Caitlin9490
- If you were stranded on a desert island and could only have two things with you (objects, not people or food) what would they be?eyeliner and my ipod
- Name one food you hate:spaghetti
- How often do you talk to your mother a week/month?everyday
- Boxers, briefs, or freeball?boxers
- Dog, cat, neither?both
- Name one magazine in your house right now:cosmo
- Do you text, email, or call?text and call
- If you had a daughter, and she asked you real nice, would you let her paint your toenails?definitely
- Your Astrological Sign:Virgo
- What's your favorite sport?To play: tennis To watch: football
- What's your favorite professional sports team?Minnesota Vikings
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- Commented on My ex would always bother me about having sex, but I told him I wouldn't even think about it until after marriage. After about 5 months he says he's just lost interest and we broke up. I'm just curious as to if he really cared or if he got tired of trying
- Commented on The other day i walked in on my bf letting our dog lick his penis. My question is how do i confront him about without shaming him? Does this mean he's into animals? Should I dress up like puppy next time we're intimate?
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prettylady commented on
My ex would always bother me about having sex, but I told him I wouldn't even think about it until after marriage. After about 5 months he says he's just lost interest and we broke up. I'm just curious as to if he really cared or if he got tired of trying
Personally I dont think he's a douche for leaving her. Almost all people want a relationship with sex, its not some strange thing that he craved something she couldnt give. I DO think he's a douche for PRESSURING HER. No one should be pressured into having sex, EVER. For those that want an emotional AND physical connection, I think its the right thing to do to leave and find someone that matches your values better. He can find someone who thinks sex is a really important form of communicaiton. She can find someone who thinks that sex somehow has something...
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Laje Kahr commented on
My ex would always bother me about having sex, but I told him I wouldn't even think about it until after marriage. After about 5 months he says he's just lost interest and we broke up. I'm just curious as to if he really cared or if he got tired of trying
Exactly. Talking is a beautiful thing....
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Laje Kahr commented on
My ex would always bother me about having sex, but I told him I wouldn't even think about it until after marriage. After about 5 months he says he's just lost interest and we broke up. I'm just curious as to if he really cared or if he got tired of trying
While I agree on the STD comment, because the reality is the person saving themselves is avoiding STDs, not really preventing them from spreading. So, yes, in the truest sense, not doing it is the "safest". And just to toss it out there, there are people who aren't doing it for that reason, granted they are significantly smaller percentage than those doing it for religious reasons, but they do exist and they have very good points; some of those STDs are very scary and condoms are not 100% effective even when used right. However, I do feel I need to...
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Laje Kahr commented on
My ex would always bother me about having sex, but I told him I wouldn't even think about it until after marriage. After about 5 months he says he's just lost interest and we broke up. I'm just curious as to if he really cared or if he got tired of trying
That's so very sad. :( Yeah, unfortunately, one of the harder things about "doing the right thing" is a lot of those teaching stay pure are not also teaching how to find out about being compatible with a person. They avoid the topic of sex for a variety of reasons (fear of prudish parents, embarrassed themselves, don't know the answers, etc) or worse they are teaching the heresy that sex is dirty or only for procreation. You ex was probably screwed up by one of those types of teachers. I'm feel so very bad for you that he was like...
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Laje Kahr commented on
My ex would always bother me about having sex, but I told him I wouldn't even think about it until after marriage. After about 5 months he says he's just lost interest and we broke up. I'm just curious as to if he really cared or if he got tired of trying
I agree he is not a douche for leaving her. Clearly they were not on the same page. He may have been "douchy" in his actions, pressuring or how he left her, but clearly they were not "meant for each other"....