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Will my c-section scar be a turn-off/unattractive to my husband?

Nah. Presumably the wonderful, amazing child (or children) that sprang from his loins emerged from that scar. Nothing wrong with C-sections. Cause, you know, the baby's gotta come out somehow. If it weren't for c-sects, you wouldn't have a certain geeky blogger. (No, I'm not talking about Wil Wheaton.)
 
Any guy who wouldn't sleep with you because of your c-scar is vain, douche-y, and lacks a basic understanding of the miracle of birth. Scars aren't your fault. (Unless they're self-inflicted, but we'll leave that for another question.) You shouldn't worry about how they will affect your sex life. A good guy will love you, scars and all. What, you think he's perfect? Look a little closer. He's probably got adult acne, copious back hair, itch of the jock region, and who knows what else. But you still love him, right? Don't be worried about a necessary scar that potentially saved you and your baby's lives. (Assuming it was necessary. Even if it wasn't, it's still not a turn-off.)

Now where my c-sections at? Big ups to alternative birthing methods!
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Why on earth would he be turned off by it? Good lord.

Honey, I had a c-section as well. I've been with more men than I care to share here but not a single one, not ONE ever said anything about my scar. Not to mention I have sagging skin there as well cause my kid was ginormous. No man as ever said a word. Wanna know why? Because as we all know that men can be really stupid, but they want to get laid. If they say something stupid about your body, they might not get laid. Only the mean, manipulative, douchy, asshole who doesn't deserve to be alive and call himself a man will say something about your scar. And I really hope you didn't marry a man like that. And besides, he had a part in that whole baby making thing I assume.

Either way, don't worry about it at all. If he says anything other than concern for it being completly healed, he's not worth a goddamn thing.

Marie

Amen :)

Seagoatsarah

He's the one who put it in there, so he can't say anything about how it gets out.

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