Last weekend in Miami, Jersey Shore star Sammi "Sweetheart" Giancola was accused of punching another woman in the head. The guidette has said, "I'm the sweetest bitch you'll ever meet, but do not f*ck with me." OK, Sammi, just put down the Bumpit...
So guys, tell us: Have you ever dated a bad girl? Do men secretly get turned on by bitches?
Chic Geek says:
I kinda like mean girls. Sorry! I've also dated plenty of sweet, gal-next-door types, but I would be dishonest if I said I didn't kind of have a thing for women who are in touch with their inner "bad girl." All of the women I've seriously dated are confident and can hold their own, but not cruel or arrogant in any way. No one wants to be with a d-bag, be they of the male or female variety.
Unfortunately, society often labels confident, take-no-sh$! women as "bitches." Which is a shame. Interestingly enough, I seem to fall for women who went through their wild, "bad girl" phase in high school or college and are now ready to be with a nice guy who spent most of his formative years reading comic books and playing "Magic: The Gathering." "Reformed players," if you will. Uh, of the female variety. Oh, boy. This just got awkward...
Funny Guy says:
Absolutely not. Call it typical male inferiority complex or just liking nice people, but the way all fashion models seem to be very angry with me is a huge turn-off. I wrote too many bad poems and tore out too much hair over girls inexplicably going for the douchebag instead of the nice guy (meaning me, of course) to operate under the same principle.
Wise-Ass says:
I dated a bad girl in college. At first it was exciting, but it wears thin fast. Once she alienates all your friends and family, you almost have no choice but to break it off. When you do, though, fasten your seat belt, because it's gonna be a bumpy night. A bad girl will cut you.
I'm with Michael - I like women who are nice. But I don't know that taking up for yourself in a bar fight makes one "bad." I guess it depends on who started it.
Reformed Player says:
There's a difference between a woman who respects herself and a woman who think she's entitled to respect, no matter how she behaves. Most of the women I have dated know how to stand up for themselves. They respect themselves. Then there are women who think they deserve respect, without giving any back. That's a bitch.
Girl's BFF says: I have dated a bad girl and it was a worse experience than the time I drank the whole bottle of Hennesy and a cup of Coke. Bad girls breed drama and, well, I'm not a dog so I'm not breeding. I prefer a woman who likes to smile and doesn't prefer snarling and shooting fire any time she doesn't get what she wants. In short, I do not like dating dragons. Which leads to, no, I do not get turned on by bitches in any way, shape or form. That's like asking if I'm turned on my being stabbed and shot. I'm sure people enjoy that type of thing (assuming they live) but me, I prefer flowers and trees and things that don't require me to sleep with one eye open at all times. Gal Pal says: I think every woman should be able to access her inner bad girl. Life demands it. But life also demands politenes. "Do not f*ck with me, please." 
To turn this around, I've found that nothing turns me on more than a sweetheart of a man. My heart melts like chocolate over a flame.
Of course, working with the public like I do, I try to give everyone a compliment of some sort or make them smile, especially the men. Not that I'm a total flirt or anything, but it seems to me that men get overlooked a lot and even just telling them that I like their shirt or their hairstyle makes some of them brighten right up. That really makes my day.
I can be a bitch when I need to be, but I much prefer being nice. It feels so much better. It also helps me make up for what I lack in looks. *grin*
So true -- men don't get compliments from strangers very often, so it's a great way to brighten up their day and yours.
Im a bitch and I tend to scare off most men I like. Well, most. The men I cant respect are those who allow bitches to step on them, NO one can respect that. I like my men a little arrogant, but kind in a lot ways. Realllllyyyy nice guys who like me makes me want to throw knives at them, not because I hate them...but because hes asking to be stepped on. I can also be polite and do not demand respect without giving any. I simply dont care because, hello! Bitches have no friends, generally. Nevertheless, Im single.
I think they're guys out there who crave drama just as any woman would.
I definitely think there's a difference between a confident, no-nonsense woman, and a complete ass of a human being. Those kind of people are not fun. They are dramatic, bitter, and wish nothing more than to bring along a innocent bystander on their long journey of nail scratching, weave-pulling chaos.
Nice girls don't burn you out as fast.
I used to be a bit of a bitch a few years ago but I've changed. I changed after listening to my shihan, the master teacher of my martial arts discipline, tell us about inner strength. He said people who are strong and confident about themselves within are good people. Those who are disrespectful and arrogant tend to be weaker, insecure people, trying to assert dominance and give an illusion of strength. A quote from one of the masters, "Nothing as strong as gentleness; Nothing so gentle as real strength." They were some of the strongest, deadliest people in the world, but also the kindest. Since then, I've been kind and respectful and willing to stand up for myself, and have had no trouble finding good guys.