not she should. Men start dating a woman and are excited and lose interest as time progresses if things start going awry. Now, truth be told, men probably this piece right. Women seem to be hellbent on fitting a square peg into a round hole.
Men on the other hand, do seem to be ready to leave as soon as they THINK that what could be a circle may be a square. So while we don’t stick around for something that won’t work, we do tend to leave without ever really knowing.
The point is, there’s no balance in this equation which is the big issue. Women never know when to leave, and men always think its time to leave. So both men and women are stupid and will remain as such until we collectively acknowledge that we have a lot to learn.
And sweetheart, don’t think men are stupid because they leave you. Maybe they are the smart ones in your situation. Think about that.