No, that's different. (See the original answer here.) That's preferring one hair color over another, not an entire race or ethnicity. Everyone is entitled to their tastes. And it's not the guy's Asian fetish that bothers me-- it's the fact that he feels the need to mention it to his current girlfriend.
There's nothing wrong having preferences. People who say they flat-out don't like to date a specific race are pretty lame, however. And saying you prefer to only date Asians means you're ruling out a lot of relationship possibilities. But in this particular case, the guy is a tool for telling his (white) girlfriend that he prefers to date Asian women. It's jerky to talk about other women in general, not to mention that he's basically saying "I usually like women who are not you."
If you don't find blondes attractive, as Bobby Brown once said, that's your prerogative. I happen to think they have more fun. Diff'rent strokes for different folks.
There's nothing wrong having preferences. People who say they flat-out don't like to date a specific race are pretty lame, however. And saying you prefer to only date Asians means you're ruling out a lot of relationship possibilities. But in this particular case, the guy is a tool for telling his (white) girlfriend that he prefers to date Asian women. It's jerky to talk about other women in general, not to mention that he's basically saying "I usually like women who are not you."
If you don't find blondes attractive, as Bobby Brown once said, that's your prerogative. I happen to think they have more fun. Diff'rent strokes for different folks.
I have the same preferences for guys like that. I don't find guys that are blonde attractive at all. For me, it's all about dark hair and light colored eyes. Think Gerard Butler physicality. There is nothing wrong with not being attracted to someone with blonde hair.
I don't find blonde guys attractive either. I tried forcing myself to date two different blonde guys a few years ago, I just couldn't stomach to be intimate with either one of them. If your not attracted to blonde guys, don't be ashamed about it, your not alone in that boat.