That depends, is he desiring butt sex with somebody who isn't his wife, or desiring butt sex with his wife? Man, questions I never thought I'd ask before I got this gig...
If the former, then, well, he's a jerk, that's why. If the latter, this brings up something worth discussing, boundaries in a marriage.
Some people think once you're married you can stick it anywhere you want, which is really not the case. In marriage, as in dating, it's a question of boundaries. Some people have boundaries they absolutely will not cross, and married or not, this has to be respected. If the answer's no and always will be, that should be the end of the discussion.
my ex husband was one of those that thought marriage gave him a pass to stick whatever wherever. when i put my foot down on that one he went and got it somewhere else, with another couple no less. saying no when you are married doesn't make you the bad guy, the guy that has a toddler tantrum at the word no, THATS the bad guy. if he can't take a no from you to the extent he would even consider it with someone else well...like i said, that happened to me and now i have an ex husband.
WTF? That's just uncalled for. Don't project YOUR bitterness and lack of respect for onto this person's situation.
Sorry your experience would lead you to make such a comment. Most relationships aren't like that.
And you wonder why you're not a big hit with the ladies, you charmer you.
If you're the other woman maybe he doesn't want to make a baby with you. No accidents this way. Just a thought.
If you're the other woman maybe he doesn't want to make a baby with you. No accidents this way. Just a thought.
Oh gosh...I think I'm way off, because when I read the question I was thinking....because maybe he's bi-curious...
i thought he was bi too, i had a friend that happened to her, her husband she was with 10 years seemed to be very fond of anal sex until she caught him with another man
To be fair to our gay friends, and straight men who go a-knockin' at the back door, it's not all about the anal if you're gay. Some gay men don't like anal sex in the first place.
Speaking only for myself, I don't have any interest in anal sex. The vagina is good enough for me.