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The Mystery Man's Sunday Six

Happy Sunday, everyone! I hope you're all getting ready for Pi Day! I expect pictures from around the world of all of the math-themed parties you're sure to be having this week.

Speaking of mathematics, consider the joys of the number six. I've always appreciated the mighty half dungeon, as should all of you. Sodas come in sixes. Good, cheap socks come in six-packs. So do the best abs. And sometimes, like today, so do answers.

This Sunday, I've decided to dig back through the past week's questions and answer six on a single theme. After pouring through mountainous piles of letters, your friendly neighborhood Mystery Man has settled on the theme: Age. So here are six answers to six questions about age!

The Mystery Man's Sunday Six: Age

Would a potential boyfriend get weirded out if he finds out I've never even had a first kiss and I'm already 25?

At 25, most people have had at least one kiss. So it is a bit strange (though not unheard of) that you haven't had your first yet. That said, you don't need to confess to any potential boyfriend that you don't have any lip-locking experience and you don't need to be ashamed of it. I'm of the opinion that you should let someone know if you're a virgin, but you don't need to warn anyone that you've never had a first kiss. You'll get kissed eventually. So don't worry about it, and don't advertise it.

Why do guys within my age group 24-29 usually go for the 18-22 yr olds? I find that I usually get attention from younger dudes with raging hormones or the 40+ crowd but not those within my age range. i'm starting to feel like an old maid because of this.

First, if you're in your mid- to late-twenties, you're not an old maid. Second, I think this is more a result of your bad luck than any overall problem with all of the menfolk. Many... or most... guys have no problem dating within their own age range. You just haven't found any in your town/county/state. I recommend expanding your dating pool a bit. New hobbies, new interests, or online dating perhaps.The average 25 year old will want to date you. Just find him.

Is it true that a penis shrinks as a man ages (ie 55/60+) or am I just very gullible & believe what men tell me? Two men of that age group have small penises but say they used to be 6 or 7 inches previously, what should I believe?

A penis's historical size is much less important than a penis's current size. There are men of all ages that have small equipment and men of all ages that have large equipment. Find the equipment that's right for you and don't pay attention to stories about previous feats of girth and length.

What's your opinion on large age gaps in relationships? like 10 plus years, given that both parties are legal. What about in a FWB situation?

Ten years is a big gap. It is certainly possible to have a healthy relationship or, if you want, a healthy friends-with-benefits situation. But with a decade between you, it may be difficult to always stay on the same page regarding overall life goals. Money, children, home ownership, travel. All of those things are tricky enough to manage when you're both the same age. But with ten years in between, the odds are that there will be many gaps between what you want and what he wants. Before starting anything, serious or otherwise, see if you two share similar views on family, sex, commitment and some of the other big stuff. It'll save you from heartbreak later.

My bf of 2 years has accounts on pof and cougar life. I unintentionally found out about the CL one, he says he uses it cause he is curious if he knows anyone on there, the info is fake. His pof profile has real info about him, but no picture or "about me." He hasn't messaged anyone. Should I be worried?

It's up to you as to whether or not to believe he's just curious. Whether he's on a website for cougars or a website for 18 year olds, he's still on a dating site. And that's usually a huge red flag.

How do i know that this 10 year old likes me?

I really, really hope that you're also a ten year old. Because if not, we're going to have to call the police. Assuming you are also ten, you probably want to ask some of his/her friends. If he/she likes you, he/she has probably talked to his/her friends about you. Hopefully, his/her friends are also your friends and will tell you.


There you have it, folks. Six answers all on the subject of age! Now get out there and enjoy pi!

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The second question. I feel your pain. I'm 29 in my case all the guys of my own age in my social circle want to date teenagers-20 year olds ( they would never go as high as 22.) . Its depressing since I'm not hugely attracted to older men.

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