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- Commented on I used to be close with my cousin until he began dating my friend two yrs. ago. We were cool until I found out she cheated on him in the beginning of the relationship. He choose to forgive her and move on but I couldn't! My cousin says to let it go, but w
- Commented on How do I try to console my bf about his college rejections? Do I or don't I try to make him feel better?
- Commented on If you get set up on a blind date (something you really hate and not requested) by one of your relatives, is there an obligation to be on your best behavior? Or is it okay to explain your situation (ex: not looking for a relationship) and leave early?
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- Commented on what does a guy think of a average size girl that eats a lot? I will pig out on great food and candy. I love to eat. Is this a turn off for men? I never let my weight get out of hand, I am very active and have a good body, but when I pig out, what do you
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- Commented on Do you know of any good books for women who have been emotionally abused?
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- Commented on my sons biological father just came into the picture after 12 years after not ever being around, and my husband has raised my son since he was 18 months old, and my husband doesn't want the biological father to be a part of my sons life,. and on top of t
- Commented on After dating for about a month, he broke things off with me - he didn't see a future. Now a month later he is asking me to hang out a few times a week and says he misses me? I still like him, but I doubt he wants a relationship just the same as before. Wh
- Commented on My boyfriend just told me that I'm "getting fat and cottage-cheesy" and need to work out more. I'm 5'7" and have never weighed over 125 lbs in my life. Is this a dump-able offense?
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- Commented on My boyfriend and I are discussing marriage. I want to keep my name, but he says he's unwilling to marry someone who 'rejects' his name. I love mine, it's part of who I am. I am adamant about not changing it. Hyphenated won't work. How can we resolve this?
- Commented on My boyfriend makes frequent comments about his ex-girlfriends and how they've hurt him. How can I make him stop? Why is he doing this?
- Commented on I might lose my v-card to my boyfriend soon. I've never shaved down there--I don't have a lot of hair, so it looks groomed without me trying. How do I ask him how he likes it down there without outright asking?
- Commented on Do guys ever get too old to play with their penises? I'm talking "standing-in-front-of-the-mirror-tucking-and-seeing-how-many-shapes-he-can-make" playing. Is it really that entertaining?
- Commented on Is it OK to have a crush on someone else when in a committed relationship? What's the proper way to handle it?
- Commented on My fiance is bipolar but won't admit it. I've had trouble finding a job but he makes enough money to support us. Saturday I woke to him screaming at me in a rage about money. Told me to get the f*ck out of his house, tried to take away my house key. Why?
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- Commented on One of my best guy friends got me a thoughtful, expensive (we're in college) Christmas gift. What should I get him? I've known him a long time, but his girlfriend doesn't like me because we're close, so I don't want my gift to compete with hers.
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- Commented on Cary, how do I make everyone happy for Christmas? I quit one of my jobs to keep up with school and went two weeks w/o groceries to buy gifts for my best friends. Money is VERY tight. I can't afford to get everyone something. What do I say when they ask?
- Commented on How can I make my husband shower after work? He works up to 13 hours but will only take a shower in the morning. I have tried complimenting him when he smells nice, and even bitching about it. HELP!!! I am sick of washing the sheets every other day.
- Commented on For his birthday/Christmas (within two days of each other) is it okay to combine gifts? Would a scrapbook of pictures/memories of us be a good idea, or too corny?
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- Commented on My boyfriend said he wants to marry me. So why hasn't he proposed yet?!?!
- Commented on Are all of the guys on Guyspeak in relationships?
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- Commented on Does it matter how big a girl's clit is? I always shave and keep it clean down there, and it's not THAT big, but my boyfriend said during sex, "it's like screwing a bologna sandwich." I think he was half joking, but is it a turn off? Do most men care?
- Commented on OK, hmm, I'm not active on the dating scene, can't stand the thought of having sex or kissing, but I do miss the companionship, so where can I find a similar-thinking guy?
- Commented on My fiance is worried about my emotional state. I am pregnant unexpectedly. I don't usually cry a lot, but we are going through changes fast. I know I am fine. I am finishing school, working, and dealing with the changes. How can I help him be happier?
- Commented on My friend has been acting like a bitch lately towards everyone. We are fed up of her attitude but how can I tell her that in a nice way?
