Because you're a woman and obviously prone to unreasonable jealousy. And no, I don't think all women are prone to unreasonable jealousy, as there are definitely some men with this issue. But you're a chick, and you asked.
As long as he's not gawking at other women in front of you, you're just going to have to suck this one up. While I know it may bother you, realize this, he married you. There are billions of women on this planet. It's impossible to think that he'd never look at another women. It's also unreasonable and selfish. I'm sure you notice other men.
Now, if you two are out and he is visibly checking out other women in such a fashion that is completely disrespectful to you, well yes, you are welcome to have that beef. But just in general, do you expect him to never look at another woman? That's just not fair.
So it bothers you because it makes you feel insecure. What that insecurity is rooted in, I don't know. Maybe your husband doesn't tell you that you're pretty and when he looks at other women you feel like it means he's not looking at you. Which could be true. Or it could totally be a figment of your imagination. You need to figure out what it is and let it go or let him know how it makes you feel. But know this, he's not going to stop looking at other women, just like you won't stop looking at other men. It's just what we do. We're human.
All you can really do is let me him know to make sure he's also still looking at you too.
"Because you're a woman and obviously prone to unreasonable jealousy. And no, I don't think all women are prone to unreasonable jealousy"
Then why is the woman thing even mentioned...? I don't know if it's just some bad grammar here, but that first sentence conveys that you believe all women are prone to unreasonable jealousy. That might not be what you mean, but it's what you're conveying.
And it doesn't matter that you follow it up with the next sentence, that's still like saying "Because you're black and obviously selfish. Even though I don't think all black people are selfish. But you are black and you are selfish."
If the woman thing is irrelevant to being jealous - which it is - then it's just unecessary, and implies a causal relationship where there isn't one. Even though this is about a jealous woman, saying "because you're a woman" is just not particularly helpful, because jealousy, as you pointed out, is not exactly gender-specific.
I think he was simply referring to the fact that the person who asked the question mentioned that it bothers her if her husband looks at other *women*. She is a woman and is bothered when her husband looks at women because perhaps she feels threatened and possibly worries that her husband will find these women attractive.
When you made up the hypothetical comment about black people, it didn't really correlate to Panama's statement. Maybe he could have worded it better, but I don't think he meant that statement in a misogynistic way. I really don't think the fact that she's a woman and the fact that she's prone to unreasonable jealousy go together like you read it.
I think that you should get over yourself. There a millions of attractive people on the planet both male and female.