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• ptk commented on Does a guy's perception of a girl change when he finds out she's a mom? I know all guys are different, but in general does she become more attractive, less attractive or does it matter? When should she tell him about her bundle of joy?
  Wow, this is a tough topic. Nick, great advice as usual. Mannon, I appreciate your openness. But what about a woman who had a kid and gave it up through adoption? Does that knowledge change a man's perspective?...
• Mannon commented on Does a guy's perception of a girl change when he finds out she's a mom? I know all guys are different, but in general does she become more attractive, less attractive or does it matter? When should she tell him about her bundle of joy?
  Way to think outside the box! Should a guy tell a girl if he's a sperm donor? Probably on both counts, at least if there's a chance that the kid's going to come looking for you one day. I don't think that's first date confidence stuff, though.. I imagine you'd probably fit that in somewhere between 'My mom spent most of my teenage life in an asylum' and 'My father was a time travelling robot destroyer'....
• ptk commented on Does a guy's perception of a girl change when he finds out she's a mom? I know all guys are different, but in general does she become more attractive, less attractive or does it matter? When should she tell him about her bundle of joy?
  I'm all for honesty and being transparent about telling big stuff like this, but I'm curious about what's going through his mind that he isn't saying. Does he think "Wow I admire her for doing something that hard," or does he think "Gosh, she threw away a kid." or does it have any impact at all? travelling robot destroyer?? - you had a cool dad!...
• Mannon commented on Does a guy's perception of a girl change when he finds out she's a mom? I know all guys are different, but in general does she become more attractive, less attractive or does it matter? When should she tell him about her bundle of joy?
  I've had a pretty interesting life so far, but even I wish I was John Connor every now and then. Seriously though, I don't know if I can generalise like that. It is pretty heavy stuff, the likes of which normally inspire a gut reaction in people. It wouldn't bother me personally; I can understand that there really are situations where keeping a child is mutually detrimental. Some people probably think different. It's not as polarising an issue as, say, abortion, but I'm certain there are guys who feel quite strongly about it. I'm just not sure you can really...