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- Commented on Ok Wise Ass, I need your help. In ANY universe, if you date your really good friend of many years for several months, is it EVER casual? He dumped me out of the blue claiming it was casual. I disagree, but maybe I'm blind.
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- Commented on My boyfriend broke up with me and told me to move on, so I did. I slept with two other guys before my boyfriend said he wanted me back. I took him back because I still love him, but now I feel guilty about everything that happened. What should I do?
- Commented on How do I tell my guy friend that I have feelings for him without sounding desperate or scaring him off?
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- Commented on so second date told him was not having sex with he proceeded with foreplay and eventually cumming on me
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- Commented on Married, 36yo mom of two. A former h.s. flame and I reconnected on Facebook, started flirting, then he asked me if I cheat or swing. No and No. Then he backtreads and says he just wanted to know because he isn't into that. Friend or foe?
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- Commented on Mom of 2 girls, my bf of a year adores my 6yo but can't stand my 13yo, who's cheeky and took a dvd from his home without asking. How do I get these two to become friends? It stresses me out--he won't have her in his house! I feel like I have to choose.
- Commented on My boyfriend is leaving soon for basic training and will be gone for more than four months. We won't be able to talk in any way except letters. How do i keep our relationship strong and keep from missing him too much?
- Commented on I am not in favor of my brother's current girlfriend, but he seems to think it's okay to invite her to family gatherings. Should I tell him upfront or just back off?
- Commented on I've been seeing a guy for about a month and a half, and it's been great in every way but one: sex. It's not terrible, but frankly, I've had better. I keep trying, but it's not improving - how do I know if it's just not going to happen? What do I do?
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- Commented on What does it mean if a guy started holding one of my hands while I was going down on him?
- Commented on What does a man think if a woman sleeps with him on the first date?
- Commented on I have an STD and started taking antibiotics, which were prescribed for my bf, too, but he refuses to take them. Says "Why should I bear responsibility for your mistakes?" and "I don't have symptoms--it's gone." I can get reinfected! What should I do?
- Commented on What does it mean if a guy keeps your underwear?
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- Commented on What do guys notice more: a girl's flaws or how she carries herself? Should I try to look perfect when a guy might not even notice the things I consider unattractive? Or should I just act like I'm confident in the way I look, even if I'm not?
- Commented on My bf lost his brother two weeks ago. He has completely shut me out, broken up with me, and told me to move on because he wants to be alone. We were happy and in love before. I don't know what to do. I want to wait for him, but how long is too long?
- Commented on My wife is pregnant and wants me with her during the delivery, but I don't know if I can handle it. I don't pass out at the sight of blood, but I can't stand seeing her in so much pain. My heart aches when she has a simple cold. What should I do?
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- Commented on It's been over a year and I can't seem to let go. We try to be friends, end up cheating together, cut ties and then try to be friends all over. Addictive cycle. Any advice for a bad boy addict?
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- Commented on I am in college but I have a problem: I don't drink. Everyone else does and it's seemingly the only way to meet people. What should I do? I've been to enough parties sober to know that they are not fun when everyone else is completely wasted. Thoughts?
- Commented on Have you and the other writers of Guyspeak ever met in person or is this strictly virtual?
- Commented on Should someone stay in a sexless marriage? If so, for how long?
- Commented on O indomitable Wise-Ass...you gotta help me! I'm a college gal whose guy lives at home. One cuddly day, his mom walked in on me straddling his lap. I think she now thinks I'm a hussy. How do I save face?
- Commented on After two weeks the guy I'm dating says I'm not "the one" because my face isn't quite what he's looking for. Should I jump ship now or stick around and see what happens? Is this is a "I like having you around but I'm not serious about you" comment?
- Commented on What does it mean when your boyfriend says you have a beautiful face?
- Commented on I want to wait for marriage to have sex, but my boyfriend doesn't. I'm not willing to give oral sex either. How can we solve this problem? I'm not going to marry him anytime soon, because we just started dating.
- Commented on Even after years of marriage does the novelty of the breast wear off? Do you get tired of looking at your wife's same ol' breast after years of marriage?
- Commented on Is it pointless to date someone who you know you won't marry, but you still enjoy their company, want to get to know them more, and are attracted to them? (and lets pretend for arguments sake that it is an absolute definite that you won't ever marry this
- Commented on I'm in college and I feel like everyone is telling me to 'enjoy my years of freedom' and hook up and have sex all the time, and 'make the most of it'. Is it wrong that I just don't want to have sex all over the place just because I can?
