At this very moment, December 4th, 10:45am EST, right here on plant earth, #whatifindattractive is trending. I guess that means one out four people who can type are going onto Twitter and weighing in on what they find attractive in a man or woman. Scrolling through the first page on the feed, I think it's quite revealing and echoes an important lesson we gentleman at GuySpeak try to impart: To each his own.

In other words, dating isn't Black Friday. We are not all breaking down the same door and trampling over each other for the $99 iPad. Some of us are looking for cookware, others hunt for handbags, and still, others have their eyes set on "Boys Tatted On The Arm Or Stomachh"

The list is varied and naturally that's a good thing. It's not so much survival of the fittest as survival of what fits you. In fact, after some more research into this list, I can report that the only common denominator - unifying things we all find attractive - are un-chapped lips and a sense of humor. The rest is totally up for grabs.

Don't believe me? Check out these 11 #whatifindattractive tweets that just came in while I walked away from my laptop to put on lip balm.

A guy that listens and pays attention.
a guy who isn't scared to say he love God.
jamaican ,american,french,Portuguese accents yumm
People who have good grammar
a girl that goes for personality, not looks..
mixed boys with green eyes, snapbacks, baggy pants lip biting and wearing a chain.
a guys sleepy voice..
understanding sarcasm.
a man who looks into the mirror wanting to change the world for the better.
a female who can keep her shirt on the first time we chill.
people who change all the time, I get bored easily.

Now, I know what you're thinking. What are "snapbacks?" They're just baseball caps with the snaps on the back. But you're also thinking, some of these things just listed are stone cold stupid and others you fully support. Good. That's the point.

Here are my ten. What are yours...?

FG #whatifindattractive
Soft hands
A working knowledge of Woody Allen films
someone travelly yet also very snuggly
Concern for the social well being of others
Sexy side boobs. (Ya know, the shape of breasts from a side angle)
Someone who likes to make up songs every once in a while
A person with goals...I can't f*ck with bums (Oops, thought that was mine it's actually 3b_MoNeY 's. My bad, fella.)
A person who challenges themselves and is open to questioning set truths
A person who knows the limits to Uggs. Time and place. Time and place.
Teeth. Not like, too many, but a good amount.
Sees the value of a few good pieces of Tupperware rather than a ton of sh*tty Tupperware.