Dear Ladies,
This is my last blog-post as Guyspeak's "Reformed Player." I will be moving on to another project that I'm really excited about. It won't involve me answering your questions, but it will be funny and dumb and totally fantastinuts.
If you want to keep up on my interweb rantings, please do me the honor of following me on Twitter or Facebook.
This project has been one of my favorite ever. The amount of questions, and the quality, never ceased to amaze me. As did the number of times I was asked if "he" was cheating on "me." I got that question, literally, hundreds of times. I'm sure I could draw a sociological conclusion from that glimpse into the lady hive mind. But I am a gentleman.
I have to give a shout-out to my fellow guys on Guyspeak. They're all some of the funniest, most talented and honest scribblers online. I especially want to knuckle-bump original gangstas Cary, Nick, and Panama. You guys are some of the least douchiest people I've worked with.
I'm sad to leave Guyspeak. I'll miss all you ladies. I won't miss my picture and that ridiculous hair. Teal is not my color.
So... here are my 15 favorite questions. I'm not including any of my blog posts. You can read all my posts here. Guyspeak isn't really a blog. I mean, it is. And some of the best work on the site were blog posts. But at it's core, Guyspeak is a site where women can ask regular guys questions about... anything and get uncensored and totally honest answers. I have to give just a ton of credit to our fairy godmothers at WEtv. Our editors there really gave us almost total freedom to express ourselves and answer questions the way we wanted. That was just such a huge gift to be given.
Here are my 15 favorite questions, which I've slightly edited.
1. This was a question about biracial dating.
2. This question was about time travel. Some of my questions were just awesome. Thank you, sexy nerd girls.
3. He says his life is complicated. Really, guy?
4. This was a difficult question. A man was told a secret by his wife and didn't know what to do. I tried my best.
5. Be yourself. That was my advice.
6. Is it okay to do this while having sex? Yes.
7. Dump this dude. Okay? Okay.
8. How do I get over him? Here's how.
9. Threesomes!
10. My man spent thousands at a strip club. OH NOES!
11. A dude asks a dude a question.
12. Women sure do love to snoop.
13. This woman has lost hope in finding love. Don't lose hope!
14. A gay Bro-American asks a straight Bro-American a question.
15. Yes. You have to go down on her.
Keep coming back to Guyspeak. Keep asking the dudes questions. KEEP FEEDING THEM PAGEVIEWS.
Love,
John
This is my last blog-post as Guyspeak's "Reformed Player." I will be moving on to another project that I'm really excited about. It won't involve me answering your questions, but it will be funny and dumb and totally fantastinuts.
If you want to keep up on my interweb rantings, please do me the honor of following me on Twitter or Facebook.
This project has been one of my favorite ever. The amount of questions, and the quality, never ceased to amaze me. As did the number of times I was asked if "he" was cheating on "me." I got that question, literally, hundreds of times. I'm sure I could draw a sociological conclusion from that glimpse into the lady hive mind. But I am a gentleman.
I have to give a shout-out to my fellow guys on Guyspeak. They're all some of the funniest, most talented and honest scribblers online. I especially want to knuckle-bump original gangstas Cary, Nick, and Panama. You guys are some of the least douchiest people I've worked with.
I'm sad to leave Guyspeak. I'll miss all you ladies. I won't miss my picture and that ridiculous hair. Teal is not my color.
So... here are my 15 favorite questions. I'm not including any of my blog posts. You can read all my posts here. Guyspeak isn't really a blog. I mean, it is. And some of the best work on the site were blog posts. But at it's core, Guyspeak is a site where women can ask regular guys questions about... anything and get uncensored and totally honest answers. I have to give just a ton of credit to our fairy godmothers at WEtv. Our editors there really gave us almost total freedom to express ourselves and answer questions the way we wanted. That was just such a huge gift to be given.
Here are my 15 favorite questions, which I've slightly edited.
1. This was a question about biracial dating.
2. This question was about time travel. Some of my questions were just awesome. Thank you, sexy nerd girls.
3. He says his life is complicated. Really, guy?
4. This was a difficult question. A man was told a secret by his wife and didn't know what to do. I tried my best.
5. Be yourself. That was my advice.
6. Is it okay to do this while having sex? Yes.
7. Dump this dude. Okay? Okay.
8. How do I get over him? Here's how.
9. Threesomes!
10. My man spent thousands at a strip club. OH NOES!
11. A dude asks a dude a question.
12. Women sure do love to snoop.
13. This woman has lost hope in finding love. Don't lose hope!
14. A gay Bro-American asks a straight Bro-American a question.
15. Yes. You have to go down on her.
Keep coming back to Guyspeak. Keep asking the dudes questions. KEEP FEEDING THEM PAGEVIEWS.
Love,
John
oh no :( i'll miss you so much!
good luck with everything!! *hug*
What is up with you Guyspeaker's moving on to bigger and better things and advancing your careers and lives? I don't like, I don't like it all. First it was Swaim and now you JDV, if Cary leaves I'm going to stage a revolt.
But seriously its been great having you here JDV, you have great insight and a great sense of humor. So good luck with your new adventure. Gonna miss you!
I never got to ask you questions and I had intended too. You seemed to be one ace of a 'reformed player' one way I could solve the getting laid problem, appropriately of course with no STV etc. Gonna miss you too!!
Oh no John DeVore you will truly be missed! I've loved everything I have ever read of yours on the internet and your answers have always been my favorite!
This feels like the end of middle school *tear* Well, I shall sign your yearbook then.
JDV -
Thanks for the memories! Never change, and enjoy your summer!
Summer...?
not seeing the whole "middle school yearbook" analogy?
I gotcha, Edy!
Oh, gosh. I will greatly miss you too. Your beautifully written insight is something I look forward to after classes...or during classes. I hope your new project brings you joy and great well-being. :)
oh, I'll miss ya mr. DeVore. You gave me a wonderful piece of advice, along with the many readers that responded, months back that eventually helped me get out of a soul-sucking, self-esteem shredding friends with benefits situation that was ripping my self-worth apart. He's 5 months gone, and I don't miss him at all. You on the other hand, I shall miss.
Good luck, and thank you!
Ohhhh I'll miss you, your wit and your interesting answers!!
Good luck in whatever you do next!
:D
I am so sad. First Swaim, now you?! :(
I honestly just joined Twitter so I could follow you.
I love you John DeVore and I wish you all the best - just keep being witty and post on your Twitter frequently.
Scarecrow, I think I'll miss you most of all. Oh, also you, Devore.
Hm, I think number 5 & 7 have same link. Or it's just my comp which was wrong?
Superbe ! C’est incroyable, votre article ! Cela m’a donné beaucoup d’expérience, beaucoup de réfléxions. Merci beaucoup et je vous souhaite une bonne journée !
I'm really going to miss you around here. I've posted only a couple of questions (to you) one of which is still awaiting a response (don't worry, I went with my gut and made a total cake of myself... yeah, he's not calling back).
I'll miss your humour, your wit, and your candor.
Best of all good things to you, John. Thanks for everything you've given us..