- Commented on My boyfriend brags to his friends in front of me that I give excellent blowjobs. I have confronted him about this and he says im only joking. Am i being oversensitive???? I find these sort of remarks juvenile and degrading.
- Commented on i met a guy on vacation we hit it off. come to find out he is form the same city as me. he is comming to see me this weekend one week after we meet. what should i do?
- Commented on I'm constantly getting heartbroken and everyone tells me to "get over it" or "let it go" ... which is easy to say and hard to do. How do you actually move on?
- Commented on He broke up with me countless times because he does'nt want a 'ball and chain', 'to go with the flow', yet he keeps coming back. What gives!
- Commented on This is probably a stupid question but my fiance will be moving into my place on Saturday and I'm a little nervous. I've never lived with a boyfriend before. Any words of advice so I can make this transition as smooth as possible for both of us?
- Commented on I know you receive many a question about guys disappearing on girls. I'm more concerned with closure - is it reasonable to ask him the reason(s) behind his Houdini act? I'm debating whether I should send the schmuck a "what gives?" email or just move on.
- Commented on My boyfriend's best friend recently made a pass at me, suggested I sleep with him and not tell my boyfriend. Should I tell my boyfriend or let it be? They have been best friends for 8 years and I've only been dating my guy 7 months.
- Commented on He e-mails his ex that I (his new gf) am perfect for him and he recognizes good in me he wouldn't have noticed if not for their relationship. He told her he's a changed man and better boyfriend because of her. Why does he feel the need to tell her this?
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- Commented on I've been hooking up with this guy for about four months. We don't see each other often, but the past few times together he's been more affectionate towards me. How can I tell if he is really beginning to have more interest in me other than just sex?
- Commented on What do you think when you see a modestly dressed Jewish woman who has a beautiful face? Do you think she is sexy or will you not even give her a second glance just because she is Jewish?
- Commented on O Great Wise-Ass, my boyfriend is shy and doesn't seem very comfortable with much pda. How should I go about trying to get him to be a little more affectionate in public?
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- Commented on My bf just started a new job and is always tired and grumpy. I want to be supportive of his hard work, but how do I make him understand that when he's like this it hurts my feelings?
- Commented on What are some signs that you should not marry your boyfriend?
- Commented on What does it mean when a man says 'we'll play it by ear' on the phone? We talk a lot on the phone but we've never met in person (online dating site).
- Commented on Ever doubt you were in love?
- Commented on What should I say to people (like aunts, uncles) who ask me why I don't have a boyfriend? I'm almost 21, never been in a relationship, and not terribly happy about that fact.
- Commented on What should I say to people (like aunts, uncles) who ask me why I don't have a boyfriend? I'm almost 21, never been in a relationship, and not terribly happy about that fact.
- Commented on My ex and I texted for 2 months which culminated in us having sex last week (2am booty call style). He has a gf. I know it was wrong & I'm embarrassed. It was very anti-climactic. We haven't spoken since. I'm a mess and need some words of wisdom.
- Commented on My boyfriend's best friend keeps joking that I should be a porn star and makes other sex jokes about me. Does this mean anything, and how can I stop his friend from saying things like that to me?
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- Commented on Whenever my boyfriend and I argue, he lets his temper get the best of him and curses me out, calls me a bitch, says f**k you, etc. This hurts me but he says that I'm just too sensitive and wants him to talk "like a girl." Am I wrong to be upset?
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- Commented on My friend keeps making jokes around our guy friends about me being a slut. I do wear more cleavage-y clothes than her but I'm not a slut. I know she's just joking but I don't like it. How do I get her to stop?
- Commented on I've been with the same guy for 8 years!!! I want to get married!!!!
- Commented on Is it normal to not have much to talk about after three months of dating? I'm getting a little tired of the awkward silences my boyfriend and I keep falling into...
- Commented on Please help! In a few weeks I'm meeting my boyfriend's ENTIRE family, parents, siblings, grandparents, aunts, uncles, etc, for the first time. I am terrified of making a bad impression and want everything to go perfectly. Can you please give me some tips?
