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Why do guys marry the boring chick and only hook up with the fun one?

There's a very fine line between being "the fun one" and being "the crazy one." My guess is that you consider yourself the first thing and the guys you've been with consider you that second thing. And men don't ever marry that second thing.

I'm not asking you to change who you are, but I am asking you to assess who you are. Because things you think make you fun might give guys the impression that you're not "long-term material." So I'm going to put a list out there. If you do these things, there's a very good chance that guys will want to hook up with you and then immediately decide that you should never meet his parents.

The Mystery Man's Signs That You Think You're Fun But Guys Think You're Crazy
-You dance on tables at the bar, even if no one else is dancing on tables.
-You frequently retweet Kim Kardashian in the hopes that she will mention you.
-You are wearing more than two belts right now.
-You start conversations with new acquaintances with phrases like "So what's your deal?"
-You are holding a Solo cup in 50% of your Facebook photos.
-You have uttered the sentence "I quit bartending to focus more on Tattoo School, but I quit because fuck school."
-You don't have a problem peeing in public.
-You loudly shout whatever shot you're about to shoot ("Jäger, bitchesssssss!!!!")

If you're doing these things, you can't be surprised if men want you for one night or one week but never any more. When it comes to being marriage material, there needs to be a little bit of boring thrown into the mix - normal bedtimes, having a good job, no online screaming fights. Because "boring," by your definition, means stability. And even the most wild and crazy guys want (and need) some kind of stability and classiness in their future wives.

Don't change who you are. But do try to change your expectations about what men want.

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18 Comments

Nice&Sweet

Maybe the "fun" ones are easy targets sometimes, who knows!
Most things in life are subjective and who you consider boring might not be boring to someone else's eyes and people's perception of fun can differ too. The way I see it, if you're talking about just one particular guy who chose another chick over you, well go get someone who fits your needs.
Perhaps you're actually "fun" and the other girl is as you say "boring" but marriage is not based on the foundation of fun/boring times, it takes a lot more than that and you as an outsider cannot see those things.
It'd be a good idea if you analyze your definition of fun; too much fun could be the problem here. Gluck!

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I knew I was a weirdo. I married the fun one.

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A guy will fool around with practically any woman, but is more selective about who he puts in his life permanently. Marriage material is someone who fits all facets of his life and every social occasion, not just the wild times. If you aren't versatile, you're going to be the hookup.

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I had a talk about this with a guy friend and he explained that there are simply 2 general categories in which guys usually divide girls: girlfriend/wife material and hookup material. He pointed out as an example a girl we both know and he explained that she was fun (he would know...) but she would never be gf material for him because he knows she fools around even when she has a considerably "decent" bf.

This got me to thinking, and he's right... Think about it, even us girls have those categories for guys. There are some that we would be interested in only for the fun/wild ride and the nice ones our families would approve of. If a hybrid of the two exists someone please give him my number ASAP!

That said, I don't think these categories are permanent or definitive. If you happen to just want to have some fun, then it's a good thing that you're in the non-gf category, but if you want it to move into something more permanent, it is up to you to show him that you can also be more toned down/sensible/nurturing or whatever it is he's seeking for the long run.

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