Every so often I read questions that remind me that I'm either completely behind the times when it comes to slang and usage. This would be that question. Also, this is the first question that explicitly mentioned race where I have absolutely no idea if the person who submitted it was white or Black.

Fun times.

Anyway, as a (dated) pop-culture connoisseur, swag was always a form of confidence and how you carry yourself. You know, part of the rules of attraction. So I'm guessing when you say they swag on you, that means they approach you on some "king of the world" stuff? Of course it's totally possible that you mean swang on you, but that would just be assault. Or perhaps swag on you means talk real greasy or 'spicious. I'm at a loss. And since I listen to rap (still) I'll assume that you mean the first definition. So they're approaching you on some KD steez. And then you give it back to them and they fall back because they can't handle a woman with your attitude.

By the way, what the hell does circlejerk mean in this question? I really don't know. I asked a friend and her definition was, well something Brandon St. Randy would be all about. My guess is that if white guys are leaving you alone after you swag back (did I use that right?) it's because you're too much. What you think is attractive actually is not. Most men like being kept on their toes...to a point. You don't want a woman whose going to challenge EVERYTHING you do or say. White or Black guys are going to feel that way. It's a man thing.

Be aware too, the only men who love passive women are men with control issues and want things their way at all times. Can't believe it took me this long to ask this, but does your returned swagging work with Black guys? If so, please let me know where so I can avoid those places at all costs. Thank you.

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