How much is too much when it comes to texting your man sexy pics?

Chic Geek says:

Less is definitely more when it comes to photo sexting. Think of it like the appetizer before the main course. (Sex is the main course for the slow folks in the audience.) Give him a taste of what he'll be getting later. For instance, send a photo that shows what color bra you're wearing that day with the note, "here's a little peek at what you'll be seeing later..." Always leave him wanting more.

Some more tips:
-- If you ever want to run for public office, don't go "the Full Monty." Or at least guard the memory card well.
-- If you're sending revealing photos, he should reciprocate. A guy who knows you have photos of his junk is less likely to be careless with photographic evidence of your goodies.

Gal Pal says:
Read the rest of Nick's tips at the link above. And keep in mind the old adage, "Take a picture, it'll last longer." Yep, it'll usually last longer than your relationship - keep that in mind before you start snapping in your skivvies.

What are 8 Great Ways To Kill The Mood In Bed?

Wise-Ass says:

Want to turn the hot-and-heavy into the cold-and-awkward in the blink of an eye? Do any one of these things and watch the fun come to a screeching halt. Or so we've heard. Ahem.

1) Mention a former lover
"Touch me there. Oh yeah, that's it. Reginald used to do that." Because that's exactly what a guy wants to think about when he's doing you: you doing Reg.

2) Laugh at his equipment
Is it tiny? Huge? Weird-looking? Go ahead, laugh. Guys aren't sensitive at all about their junk. As long as you're entertained, it's okay.

3) Scream like a freak
Yeah, that's it, shriek like he's carving you up with a chainsaw. Go ahead, wake the neighbors. Maybe they'll call the cops. Guys love talking to the cops on the front lawn in the middle of the night with the entire neighborhood watching. It's like a block party but without the fun.

4) Don't make a sound
Ah, the silent type. Guys love that. Who needs feedback? It's like you were roofied or something. That's not creepy at all.

Gal Pal says:
So many ways to ruin a night, so little time. Read the rest of Cary's creepy list at the link above. I'd like to contribute "Hide a stopwatch under the sheets" to the cringe-inducing cannon.

I feel awkward around my boyfriend's friends. I never seem to have anything to say and am afraid I come off as stuck-up whenever I am around them. What are some things I could do to make it less awkward around his friends? They are nice people.

Funny Guy says:

Once you decide you like somebody, there's a natural tendency to place that person in front of your friends and say, "Attention everyone! Look at this person next to me! I like this person! Now you talk to them and like them, too."

Unfortunately, it doesn't always work so smoothly. In your case, you are the newbie placed in a friend group and asked to swim. It can be awkward, intimidating, nerve-racking and annoying. Some people (not you) tend to overcompensate and blast into conversations, overly injecting themselves to overpower the "awk." Others (you), find themselves more buttoned-up and frozen.

Here's a mantra I want you to repeat next time you're with his circle: It's easier to talk to a tree than a forest. All you need to do is strike up a conversation with one of these "nice people" and let things organically develop from there. Once you are well acquainted with one "tree," it will seamlessly branch out into more interaction.

Tree One: Oh, you went to [insert your College]? So did Fred. Yo, Fred come over here. Did you know [insert your name] went to [insert your College]?
Fred: Oh really, what year?
You: 20xx
Fred: Oh cool, did you know X?
And so on and so on...
 
That's your ticket into this or any overwhelming social sea. Don't treat it like one massive body; approach it as individual fish swimming in the same tank and catch one.

Gal Pal says:
You know one of the best ways to make friends? Ask people about themselves. Ask about their day. Ask how they first met your boyfriend. Listen, smile and nod. Presto - friendo!

What kind of breakup excuses from guys are legit and which are not? For example, my ex says he wants to be alone no relationship with anyone, never wants to marry or have kids. We've been broken up for a year and no new girl in his life. Is his excuse true? or is it the right girl needs to come along scenario?

Girls' BFF says:

Let's clear something up. All breakup excuses are legit. And let me tell you why. If a dude decides to breakup with you for some bogus reason, consider yourself lucky that he did you the solid of removing you from his life before he brought you into a non-sensical web of ridiculousness and lunacy. Game. Set. Match.

Regarding this particular chap. My guess is that he's just waiting for the right woman to come along. A lot of people say they're done and don't want to get married, etc. And maybe that's how he really feels. But maybe he just hasn't met the woman to change his life yet and make him realize those are things he wants to share with her.

I know what and why you're asking. You're trying to figure out if it was you or him. And chances are it was both. He didn't want to be with you that much anymore and decided to bail and let you know that he was just done altogether. He just wasn't that into you. But also, maybe he felt like he was doing you a favor given how he felt at the time about no kids or marriage.

So the truth is that, based on his current actions - I guess, a year really isn't that long - you can feel better about yourself and just assume it was all about him. But realize that when he starts dating again - and he will - it has nothing to do with you. You just weren't the girl for him at the time. It happens.

Gal Pal says:
Panama speaks the truth. Whether you like it or not, nobody needs a good/legit/honest/reasonable excuse to break up with you. They just get to do it, in whatever crappy way they want to. But instead of looking back at a year of HIS excuses, start examining your own excuses for not moving on from this clearly unfulfilling relationship.  

My husband has been with over 50 women who would be considered prefect 10's. When he met me, I already had a LOT of extra saggy skin and stretch marks. He says he loves my body and has never been more attracted to anyone more in his life. Is he just sparing my feelings? (He also said he felt bad for me when he first saw it.)

Mystery Man says:

Your husband has discovered what real beauty is. I read a line somewhere - can't remember where - when I was a kid, that has stayed with me all my life.

"Every woman is beautiful. Sometimes it just takes time to notice it."

So no, he is not sparing your feelings. We keep repeating this, and no one ever listens. Guys usually say what they mean, and mean what they say. Unless they are trying to get into your pants. Then all bets are off.

Gal Pal says:
Let's take a breath and think this through. You have a man - your husband - who loves you and your body. Do you know how many women would kill for that?? Do you know how many women write into this site complaining about men disparaging their bodies and souls? Revel in the love you have, lady. And appreciate it for those who aren't so lucky to be in your "saggy" skin.

So...I was having an affair with a married man, and suddenly, he stopped texting and calling. I was just in it for the sex, but he seemed to try to make a relationship out of it. How hard is it to actually be able to have no strings attached sex? I thought it would be much easier.

Reformed Player says:

So, let me get this straight, you wanted a relationship that was purely about sex and nothing else...and you started banging a married guy? You didn't think that might have, I don't know, an emotional component for somebody at some point? Possibly, oh, his wife? Or maybe that he might feel just a little guilt over what he was doing?

If you just want sex, go to college bars about two hours before closing time, don't hook up with married guys. Or take out an ad on the Internet. But from now on, avoid people already in a relationship. They've got lots of strings, and it hurts them hard when you yank on them.

Gal Pal says:
You want no-strings sex? Try no-ring-on-the-ring-finger sex the next time. And that's all we've got for this time. Thanks for playing, guys and girls!