One of my favorite websites to troll is TruuConfessions.com, a place where women can confess your deep, dark, secret thoughts anonymously. There are several sites like this on the web, but TruuConfessions is my favorite, as it caters distinctly to women in a variety of categories: Single/Dating, Married, Moms, Brides, and more. Anytime I'm wondering what women are thinking these days, I just drop in and read a few confessions. Some are shocking, some funny, some sad, some infuriating, but all are entertaining.
Here are a few I liked from the Single/Dating category. Perhaps you can relate.
In a perfect world, chocolate cake would also have zero calories, cigarettes would be completely harmless, all men would have really big ones (that vibrate) and you could get all the good TV channels you want.
He calls me 'dude'. Don't really know what to take from that.
For the very first time in my life I am throwing caution to the wind. All the little voices in my head can take a vacation because I want to enjoy this man even if it leads to nowhere.
I would go celibate for life before I'd date a man with kids. No thank you.
I'm not going to chase you. I'm an attractive smart woman and have loved you for almost half my life. You know where I am when you're ready.
I made it without you!!!!
You know what sucks? Having a cute guy make you an adorable cake for your birthday with a letter inside telling you all he wants is to be with you....aaaand you aren't attracted to him at all.
My relationship is balls to the walls awful.
I don't think we are dating. But he spent the whole day with me and we had an awesome time checking out the city. I think I have made a really good friend, and sometimes that is better than a date.
I gave a 45 minute blow job tonight. Damn. My mouth hurts.
Ok, I'm tired of this. I tried to be the supportive friend but no more. You break up, get back together, then whine to me about all the problems you have. Problems which are ALWAYS THE SAME. So you know what? Next you break up, don't bother to say anything. You'll just be back together in a few days anyway.
And a few favorites from the "Wife" category:
Does everybody have a husband who thinks he's absolutely hilarious or is just me?
Dear husband, all I ever wanted you to do was show me how much you love me, not just say it. You never show me. That's ok though. Someone else has been showing me the love and tenderness a woman needs for about two years now. Go back to your fucking XBOX!
I've been exercising for couple weeks now. Jokingly I asked hubby if i was skinny yet and he says 'it doesn't matter to me, you're beautiful"
It is so weird, one day I hate you and the next I love you. I can't make up my mind.
Don't touch me. I don't want sex. I may never want it again. I'm sorry.
Sometimes I wonder what I could have done different to make my marriage work, then I remember I did everything I could.
I seriously am considering hiring someone to get all the shit done around here my DH starts & never finishes. Including giving me orgasms.
My husband and I are swingers. Our families have no idea. We are still very active in church and in our kids schools and little league. But deep down I love being a whore for my husband. In the first year when we started, I was with over 50 men and never felt more alive. I wonder if more wives feel this way too.
Did my DH really just take a TV tray into the bathroom? Really?
To the hot teenage boy next door...I'm old enough to be your mom but I would blow you in a hot minute if you asked. Then I would make you rake my yard for free.
He keeps saying he'll want kids "next year." It's been 3 years of this. I'm scared that by the time he's actually ready, it will be too late.
For more confessions and other categories, check out TruuConfessions.com.
How about you? Got anything you want to get off your mind? Speak.
Here are a few I liked from the Single/Dating category. Perhaps you can relate.
In a perfect world, chocolate cake would also have zero calories, cigarettes would be completely harmless, all men would have really big ones (that vibrate) and you could get all the good TV channels you want.
He calls me 'dude'. Don't really know what to take from that.
For the very first time in my life I am throwing caution to the wind. All the little voices in my head can take a vacation because I want to enjoy this man even if it leads to nowhere.
I would go celibate for life before I'd date a man with kids. No thank you.
I'm not going to chase you. I'm an attractive smart woman and have loved you for almost half my life. You know where I am when you're ready.
I made it without you!!!!
You know what sucks? Having a cute guy make you an adorable cake for your birthday with a letter inside telling you all he wants is to be with you....aaaand you aren't attracted to him at all.
My relationship is balls to the walls awful.
I don't think we are dating. But he spent the whole day with me and we had an awesome time checking out the city. I think I have made a really good friend, and sometimes that is better than a date.
I gave a 45 minute blow job tonight. Damn. My mouth hurts.
Ok, I'm tired of this. I tried to be the supportive friend but no more. You break up, get back together, then whine to me about all the problems you have. Problems which are ALWAYS THE SAME. So you know what? Next you break up, don't bother to say anything. You'll just be back together in a few days anyway.
And a few favorites from the "Wife" category:
Does everybody have a husband who thinks he's absolutely hilarious or is just me?
Dear husband, all I ever wanted you to do was show me how much you love me, not just say it. You never show me. That's ok though. Someone else has been showing me the love and tenderness a woman needs for about two years now. Go back to your fucking XBOX!
I've been exercising for couple weeks now. Jokingly I asked hubby if i was skinny yet and he says 'it doesn't matter to me, you're beautiful"
It is so weird, one day I hate you and the next I love you. I can't make up my mind.
