Just a show of hands: how many of you would sign up to make $600 a night for simply being mean? You know acting like a jerk, a prick, a...what's the word? Oh yeah, S&M master. No really, how many of you would be willing to whip a businessman's bare ass or stomp on a high powered attorney's scrotum with a pair of stilettos for a serious stack of hundos at the end of your day on the job?
I recently came across a young lady who began doing this. No, I didn't meet her that way. A young lady who, through friends of friends, was introduced into this racket whereby young, pretty adults are offered serious cash to inflict measured pain and pleasure fantasies to New York's finest -- essentially serving as dungeon masters fulfilling the erotic. And by NYC's finest I don't mean New York's police force, though I can only assume some of them are on the dole, but the fine everyday professional men and women who make this city what it is. Bankers, doctors, teachers, etc. Now I don't mean to broadcast some widespread conspiracy here, I'm not saying most of us are average Dick and Jane's by day and Eyes Wide Shut S&M vampires by night, but New York (and every other town I assume) does have a population that likes paying for erotica-torture. And someone's got to do the deeds.
Is working in one of these pain-caves akin to prostitution? Stripping? Physical therapy? Can a job you wouldn't tell mom or dad about still be morally ok? Is making $600 a night to, say, I don't know, whack a man's ass with his own briefcase entirely amoral and vile? Sure it is. Maybe. I mean on first approach there is something quite bad about inflicting pain on a stranger even if they are asking, nay, begging for it. And adding the sexual component to all this must put it in the no-no category. Still I do wonder, is it inherently worse than other slimy jobs many of us aspire to? Certain jobs in banking and advertising that distorts truth and manipulates clients. And while I can certainly argue the differences, I thought I might ask you guys to weigh in.
1. Would you take such a job for any amount of money?
2. If you would, would you tell others?
3. What would you liken this line of work to?
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4. Are you upset they are only hiring young pretty people for these gigs?
There's actually a comic that goes into some good detail about what that job's like: http://nicbuxom.blogspot.com/
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Amit, this blog is hilarious. No holds barred; I love that. So...yes, definitely I'd give this a shot, but I'd charge $4500 - $15,000 per hour - sliding scale. To determine fee, I'd require prospective clients to fill out a specialized questionnaire, as well as the Myers-Briggs personality type indicator test. A willingness to pay insane fees would be the first indication of just how badly your clients wish to be tortured. Not to mention, this is hard work, which requires research, skill and expertise, as well as great costumes. As for telling others, yes, absolutely - I may even begin a blog. I would liken this "job" to work as a researcher who does terrible things to animals in the name of science, an investment banker, a personal trainer or a chiropractor or acupuncturist. I've no problem with the powers that be only hiring pretty young things. They should, however, consider hiring older, more experienced individuals to train the younger set. As I've always said...to each his own...
I'm a little reserved in bed so this might be hard for me, but I don't see anything wrong with it. Guys pay for sex and pleasure all the time, many times with women who don't have any other choice but to sell their bodies for money. At least in this situation the woman is in control and makes the rules. I'm surprised that they're only hiring hot young things. Don't guys who want to be tortured like less hot less young things too? Just like in the real world, I'd think these guys all have different likes and dislikes - hot or not.
Well considering that I do this as my second job, yes I'd do it. My friends all know but my relatives do not. Neither does my boyfriend's friends or relatives know. I have a blog as well.
While the pretty young things tend to make the most money I know dommes of all shapes, sizes, ages and even skill levels.
I would liken this work to therapy. You listen to the needs of the client, encourage them to explore what makes themselves tick more thoroughly.
The costumes are great, the theater of it fun. And the pay is nice as well.
The pay would have to be a unlimited charge card to get ANYTHING besides what I need for the job from anyone I am involved with and I would only have only one person! Would be way to expensive and require a contract (with you guessed it like in 50 shades of Grey) that has limits and no no's! So I'm guessing this is not something anyone like that would agree to. I would defiantly NEVER tell anyone. And as for them looking for pretty young things, I don't know if that is all that is behind those closed doors so I can't say? I have seen a lot of good looking guys with big women.
$600 a night for starters, but I'd charge more as I got more proficient, and hell yea I'd tell my mama. No shame is the name of the game if you're a master, you inflict the shame ;) And they don't JUST hire the young and beautiful, may be in certain clubs, but there's many an experienced dungeon master getting work from what I can tell. Plus, masters set their limits on what their willing to do to their clients. And clients go to the masters that can offer them what they want, whether that's flat out torture, or serious regimented submission. It's something I've thought about before, and maybe I will if I ever have the time to devote to getting good at it. I don't think it's immoral, it's just a bit out of societies comfort zone.
I have done this but not in a professional setting. I did it independently for 2 and a half years. Long enough to get my family out of debt. You'd be amazed at how much people will pay and the lengths they will go to.
I was flown to Florida once for a man who wanted me to stay over night and make him dress up in lingerie and clean his own home. Then take him out to location AWAY from his home and publicly humiliate him. For 48 hours I was paid 1,700.
Would I do it? Yes. I have and I'd do it again.
Would I tell others? Everyone close to me knew what I was doing so of course if I did it again, I would tell them.