Boobs are awesome but then again I am extremely biased (carrying a set of double Ds myself).

^Yes this comment was made purely for bragging rights. Don't look at me like that

Love this answer! Very funny and spot on, methinks.

Hey DeeDee, triple D's here. *Sticks tongue out* ;)

I agree 100%. I've had C's since I was about 13...So big boobs all the way!
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Just to put this out there, I'm and A-cup and it has never stopped me from having guys be attracted to me. Therefore, I think this answer is strictly opinion and not true of all guys, I'm living proof. I am a girl who some how ended up with a fast metabolism, and though I can eat whatever I want, I have always longed for a little more up top. I've learned guys (or at least the ones who are worth it in my opinion) pretty much 100% of the time aren't phased at all. For those of us who were not blessed up on top, there is hope with out going for the 'foobs'.

Well, smaller breasts ( before children) are generally perkier, whereas big boobs start sagging sooner. So, when boasting about your big boobs, remember that when you're old and your tits are hitting the bottom of your rib cage, who's gonna have the last laugh then?

I'd hand in my big old tittahs for A cups anytime. There is nothing grosser for me than giant, nasty boobs. And honestly, it doesn't matter to me how my husband feels about them, or the girls' bff feels about them, because my self image and self esteem aren't wrapped up in that. Sometimes it works out for me, like when I finally came to terms with my horsenose before most guys did, but in this case it just won't.

And since we're on the topic of pre-preggo and post-preggo boobs:

Do you guys know how hard it is to have children?! Like, not even considering the 18 years (for just one) of heartbreak and worry and snarkyness of actually raising the child, but just the actual few months of pregnancy followed by the hours of birth? If your body goes back to normal after it, sweet. It doesn't for most people, though, and who gives a damn? So your boobs are floppier now? Bummer, dawg. Anyone who doesn't appreciate a woman's body after she just created (with the help of your juices, blah blah blah), incubated, and then birthed another human being is a PUSSY.

are Cs big? my bf thinks mine are huge, but... i dont think my boobs are big

Talk to me when you are carrying around Gs. What I would give to have double or even triple Ds, lol. Actually, I don't mind my Gs except when I am trying to fit into my actual size dress and I won't fit because of my chest.

So, I have accepted them as part of me. Can't imagine my life without my girls.

Thank God I have perky B's! lol

Thank God I have perky B's! lol

I'm with you, Mander!

Also, Mr. Jackson - I do like this article. Am sending to my boyfriend right now. ;)

I have perky Ds and I had a child 6 years ago. I just have fraking awesome mitochrondial DNA.

I love my boobs. They are awesome. My girls are my friends.

I have 36DDs and love them, but I would have been perfectly happy if they had stopped at Cs or even Ds because that would have greatly opened up my options for where to buy cheaper bras. I rreally just wish they would stop growing already. I have a friend who is a 40H though. Her mom has been telling her to get a reduction since sophomore year (in high school), but despite back pain and such she loves them and has accepted them as who she is.

I'm an A cup and *really* good looking men tell me I'm hot all the time. Maybe it's my flat stomach, toned ass, great legs or pretty face. Either way, I get way more dates than my more well endowed friends so big boobs apparently aren't everything.

@ Blair, yes Gs do exist naturally. I'm a 32G, and it's very annoying as far as clothes are concerned: I always have to buy tops/dresses that are 2 sizes larger than my actual size, and my wardrobe has about a dozen belts in it simply because I end up having to belt up dresses/shirts/blouses. Aesthetically it doesn't work out that well. You can't wear ruffles on your chest. I was actually stopped by well-meaning friends from wearing a bikini on the beach. And how is one supposed to wear a work-shirt? Even if you wear one that's big to accomodate your chest and wear a belt it could still look provocative. I end up having to wear cardigans all the time... if I'm lucky. As it is I live in a tropical country and can't stand the heat. So I just wear t-shirts.

Re: Men
I think Sarah is right. If the guy is into you because you have boobs, it's just dumb. No guy should demand bigger boobs from his woman! There are pluses and minuses of course. As someone with big boobs, it can get very annoying because you tend to fall into 'hot' straight away. If I go on dates I obsess over what to wear, because even a t-shirt can end up with porn-starish effects, which I do NOT want. There is no such thing as revealing just a 'little' cleavage with me. It is easier to dress up a flat chest, honestly. You can look 'cute' more easily, as opposed to 'hot'. On the other hand, I guess having big boobs means a plus when you're in lingerie (unfortunately you can't parade in this around town :P )

I don't think you should ever change your body though, regardless of whatever problems things bring you, unless it's for medical reasons. I have seen 3 doctors about reductions and they advise against it unless I have medical problems (which I don't, apparently I've got strong shoulders). If your boobs are no problem to your health, you should just accept them regardless of whether they're an A or a H. It doesn't matter, honestly. Much of it has to do with how you dress up: my friend is an AA and she always looks really, really hot.

