Why do animals hunt prey?
Why do birds fly?
Why did everybody and their grandmother go see New Moon on opening weekend?
Some things are just natural. Men love sex. And what's not to love. There is so much T&A walking around at any given time, moving to and fro with every swaying step. In America especially, daily life is a constant reminder that sex exists and that if you're watching TV, you aren't having it.
Plus, men have this whole conquering mentality. There are a solid 3 billion women on this planet, of which about 2,999,999,999 don't really want to sleep with us, but the truth is, we don't accept that. There's a possibility that all women want to sleep with us so we have the opportunity for sex all the time.
Plus, sex is fun. It can be messy and sometimes come with unintended consequences, but that doesn't stop sex from the being the best release out there on the market.
But whoa there, Nelly. Women want sex all the time too! That's why relationships are so popular. That way women can get all the sex they want without having to worry about being labeled as a slore. Sex is great for the spirit and the mind.
Sex is responsible for wars and is responsible for peace. You can't push the button if you're "pushing the button".
In short, men want sex all the time because, really, what else is there?
I hope that the idea that men liking sex somehow makes them pigs would go away. Sex is great, of course men like sex.
And hopefully the idea that women who like sex or sluts will go away too. And when you think about it, what is so bad about it? Does a woman's eyes glow red when she comes into contact with too much semen?
Cause that would be cool.
Incidentally, 'testosterone' is the science answer. It's the hormone that makes both men and women get all riled up in the pants. The more testosterone pumping through your system, the more you want to make sex at other people. Estrogen, on the other hand, probably has something to do with making you cry at movies, and talk about your feelings. I don't know how you girls put up with it!
lol :)
Because it feels good.
I like having sex with my wife. It feels good, it makes me feel closer to her. It makes her feel good (at least that's what she says... hopefully she's not lying) and helps her feel closer to me.
The problem with sex is the guilt that has been heaped on it by all the Abraham religions.
Wow, so true... all of it.
I think you mean "guilt that has been mistakenly heaped on it by all the misinformed and/or messed up adherents to the Abrahamec religions."
In the Holy Text sex is regarded as created by God and good and he tells His creations to go do it, a lot. So even though God says sex is good, some of his followers got some stupid ideas in their heads that all pleasure was bad and messed things up pretty badly. Idiots, they were.
Actually, in the "Ancient World", as my Latin teacher calls it, political aliences were sealed with sex.
Come to think of it, that sounds like the most awkward type of sex to me; they couldn't really be themselves for fear that their partner would be thinking, "We just signed an allegiance with a nation that have a leader THIS freaky?! We're doooooooooooooooommmmmed!!!"
I want sex SO much more than my boyfriend! Seriously, like every night I'm all "so, you want to...?" or just slowly touching his good parts, and he just mumbles something and goes to sleep.
I've tried it in the day, walking round naked, buying sexy clothes. His penis gets erect at me bending over or something, so I know he's not gay, but he has the lowest sex drive of any 21 year old I've ever met.
Which is a source of sadness, but I love him (and live with him), so what to do? Feels bad to always be rejected. I don't remember when we last made sex. I like it a few times a week, maybe 3/4? But he is about 1/2 times a month. Bad compatibility.
Seriously? Marry me.
OMG I am in the same boat with you. Before we were married we were like rabbits, thenhe got deployed for 10 months and **sigh** it takes a flame thrower to light his fuse. I went an entire week wearing only thin, lacy under-things and heels, always had my hair done up, make-up the whole play-bunnything. It was total fail. I swear to you He looked at me, "oh you look nice sweetie, new lipstick?" ::cry::
It's not fair. He never, I repeat NEVER asks for it. I am always the instigator, the naughty naughty pest insisting his boy-bits are very sexy and that YES after 6 weeks of being swatted and told it's a "no go" I want to play! lol
Lets just say I have many playthings in my toy chest :p sad but true.
The idea that my husband is obsessed with having sex with me or masturbating more time than he does anything else is repulsive and makes my skin crawl when he wants to touch me. He does not want to make love to me, he just wants to get off--hence, if he is not happy with the sex we had, he will jerk off. What more can I say?
This comment speaks volumes. Two things - Firstly, men will masturbate frequently, whether we're in a regular sexual relationship or not. It's a guilt free quick fix, and we've been doing it since we first discovered it. Regular sex will diminish the need to do it, but we'll still do it because we enjoy it.
Second, sex is a form of communication, on top of everything else. You can tell if your partner is loving it, and if your partner isn't into it, and let me tell you - nothing makes you wish you'd just jerked off instead like a partner who's expressing physical revulsion at your touch. Why would we even bother? It makes us feel like some kind of sex offender.
If you want your sex life to improve, you're probably going to have to come to terms with those two things. Sex and masturbation are completely natural, and the less you have the first, the more he's going to do the second. If you can't stomach having sex with your husband, it's only a matter of time before he starts looking for somebody else who will.
Let's get real. Most women like sex. If not, I'd say you just haven't had any GOOD sex yet. Women are just as obsessed. We like to think we're more subtle but in reality...we're not that complicated either.
I love sex!! When its done right, its awesome!! Its fun, its healthy and its needed. I want sex 99.9% of the time!! Also I very much enjoy to masturbate from time to time, it helps me relax. Its not just guys! It is completely normal, what isn't normal is women accepting it or saying it out loud, I think we should evolve a little more.
I think this question was made just to post something!
I'm familiar with this idea that men are horny dogs and want to hump everything all the time, and mainstream media does nothing but further that idea, but I have found in real life that women are just as horny. I know plenty of women who always talk about how disappointed they are with their boyfriend/husband because he doesn't want to go at it as often as they do. Granted, I often feel like I'm the hornier person in my relationship, but I have been awoken by my girlfriend for morning sex on numerous occasions, as well as pounced on plenty of times throughout the day.
The illusion that women are somehow more sophisticated/refined/less needy and men are sex-crazed maniacs is just silly in this modern day and age.
Why would it be a bad thing for men to want sex? Women want it to, we just go about it a different way. Without sex, there'd be no children. Its just that some guys are more suave about getting it than others, just like some women are more coy.
I can agree that most men think about sex often but a good male friend of mine has told me(with a straight face) that he doesn't think about sex that often, which I think is rather amazing and makes him less of a...horndog. But women definitely think about sex just as much if more than men.
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hahha I agree
i'm a man and i hate sex but love female feet and it's no ones damned business why.