You ask a good question.

I'm guessing the reason most folks are asking the same questions over and over is that, well, everybody has the exact same relationship problems. Folks either have no clue what their partners are thinking; people cannot tell if somebody else is interested in them; exes won't go away or have gone too far away; and sex is or isn't happening.

Sure occasionally there is an interesting oddball question out there (we tend to look for those), but really, it seems like the world of love is wrought with the exact same problems over and over. I can't tell you how many questions we get that literally say, "blah blah blah, what is he thinking?" Or "Is he interested in me?" Which isn't that odd if you think about it. I can't tell you how many times I've been dealing with somebody and I just wanted some sort of validation that I wasn't going overboard or jumping the gun.

If anything, this just proves that everybody goes through the same things in relationships. We all have questions and wants and desires. The ones who are getting their answers and their needs met aren't writing in questions. The ones who aren't have all the questions in the world and want to know what is really going on from somebody with a different point of view.

I wish I could say that we were chosing to answer the same questions over and over, but I search thru the questions trying to find a different question. That's how this one got answered. Life, love, and relationships may take various forms, but they all come with the same problems it seems. And the most important point to note is this:

People are not having as much sex as we all think they are.

Thank you and good night.