And as for myself, I do my best: I try to be sexy without revealing too much. I can't hide them however, and one sure-fire way for a man to land in my bad books is to 1. stare at them and only talk to them 2. make some comment about them 3. assume I'm porn-starish easy-to-lay because of them 4. tell me I should have no insecurities because of them 5. assume I'm stupid 6. attempt to touch them or any other part of me. As you might guess, all this makes for a pretty effective screening system -- and 1-6 does happen, I'm sorry to say. It's not to the credit of males in general. In any case, if the man is obsessed with your boobs to the point of ignoring everything else about you, or unsatisfied with your boobs (big or small, or whatever), he should sod off. Sincerely.

We are more than our chests!

Wow. a cup and proud.. someone is either really into themselves or they are considerably depressed and lying about your awesome social life.. this topic is merely opinion.

In PJ's defense, the question asked makes it sound like choosing between almost no boobs at all on an rail thin girl to a girl with any boobs that is a bit overweight.

So I'm picturing a girl whose fine in a training bra versus a woman with "curves". In that case, boobs win.
A, B & C cup are still boobs. In my mind, you don't have to be D+ to fit the second description.
And considering the "brick" comment from PJ I think I'm right on his thoughts.

Now backing up and choosing between the variety of sizes is an each to their own; every man is different.
The French say the perfect boob fits in a wine glass. Way too many Americans seem to want perky D+ (how does that work without being fake???). There are guys who want all different sizes and those who don't care about size as long as they exist and even guys who want flat chested girls, but generally, I'd say more guys want something as opposed to "nothing".

Peace.

I just have to say, I think there's a big difference between naturally large breasted women and women who have big boobs because they're fat. Guys like girls with boobs, not obese girls with flab in boob form-- just sayin'. These are he boobs that are those saggy types. So, I have a hard time believing most of the people above with giant boobs in letters so far into the alphabet I might need to use my fingures to count to as being in shape.

That being said, I think that the above answer is purely opinion and guys will swing either way. I would guess that face is a much larger factor than boobs, so in order for the question to be fair the girls would have to have around the same level of facial beauty (also extremely hard to judge).

Guys just like certain things. As a slim (not super skinny) girl with DD's, I've always loved my boobs, but I've had one boyfriend who was a legs/ass guy and ignored my boobs. I used to tease that he had strange taste in body parts :P

I love my D's! I'm a tall girl though and I usually cover my ladies up so that I don't have to shout "eyes up" when I walk in a room. So it always makes me laugh when I wear something that shows off my girls rather than hides them--some people's faces are like "wait? what?" haha the best :)

Im very skinny....nd have like absolutly no boobs....i want to grow them to make myserlf look sexyer...do you now any way i can do that....and also i am only 15 years old

i really want to be looked at by guys

pleaase give me some sugggestions on how to grow them!

@jennifer..... keep them pressed and played by guys or do exercises by your own. They will increase :-)

I prefer small breasts with attitude

I personally have an average 34C and i love them they are perky and not to be and not to small! P.S. Im not bragging i think boobs are just like any other body part, but i dont like flat chested women they remind me of little kids and what guy want to be reminded of a petaphile?

On one hand u say that the question may not be fair and on the other hand u make it sound like being a flat chest is the end of the world. NOT EVERYONE thinks the way you do obviously. So maybe you should stop generalizing your opinions. Most of our attitude toward men/women are based upon our upbringing, race and culture... (just the same way u say porn affects men) Not everyone loves the chubby blonde with big boobs and not everyone hates the tall dark and skinny woman- just because everyone is different.

I personally adore everyone in all sizes, the key is - confidence and how they choose to carry themselves.

A 15 year old just responded to ure answer because she believes you. She believes that being flat chested means she's not going to be attractive. Good job. Very impressive.

the answer is obviously going to be different for every guy. I am a 32 A, supper skinny, and though I've always wanted to get implants, Ive also always attracted many good guys. some guys like boobs, some like butts, some like a girl skinny and some like them chubby. It doesn't matter what you look like, you'll find plenty of guys that are attracted to the natural you. I struggled when i was 15 too, i even had an implants fund in a piggy bank. but eventually you learn thats not whats important, it all about how you present your self.

to Jennifer:
i know that even if you take what I've said seriously, you'll still obsess over how to get your boobs to grow more.. heres a trick i learned: eat chicken. i'll tell you that im not sure if it works, but if you are anything like me, you'll probably try anything

F*ck you. And I never EVER curse. So f*ck you again for making me say it. I cried the first time I read this answer. Like actual tears.

