Why do you look at clothes at the store when you've got clothes in your closet? Why do you walk by a bakery and look at a cake when you have all the ingredients at home to make your own?
Of all the concepts that women "claim" not to understand about men, visual appreciation is one of the most easily understood. And women who don't understand are ridiculously ridiculous. Let's assume for a moment - only assuming because I have no idea who you are, this could go either way really - that you have luscious lips and a lovely derriere. Why WOULDN'T he look? What does him looking at your assets have to do with the fact that he has a girlfriend. If he didn't, wouldn't your assets still remain the same? The point is that they exist and he likes them. So he looks at them.
There's also a very good chance he'd love to do nasty, freaky, dirty things to you but he has a girlfriend so let's assume he isn't. He's just window shopping. Its the American way. It's the way of the caveman. People look at stuff. I'm looking at stuff right now that I won't get because it looks like something I should look at.
Hell, it's disrespectful NOT to look at and appreciate a fine rump and nice lips on a woman. You all love validation anyway, let that man be a man and give you the attention you only don't want because you're getting it. Sheesh.
Stop complaining. This must be a guy that you want and are upset because he won't leave his girl or something so you're feeling like if he won't step to you then there's no reason for him to pay attention to you.
Hogwash.
I once heard a very prominent marriage counselor say that asking a guy to not look at a beautiful woman is like asking a dog to not sniff a fire hydrant. It's the way they're wired. Heck, I'd be thankful he's acting normal.
How this response is sexist...let me count the ways. Or not, but it still is (sexist).
cause he wants you for your mind.
It amuses me how this site clearly states that questions are being answered from a male point of view by, ya know, DUDES, and the word sexist gets tossed around like a hackysack when girls don't like what they're reading. But I digress..
As a girl, I have to admit that I tend to do that (Looking at hot ladies and males I mean) if they stand out to me. And I have a steady bf of over two years. Maybe I'm strange, but I usually point that person out to my man and we both look at them. Oogling something beautiful isn't a sexist thing, really. Least it's not to me, and I've been told I think and act like a guy, it's about seeing something nice and taking notice of it. Nowadays it's so easy to be negative that people just don't enjoy the pretty things anymore. I may get nega-hearts for this, but it's not to be hurtful to that person.
Girls complain constantly about how they don't get noticed and then when they are, they tend to assume (sometimes correctly and oftentime incorrectly) things and nitpick it to death when it could possibly mean nothing? And that anytime they do get noticed, they're repulsed or freaked out, but don't we, as women, do the same thing? Don't we look at a guy randomly wandering by if they have something we enjoy seeing? Even IF we have a partner? It doesn't mean we wanna cheat on them (unless the dude's say, licking his lips while looking at you, then that's creepy and all sorts of wrong) but it's just going "oh there goes someone who has a nice ass/pretty eyes/nice legs/whathaveyou."
People stare. Everyone does it. I admit it. But even though I may see something nice looking, I'm with my man and I love everything about him and for more than his uberhot exterior. The thought of cheating has never crossed my mind. I'd take the dude staring at you as a good thing. It's kinda like a positive thing, I think anyway. He sees you as attractive. Think of it this way; everyone in the universe is going to get with someone because of something they see. So if this guy sees something striking, who else is seeing the same thing who is single? Who knows? There could be all sorts of guys checking you out that you're just not aware of.
But if the dude is being creepy (and I dunno cause it's not like it says) then make sure you're upfront and tell him to fuck off if it's some constant thing. Cause we dunno if they've talked or nothing. But if it really does unnerve you or make you feel uneasy then say something.
"It amuses me how this site clearly states that questions are being answered from a male point of view by, ya know, DUDES, and the word sexist gets tossed around like a hackysack when girls don't like what they're reading. But I digress.."
Tossed around?
Perhaps it wasn't hearing what they don't like but PanamaJackson's trite:
Hell, it's disrespectful NOT to look at and appreciate a fine rump and nice lips on a woman. You all love validation anyway, let that man be a man and give you the attention you only don't want because you're getting it. Sheesh.
Stop complaining. This must be a guy that you want and are upset because he won't leave his girl or something so you're feeling like if he won't step to you then there's no reason for him to pay attention to you."
Yeah generalizing that all women love validation & if she's complaining about attention she's receiving it's only because she doesn't want it because she's getting it. Or if she's complaining it must be because he's a guy she wants and she's upset he won't leave his gf.
Just telling her to stop whining and let men be men and stare at her because it's disrespectful for men not to stare at what they find attractive.
Yeah how could that possibly be sexist...lmfao
"It amuses me how this site clearly states that questions are being answered from a male point of view by, ya know, DUDES, and the word sexist gets tossed around like a hackysack when girls don't like what they're reading. But I digress.."
Tossed around?
Perhaps it wasn't hearing what they don't like but PanamaJackson's trite:
Hell, it's disrespectful NOT to look at and appreciate a fine rump and nice lips on a woman. You all love validation anyway, let that man be a man and give you the attention you only don't want because you're getting it. Sheesh.
Stop complaining. This must be a guy that you want and are upset because he won't leave his girl or something so you're feeling like if he won't step to you then there's no reason for him to pay attention to you."
Yeah generalizing that all women love validation & if she's complaining about attention she's receiving it's only because she doesn't want it because she's getting it. Or if she's complaining it must be because he's a guy she wants and she's upset he won't leave his gf.
Just telling her to stop whining and let men be men and stare at her because it's disrespectful for men not to stare at what they find attractive.
Yeah how could that possibly be sexist...lmfao
You know, I would get soooo annoyed when a really beautiful woman would walk by me and my ex, I would say something along the lines of "Wow, she was beautiful" and he'd be like "What? I didn't notice," when he clearly was restraining himself from looking. I mean, we're all human beings, we have eyes, and that little piece of dishonesty is, to me, the worst.
And yes, I look at other guys too, I may even flirt with them, just like a guy tends to flirt with other women if given the chance. I'm not saying to overstep the boundaries, but from what I've seen it's just human nature.
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