Is it not possible that we are just really fond of memories? Why do you hate love?
By the way, I love a good disconnect. If a guy is asking you for a picture of yourself, and you send one of you in a parka and goggles, then what’s the big deal? He wants to see you at that moment. We live in the information age where everything happens in light speed and you can pretty nearly be living real time with somebody 2,000 miles away. And if a guy says its non-sexual, then he’s probably telling the truth. And do you know why?
If it was sexual, he’d ask you for some sexy-time pictures. He’d be looking for boob shots and crotch shots and everything in between. So what’s the problem with this? Guys like pictures (of both variety). We are a visual being. We like the qualitative stuff too, don’t get me wrong, but we really just like seeing you naked. But since we can’t have that, sometimes we just want to see your smile or whatever you’re doing at that moment even if it includes a wax figuring of Oprah.
Once again, what’s the beef with a dude asking for a picture of you NOT doing something lewd? Maybe you hate taking pictures, and if so, I feel sorry for your picture phone. It needs love. So once again, I ask you, why do you hate love?