Apparently I would be like feeling up concrete, I'm a little boy, and I make men feel like perverts. I'm a pencil. Therefore, I can never ever be sexy. Oh, and boobs are always better. Wait for it. BOOBS ARE ALWAYS BETTER.
Thanks. Thank you so much.

But, you know what? I'm not sad anymore. I'm angry. I'm 15. 30A cup. And apparently there is no hope in the world for me besides pregnancy. I need to fix my chest. I don't need to accept it, or play up any other features. I need to change it. Instead of having a flat stomach, I should gain weight. Stop running, stop working out. Because it's better to be fat than small chested. Or get surgery. Because anything is better than being flat chested. Boobs are the sign of females, so I'm not a female? It doesn't even matter that running for years has given me a toned ass. Because if I don't outgrow this A cup, I have no hope. Nothing matters. I might as well stop wearing makeup, doing my hair, and trying to dress nice, correct? Because who would want to feel up concrete, even if they are wearing mascara.

Go to hell.

Damn - i love small breasts and skinny girls. Please do not chsnge your body- there is nothing worse than fake boobs.

Question revival! It is so sad when I read these comments from 15yo girls who are desperate to "get boys to look at them" by having bigger breasts. There is a kind of guy made for every girl (he's not likely going to be in high school).

Here is a brutally honest paragraph in real guy-language. I'm a perfectly well adjusted attractive successful American male who adores the A-cup crowd. If you are desperate to feel insecure about something, choose fat. Fat can be managed to some extent. The only direction we're all headed in as we age is fatter, so today's "decent looking rack" is tomorrow's elephant testicles on top of a barrel of lard. Skinny girls with A-cups have it all over average girls with D-cups because the average chicks have no future in hotness. In brutal guy-terms, I know they will all balloon or turn into hosebeasts with age or children, while the A-cup will be a screamin' hot 40yo. Sure, I've been with wonderful girls of every cup size and, while I prefer the A-cups, no cup size will ever amount to a hill of beans next to the confidence she demonstrates (be it in bed or in clothes). Most guys I know don't really care anyway and will say they've never met a bad boob. A-cuppers unite and know that you are hot as hell, so shape up and act like it for once!!!

And for chrise sake, stop getting frickin' boob jobs. And stop saying they are "for yourself" too. It's not for you, it's for slobbering cavemen, admit it. It's pathetic and it looks stupid. How many mind-blowingly hot chicks have I seen who utterly ruined a perfect body with implants? A LOT. The only time I actually get offended about boob-talk is when it comes from chicks with big boobs getting catty on the A-cups as if they are lesser beings or something. Catty girls, your time will come so shut your pie holes before the pies take over your ability to attract hot dudes. For the millionth time, from countless magazines, confidence = hot. Guys who connect your cup size to hotness and say all guys are inherently like them aren't worth your time anyway. The good guys ride circles around those neanderthals, so if you want to snag the awesome guys, look for them instead of looking for your chest.

i love a cups or less preferably flat with tiny nipples

i dont care about breast size. if ur tits r the size of N.Y.C then im going 2 show them off 4 the world 2 c. if ur tits r the size of a village i still show them off 4 the world 2 c

I used to be the girl with big boobs, I hade a pretty nice pair of DD's but I also had a waist circumference of 34-35 inches I am a classic apple shape. Small legs and butt, big boobs, belly, and chunky arms. I wasn't fat or but a little over weight. 150 lbs and 5'6 . Now I'm 127 lbs, and only a B cup. I have nice toned arms, a flatter tummy ( went down to 27-28 inch :D) and nice toned arms. And though these things ate great, for a while I was disappointed that my boobs and butt shrank so much. I felt like I had lost my womanly curves. I almost wanted to gain at least some of the weight back. But now I have gotten used to my new body and u know what? It's not so bad! :) I don't miss my old gut and flabby arms and back pain I used to have, or the low energy and low self esteem because I felt fat. Now I'm full of energy, confidence and my upper body is more in proportion with my lower half, thus getting rid of the apple shape look. I am toned and athletic looking. I still miss my boobs sometimes but I feel so much better now! Being a b cup isn't bad at all! My point is that a woman who is fit and healthy and takes care of herself is the most attractive hands down. If you take care of the body you were given and keep it in shape and healthy you will be happier and look beautiful! No matter what cup size! :)

I'm sure this has been said before on this page but to me nothin beats a flat chested girl or at least an A cup with a little bit of attitude. I mean that would turn me on in a heartbeat

Will men ever actually learn to make girls feel better about themselves without putting down a bunch of others?

