When asked the reason that they maintained such close ties, the husband replied, "we share a lot of quickies."

Um...arrrrah?

Turns out, they maintained some sort of sexual lust for one another through daily quickies. I have no clue why this made sense or why they determined that's what kept them happy but for them that was there solution. So it got me to thinking.

Could quickies be good for the sanity of a relationship? Let's examine.

One of the most common points of contention in committed relationships is that the sex tends to dry up. Dat very boring. Once you stop viewing your partner as an object of lust, well, its pretty much all down hill from there. But some of the reason why it becomes burdensome is this need to perform. What if that entire ideology went out the window and the entire goal was just to get yours as quick as possible. No need for constant foreplay. You all just stayed hot for one another and got it in at need and kept it moving.

Granted, this would never work as a sole solution. You've got to get your real, deep lovemaking in on occasion. But think about it. Quickies tend to be more tense and dramatic. It's that good lovin' that folks want. If you can make your partner squirm 20 years into a marriage by just looking at them because you never let the love subside by continuing to have sex, well, that's a win. Nobody's going to complain about finances if that good bedroom love and feeling is still there.

Plus, sex just makes people happier. I'm convinced of this. If you are constantly having sex with somebody you WANT to sleep with, you just feel better about stuff. What stuff? I don't know...just stuff. Stuff is just better.

Hell, sleeping next to somebody you like makes you feel good so imagine if you're actually smanging them! Constantly, and on purpose. Men and women would all be happier. And if it's basically your version of a goodbye kiss in the morning, how could you go off into the world and not smile. In order to have good sex you have to be in it so they could be like daily "love checks" to make sure that you both still had that fire. If you keep smanging, the fire is still there.

Love.

So yeah, get you a quickie. Today, tomorrow, and as many days as you can thereafter. It just may save your life.