"Bridesmaids" made a killing last weekend by portraying women as raunchy, crude and hysterical. Guys, do you think it's OK for women to make inappropriate, naughty or slightly vulgar jokes on a date? Is that keeping it real or keeping it rude?
Wise-Ass says:
Of course! Why wouldn't it be? I like women with a ribald sense of humor. Makes me feel less guilty about my own. It's kinda sexy, too.
Girls' BFF says:
I don't mind a woman making naughty or slightly vulgar jokes. In fact, I rather appreciate and enjoy it because it allows us to get comfortable faster. Plus, I'm the king of inappropriate comments so if she's making them, then I can and then we can just be merry and get to our A-game flirting. I think it's only rude if she's, ya know, rude. I've met some rude broads who were more offensive than fun, and those chicks got treated like a basketball...they had to bounce.
Funny Guy says:
I do like a woman that can carry her own weight in the dick jokes department. But, what is "vulgar" humor, anyway? I find Jeff Foxworthy and Seinfeld way more painful and offensive then Chris Rock or Louis C.K. Let's leave it at this: if the queef jokes rolling off her tongue are genuinely funny and delivered with ease -- terrific. If she's nervously plopping out jokes just to be exciting and "wacky," -- Booo! Leave it to the Pros.
Chic Geek says:
Unless you're meeting his mom for the first time, let the filthy jokes fly! Though if his mom is Joan Rivers, all bets are off. (Watch "Joan & Melissa: Joan Knows Best" on WeTV!)
Reformed Player says:
You should always be yourself, and if being yourself means being crude, then by all means, make with the jokes about the kid looking for the one-cent screw and that chestnut involving stroking a beer bottle.
But don't force it, for the love of God. It's never a good idea to be something you're not.
Mystery Man says:
If she wants a second date with me, yes, she'd better be funny.
Gal Pal says:
Of course all these guys are in favor of women being funny on dates - we all agree they're evolved and awesome. But you'd be surprised how many men get uncomfortable when women get funny on dates. I think it's a useful date barometer - if he can't handle my humor, he's not the guy for me. Ladies, don't hide your funny under a prim and proper barrel. Because if you can't have a good laugh with the person you love, you're missing the whole point. LOL.
I'm odd at times, I have good manners, my mother taught me well, but I'm also the daughter of a cop and studying theatre. Crude humor cones very naturally to me, but it tends to be coupled with lady like behavior in other aspects.
"If she wants a second date with me, yes, she'd better be funny." If she wants a second date with you, she'd better like smug wankers.
Exhibit A of 'Not Funny'.
Everyone has different views on what is and isn't 'funny', and no one wants to date someone who doesn't get their sense of humour.
I guess you and MM shouldn't date :P
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