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The Man's Guide To Knowing If A Woman Is Interested In You

You wouldn't believe how many questions come into our queue from guys wondering if a woman is interested in them. Now my default statement is this: if she is you will know beyond the shadow of a doubt. But apparently there are enough men out there without even the slightest clue about feminine wiles and the fine art of subtlety. I'm pretty sure I've written how to know if a man is interested before, but now its time to inform the men.

1. She touches you a lot.

A woman who is interested will constantly touch you, if for no other reason than because she's comfortable enough to do so. If you're out and you meet a woman and you strike up a convo and she puts her hand on your arm or your leg in even the most innocent of ways, she just might be into you.

2. She smiles at you.

This probably should be clue number one. Most men lose their chance to go further with a woman because they say something stupid. And not stupid haha, more like stupid, go die. A smile buys you more time to get more smiles. If a chick stays to talk to you AND she's smiling, you might have won yourself a phone number.

3. She keeps talking to you.

Once again it's about time. Women who aren't interested aren't going to spend too much time with you. I can't blame them. When I'm bored with a convo, I roll out quickly. Women are no different. Nobody likes to waste time. Plus she might get hit by a bus tomorrow and she just spent thirty of her final minutes yapping it up with you for no reason. She can't take that risk. So yes, if she sticks around she just might be into you.

4. She keeps finding her way back to you.

This can be at a club or in life. Any woman who has an interest in you that hasn't been fulfilled will find a way to stay in your life. Whether its peripherally or more blatant. She will then do all the little subtle things listed above when the opportunity presents itself. If you're curious if a woman likes you but she's ALWAYS there for you...in fact...

5. She's always there for you.

Friends are wonderful things to have but a woman is only going to always be there for you if she's interested in you, possibly because she's hoping you'll take the hint at some point.

6. She effin' tells you.

A lot of guys play the coy, "I don't believe you" card when a woman they're interested is also interested back. Play coy long enough and you'll be playing solitaire, papi. Only a woman who really has exhausted all of her other subtleties will tell you straight up. If you fumble that one, you're not supposed to be with her.

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1 Comment

Elisha22

Love this! It's completely true.

And I never saw the blog for knowing if a man is interested.

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