up about a minor personal choice of yours, there are probably going to be larger problems in any relationship with them anyway. Most guys will probably view it as awesome, but not something relevant to whether or not they like you. If you like it, and you're comfortable, go forth without shorts and the eternal admiration of the Reformed Player.

I can't think of one guy who wouldn't see this a huge WIN for him. (At least any guy I'd reveal my underwear predilections to.) Maybe you can pull on some granny panties once in awhile just to keep 'em guessing, but there's nothing wrong with nothing coming between you and your Calvins.

Pamper yourself.

Spend some time loving yourself (no, not that way! GAH, you lot have filthy minds!). Long soak, candles, a nice meal, a favorite film. Buy something you like and want. You know, get to know you again. 

Get out there.

With Valentine's being on a Monday this year, all the couples that clog up the restaurants with their foolishness and jet off for a romantic break are going to be doing that on the weekend of the 12th/13th. That means most of the guys left in the clubs and bars are definitely single and feeling just as lonely and angry as you. Get yourself out there, strut your stuff and get yourself some. Seriously, Valentines weekend is like shooting fish in a barrel, as far as hooking up is concerned. Clearing out the taken guys means you take a clearer look at what is left.

Read the rest of Mystery Man's V-Day list at the link above. And yes, get out there! If you've never experienced the self-esteem boost of a Feb. 14th nothing-to-lose fest, you're missing out on the "love thyself" spirit of the day. Invite your girls along, get a little crazy and fall in lust.

That's disgusting. And not normal.

Does he not shower every day? Does he shower and not clean his junk? The opposite is usually true -- a guy will spend 10 minutes washing his junk and 2 minutes on everything else.

The problem is easily solved: tell him you're not getting anywhere near his fetid phallus until he familiarizes himself with the hygienic properties of soap and puts them into practice daily. It's not just an odor issue, but a health issue, too. Nobody with ripe junk should expect sex. Now, if you'll excuse me, I need to go vomit. And scrub my balls.

I'm laughing so hard at Wise-Ass' answer that it's hard to respond maturely. So I won't. That IS disgusting and gross!! No more hinting about this. INSIST (lovingly) that he wash thoroughly or you're never coming near him again - start an egg timer while he's in the shower to make sure he takes his time. If the stench doesn't go away, he needs to see a doctor right away.

Funny Guy says:

Have you ever been caught in a rainstorm while thinking about sunshine? Have you found yourself eating cereal, but thinking about filet mignon?

OR, Even trickier, but true: The reverse.

Have you ever been on a beautiful beach yet missed your apartment? Ever bite into a gourmet cheesecake but crave a Twinkie? Ever have sex with a smooth talking Hercules but find yourself thinking about your lovable pudgy ex?

This just be our nature. 

Oh, Amit, do you always have to tell us the truth? If you get to fantasize about other girls, can't we fantasize that you're actually thinking about the girl you're with while having sex with the girl you're with? Is that so much to ask? But I guess in the end it's no one's fault - minds simply wander. I'm sure the girl from the previous question fantasizes she's having sex with a guy who's junk doesn't have the aroma of cow dung.

It means he's married, engaged, or has a girlfriend. There are few more obvious signs of a cheater than a guy who won't share basic personal information.

Why else wouldn't he give you his phone number? He's not playing hard to get - he doesn't want you to call because his wife might see the number on his caller ID and get suspicious. And he won't tell you where he lives because there is another woman living there and she isn't his roommate. Does he always call from his work number? Assuming his wife isn't also his boss, she won't be checking his phone records at work. 

Honestly, unless he's a spy or in the witness protection program, he's attached and looking to cheat. He's carrying on a secret life. Why do you want to be a part of it? 

Oh, honey, turn off your phone. Nick's right - this dude is definitely living with another lady. Either that or he his penis smells like rotting corpse and he's afraid you'll come to his house and learn his stinky secret. 

Ouch. I'm sorry to hear about your predicament. But here's what you need to do:

You need to be straight up and very honest with your boyfriend and tell him sooner, rather than later. Tell him very plainly that while you all were split, you dated somebody else who you slept with and have now found out that you're pregnant.

Here's the other thing, you need to be ready for him to break up with you. There's a very significant chance that will happen. And no, it's not selfish of him to do so. There will be people who will say that "if he really loved you, he'd stick around and be there for you" and while I understand that logic and statement, it removes emotion from the situation. You want your boyfriend to help you through a pregnancy by another man and to be there to help you raise another man's child, almost as his own. I'm not sure if that's your expectation, but I'm guessing that you even asking this question hints directly at that.

So yes, just tell him the truth. Straight, no chaser and allow him to make a decision. This is going to be hard on you and if he's a good guy he'll know that and won't try to make you feel bad about it. It will also be hard on him because of what I stated above. I'm not sure how this will end up, but I wish you the best of luck.

Wow, that's an incredibly sticky situation, but Panama just gave you seriously solid advice. So good, in fact, that I can't even make a smelly genital joke here.

That's it for this week, thanks for playing, guys and girls! And get your questions ready for the next GuySpeak Live Chat...coming later this month!