Whoever wrote this response obviously wanted to comfort weight-worried women by insulting thin women, and by doing so made a lot of naturally slim gals upset, including some 15 year olds (Way to go buddy, dream big!)

Needless to say, everybody has their own unique tastes in beauty, so the phrase "boobs are ALWAYS better" is invalid. Too bad some of the younger girls that read this will spend the rest of their youth worried about their boobs until they're old enough to realize it.

The man that wrote this should be ashamed on himself.

Small boobs win in my book, and I know plenty of level-headed guys that would agree. I dig practicality. I like being able to go on a jog with my girl without a lot of fuss.
I definitely prefer a slender body on a woman, though I wouldn't have a problem with a bit of a bulge.. a bit, I still have high standards. ;p I've dated skinny girls with bra sizes ranging from A cup(my favorite) to triple D's, and every size in-between.
Larger breasts (over Cs) do not excite me as much. They're big and bulky, not what I want on an artfully slender body. I've always said: "anything above what fits in your mouth is a waste." People make the argument of having more padding during sex or whatever, that's always seemed pretty ignorant to me. Never, due to a skinny frame, hip bones, ribs, or a small chest or butt, have I felt any discomfort during the throes of passion. A lot of guys claim to like large breasts, but are often just repeating their friends, media, or things they hear from adult figures growing up, all of which have just been repeating the same nonsense from generation to generation. Few of them think for themselves on the matter and wouldn't even know the difference because they've never been with a smaller chested girl out of fear of what their buddies would think. I've found that, especially for guys that think for themselves, breast size matters about as much to us as testicle size means to women. Fact.
That being said, I go nuts over a skinny girl with small breasts the same way guys in movies go nuts over the hot girl with the set of D's. Don't try to pack on weight just to increase your breast size. You're beautiful the way you are!

Big, skinny, flat-chested, or top-heavy, just be you. Your body being different is the whole appeal. Guys are stupid and we don't count on girls actually wanting to change for us when we make blind comments about physical appearances. If women keep on in the direction they're going, there will be no variety for us to choose from. Be you, and be proud of your body.

Small boobs win in my book, and I know plenty of level-headed guys that would agree. I dig practicality. I like being able to go on a jog with my girl without a lot of fuss.
I definitely prefer a slender body on a woman, though I wouldn't have a problem with a bit of a bulge.. a bit, I still have high standards. ;p I've dated skinny girls with bra sizes ranging from A cup(my favorite) to triple D's, and every size in-between.
Larger breasts (over Cs) do not excite me as much. They're big and bulky, not what I want on an artfully slender body. I've always said: "anything above what fits in your mouth is a waste." People make the argument of having more padding during sex or whatever, that's always seemed pretty ignorant to me. Never, due to a skinny frame, hip bones, ribs, or a small chest or butt, have I felt any discomfort during the throes of passion. A lot of guys claim to like large breasts, but are often just repeating their friends, media, or things they hear from adult figures growing up, all of which have just been repeating the same nonsense from generation to generation. Few of them think for themselves on the matter and wouldn't even know the difference because they've never been with a smaller chested girl out of fear of what their buddies would think. I've found that, especially for guys that think for themselves, breast size matters about as much to us as testicle size means to women. Fact.
That being said, I go nuts over a skinny girl with small breasts the same way guys in movies go nuts over the hot girl with the set of D's. Don't try to pack on weight just to increase your breast size. You're beautiful the way you are!

Big, skinny, flat-chested, or top-heavy, just be you. Your body being different is the whole appeal. Guys are stupid and we don't count on girls actually wanting to change for us when we make blind comments about physical appearances. If women keep on in the direction they're going, there will be no variety for us to choose from. Be you, and be proud of your body.

Boobs are boobs. Any guy worth a damn won't care what size they are. Guys r just fascinated by boobs bc they dont have them. Seriously haha.
I am really tall and skinny, about 5'8 and 130, I'm healthy I play sports and am pretty toned and have A boobs.
Then my bestfriend is 5'2 about 150/160 ins just a guess lol and either C or D boobs so she is on the heavier side and has big boobs.
But it doesn't matter we both get guys. We are both confident about ourselves which is more sexy then your body type, in my opinion.

I'm 15 and a 30A, almost all my friends are As too, we're small and proud of it! I habe a friend who is a 34C, and wears low cut tops and padded push up bras the whole time, and when we go to parties the boys literally fall at her feet, but she gets liked for all the wrong reasons, big boobs, ass and so on. In actual fact, she's a COMPLETE UTTER BITCH who's completely up herself (not really a friend). Also unlike my friends I'm absolutely tiny (5 foot) and Teallt skinny (I'm trying to gain weight), but I've been told I'm really feisty, and I think its your personality that counts the most.