Because this is how babies are made. And above all pornography is a sound teaching tool for our youth. Or, here's another possible explanation: Unless you expressly seek otherwise, most porno is filmed, produced, directed, and edited by and for men. This means the porn scenes, and endings, are designed so every angle and outcome speaks to man's approval or ego driven desires.
The visual of ejaculating on a woman's face, AKA The Money Shot, draws on man's fantasy of being powerful and desired. Nothing says you rocked my body and I salute you and your d*ck, like accepting a wad of man goo on the eyes, nose and chin. Besides, from a cinematic perspective, a man orgasming inside a woman is like fireworks in a cave. Who can see it?
Porno scenes don't end when a woman cums. They end when a man does. That's the only thing that matters; it's The Show Stopper, The Big She-bang. In most porn the woman feels accomplished not after she cums, but after he does.
Is this a positive thing? No. Is the money shot a realistic conclusion to most sex? I'd say, probably not. But again, porn isn't real, it's male fantasy. Think about it, most guys are whacking off to porn in a pair of sweaty socks and a stretched out, stained t-shirt; they are surrounded by their fatigue and unmet dreams. They want to escape.
For the moments they are "having sex" with Suzie Sexy or Coco Clitoris they are temporarily powerful, skilled and adored. The Money Shot is that crowning victory; that one shining moment where they can exhale with sweaty pride and say: Ya see, Coco. I am sexy and grand. I am capable of power. The proof is in my pudding.
...Followed by a sloppy tissue clean-up and dozing off to Netflix.
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Ok that was good for a laugh.
It made me think of the youtube video with jenna Marbles, "What boys do on the internet."
Is that the guy who threw a pie at Rupert Murdoch?
No, Jonnie Marbles threw the pie.
Jenna Marbles is a random young woman with a good, albeit crude sense of humor. She uploads videos to youtube. Some are funny, others not so much. The one about boys on the internet is makes me laugh... probably because there is some truth to it.
thats why i perfer to watch girl on girl ;)
Why does a man's desire and power have to be expressed with degrading and humiliating a woman? I'm not sure how the man's sense of power is best displayed by defacing a woman- a weak and eager woman that is portrayed in pornography does not necessarily equal a powerful man. I think there is something more deep and psychological behind this sort of shaming that causes such a reaction- why does shame equal success?
nej, I totally agree with you that it is degrading. I dated a guy three years ago who wanted this so bad, but heck no it was not happening and never will happen with me. It's disgusting (imo) and would make me feel like a cheap whore. Plus.. I mean.. ew. Aim anywhere else, but the face is off limits!
you are a cheap whore.
You are a lame ass troll who will never get laid.
My current guy can only "finish" on the outside. What's up with that? He claims it's from watching too much porn. I like to be face to face sometimes in that moment, but he doesn't. Is it an intimacy issue?
Fireworks in a Cave...ha! Dig it.
Yes, the "Fireworks in a cave" was very funny. And you're totally right about porn being made by guys for guys.
I have no problem with my boyfriend watching porn. HOWEVER, guys need to understand that just because you see it in a porno does not IN ANY WAY make it okay to do in real life. I once dated a guy who was terribly inexperienced and felt the need to "impress" me by doing things he saw in pornos. Guys: Please, please don't do this! Be patient and for god's sake, if you want to do something freaky just ask! If she says no, she says no. But you might be surprised what she's willing to work on with you if you discuss it with her first.
"HOWEVER, guys need to understand that just because you see it in a porno does not IN ANY WAY make it okay to do in real life."
Tell me about it girl! I had a guy once who was honest to God shocked out of his brains (what little he had of them anyway) that I would not want to have sex with either a horse or a dog. The jacka** even tried to bully me into saying it by claiming that I was lying and saying that "he knew I wanted it." I mean, EEEEEWWWWW!!!!!!! WTF? Talk about sick! I still cannot see why he was so astonished at my answer other than that he watched *way* too much perverted porn. I think porn can be alright until you get to a certain point and then once you cross that line it just goes downhill from there.
The last guy I was with always pulled out and would blow his load on me. I finally asked wth was up with that and he said it was because he saw it in his porn movies, he would always ask me to suck him off after he pulled out too, again because of watching porn he thought that since I was vocal about liking sex that I would be interested in acting the same way as the women who act in porn.
The last guy I was with always pulled out and would blow his load on me. I finally asked wth was up with that and he said it was because he saw it in his porn movies, he would always ask me to suck him off after he pulled out too, again because of watching porn he thought that since I was vocal about liking sex that I would be interested in acting the same way as the women who act in porn.
haha funny question. ive watched porn with boyfriends and its not all in the face. ive seen chest, back etc for the "money shot"
I am a guy and I actually HATE this type of ending in porn. I like porn, the same way I like to have sex myself and finishing inside is the only way to go. The has been a huge influx of creampie videos in the past 10 years which proves, not only is it appealing to men but you can still see it...
As a good looking guy who has been told by a few women over the years that I was a great lover, I have not nor would ever do this. In my relationships it is more important to have the womans heart after have given mine and the intimacy is far the most important in becoming one than what so many men are feeding themselves with this misconception of sex and fantasy. The truth be told. See where all these guys end up who love this in the years to come as they live their lives.If you wish to be a really great lover, you will stay far from this one.