I recently started selling my prescription
pills, they are pain killers and I know it's against the law, but when can
get $500 for about 40 pills how can I pass that up so my family can
eat. I will put my pain aside for awhile so they willnot go without. I'm
a single mom of 5 who was recently laid off and now im between
jobs,this is going to have to do for now.
Don't touch me. I don't want sex. I may never want it again. I'm sorry.
Sometimes I wonder what I could have done different to make my marriage work, then I remember I did everything I could.
I seriously am considering hiring someone to get all the shit done around here my DH starts & never finishes. Including giving me orgasms.
My husband and I are swingers. Our families have no idea. We are still very active in church and in our kids schools and little league. But deep down I love being a whore for my husband. In the first year when we started, I was with over 50 men and never felt more alive. I wonder if more wives feel this way too.
Did my DH really just take a TV tray into the bathroom? Really?
To the hot teenage boy next door...I'm old enough to be your mom but I would blow you in a hot minute if you asked. Then I would make you rake my yard for free.
He keeps saying he'll want kids "next year." It's been 3 years of this. I'm scared that by the time he's actually ready, it will be too late.
For more confessions and other categories, check out TruuConfessions.com.
How about you? Got anything you want to get off your mind? Speak.
Interesting thoughts. I can relate to a couple of these, but I'm not saying which ones. :-)
Just checked out the site. It's the new FML and TFLN. Love it.
"For the very first time in my life I am throwing caution to the wind. All the little voices in my head can take a vacation because I want to enjoy this man even if it leads to nowhere."
Yesssssss. Exactly what I'm going through. And a few others. :)
LOVE this as well!!!
These were especially funny to me - but my husband has concerns regarding my sanity reading stuff like this...
"I seriously am considering hiring someone to get all the shit done around here my DH starts & never finishes. Including giving me orgasms."
"To the hot teenage boy next door...I'm old enough to be your mom but I would blow you in a hot minute if you asked. Then I would make you rake my yard for free."
I'm in love with this new site! Yay!
And I totally agree with some of these posted, but I'm not telling either!!
He keeps saying he'll want kids "next year." It's been 3 years of this. I'm scared that by the time he's actually ready, it will be too late.
Sounds exactly just like my husband!
I'm thinking about becoming a nun and joining a convent. The last time I had sex was this past March (not enjoyable and I don't even like to try to remember it). Before this I was in an unbalanced relationship and needed to watch porn before I could actually have sex... The easy answer would be to find a FWB but I actually want a monogamus relationship that will go beyond two hours of enjoyment... To add insult to injury the guys I want to date here in California aren't interested and don't even sneeze in my direction. if I actually score a date and it leads to meaningful questions about having a family that's when I get the cold shoulder because I don't want kids. I'm open to dating mature single fathers but even that seems to be a problem with in itself. My fear is that I will have my awesome career, plenty of opportunity to travel, a great apartment but no one to share my life with.
I'd agree with the dating someone with kids thing, but that's only because the man I'm in love with has a child and for the rest of my life I have to be a stepmum, when kids was never ever something I wanted.
Had I realised that the kid thing would be this huge (and yes, it was very naive not to think it would be) I don't think we'd be together now. And that might be a good thing. I just don't know.
I'm a little confused mouse.. Which part is a good thing? that you may not be with the man you're in love with? or??? .... please fill in the blanks for me.
This one's a good one: "Don't let a guy sweep you off your feet. It only puts them in the perfect position to drop you on your ass." ~Anonymous
I'm a hopeful romantic... I don't mind a guy sweeping me off my feet because that's how it should be. At the age of 31 I still love that feeling I get like I'm fifteen years old around a guy I really like, when I blush when he pays me a genuine compliment, and how I can be my complete self around that person..... Everything in life is a gamble. Especially love. There are good experiences as much as bad.. And without the bad you cant learn and continue to prepare for the good person that will come along.
Uhmm, you're pretty much in contradiction with what you just wrote in this thread. "I'm thinking about becoming a nun and joining a convent...." So what is it really that you fear if you don't mind the bad and yet fear something that's not bound to happen if you take the risk of falling in love? There are a lot of guys here in CA. North and South. Question is, where are you looking and what exactly is it you're looking for in a man?
Thank you for responding Faye.. The first line "I'm actually thinking about becoming a nun...." Was an attempt at a joke =D.. In all honesty I love sex way to much to give it up completely.. As far as my fear I stand by what I said. The bottom line is that even though I have feelings of doubt I'm saying that with faith/trust in God I know my counter part is out there some where... I'm new to SD.. I was in chula for a bit so I'm more south... Yes. There are a lot of guys every where but it doesn't mean I'm there type or vice versa. I'm not actively looking right now because I'm more focused on school. I have different types of men that I have dated. The rocker, surfer, skateboarder, suit/tie guys, and men who aren't so attractive.. My thing is.. You don't have to be drop dead gorgeous but I have to be somewhat attracted to you.. I'm looking for my male bestfriend slash lover.. Some one who will call me on my bullshit and not be afraid to disagree with me. Funny. Gentleman. Intelligent. Good sense of humor, emotionally healthy, and can financially hold his own. And since I don't want kids I don't mind dating single fathers.. Not to be rude or insentive but what is your nationality (I don't want to assume) but what about you? Do u have trouble dating in CA?