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- Commented on so there is this guy i really like, he is super hot, funny, and we get along perfectly. only problem is, he is a TERRIBLE KISSER! what do i do to help him be a better kisser without offending him?
- Commented on Is it psycho to set up my guy to catch him cheating? I once created a fake online dating profile and confronted my then-BF when he responded to this "hot chick." He was pissed, broke up w/me. Okay to do it again with my new BF to see if he's committed?
- Commented on My fiance makes me feel old with comments about our age difference (I'm 31, he's 26). Today he found a gray hair and said, "I'm getting old -- just like you." I think it's rude and hurtful. He thinks I'm oversensitive. Insight?
- Commented on The guy I'm currently seeing always gets hard during our goodbye kiss. I feel bad leaving him there all horny, without "a happy ending," but I feel like it's too early to do anything sexual. Is this mean?
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- Commented on He calls/texts me all the time. He's even mentioned that we'll probably get married someday. And we'll get an apartment together next year. However, we're not even dating, so what the heck is his deal?
- Commented on How fat is too fat to wear a bikini? I'm about 20 pounds overweight and have some small love handles. My bf says i look fine but i feel like people are staring. How big can we be until people think that it's gross?
- Commented on Are bilingual women sexy?
- Commented on If your girl is 22 and has had a threesome and 12 partners, is that too much for her age?
- Commented on My recently divorced mother wants to start bar hopping with me (I'm 25). While she's very well preserved, it's obvious that she's my mother. If I were to meet someone, how freaked out would this make them?
- Commented on Is there a certain amount of time after which a guy should know if he loves you or not? I've been with this guy on/off for 15 months now. I love him and have said so. He said he doesn't love me but sees hope for the future. Should I wait?
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- Commented on I am uncomfortable being naked in front of my husband. He tells me I am beautiful but is constantly looking at younger women. He will even stop a conversation with me to watch an attractive woman on TV. Am I wrong to feel insecure?
- Commented on My friend was raped 5 yrs ago and has received incredible healing through therapy. She now wants to date again. As her overprotective BFF, I'm curious how guys will treat her once they find out. Is she setting herself up for heartbreak?
- Commented on My on-again, off-again boyfriend of three years owes me $2000 but refuses to talk about it. I have asked every way possible but he just ignores me. Does it make him feel powerful to do that? I don't understand how he can just ignore me when I helped him.
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- Commented on Do you have any advice for how to manage an alpha-male-type employee who is upset a female colleague (me) got promoted into a supervisory position over him?
- Commented on Do you have any advice for how to manage an alpha-male-type employee who is upset a female colleague (me) got promoted into a supervisory position over him?
- Commented on Do you think that long-distance relationships are a good thing?
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- Commented on I'm a 20-year-old girl and insecure to the point of paralysis. What can I do to not be so daunted by guys my age?
- Commented on If a woman can't cook...is that a turn off? I mean, they say the way to a man's heart is through his stomach...
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- Commented on Emergency question, Wise-Ass! I'm dating a guy in his 30s (I'm 23) and meeting his friends soon. They're all his age and married and super close. I don't know how to "measure up" to the girls or if I can still joke around with the guys. HELP!
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- Commented on My boyfriend constantly talks about other girls he finds attractive and he describes the things he wants to do with them. Will he cheat on me?
- Commented on How do I get over a guy who did nothing wrong? I broke up with him out of anger after a huge (but stupid) fight, and I really regret it. It would be so much easier to move on if he had given me a reason to hate him, but he was a great guy.
- Commented on My fiance seems almost uninterested in me. Our sex life has completely gone out the window. All of the little things he used to do, the little sweet things, have disappeared. It seems like it's torture for him to be romantic. What should I do?
- Commented on I love your advice! Please help me! I cheated and am completely and deeply sorry. It made me learn a lot about myself and recognize what I need to work on. What is the best way to attempt to get my guy back?
- Commented on My boyfriend is away and my nipples are in need of attention. What should I do?
- Commented on I was snooping and discovered that my boyfriend and his ex exchanged naked pics when we first started dating nine months ago. Do I get angry or forget about it?
- Commented on What does it mean when a guy walks out the house to talk on the phone?
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- Commented on I just found out my boyfriend e-mailed a naked pic he had taken of me to his friend. He claims it was an accident and he meant to send another pic. What should I do? He got offended when I told him he's full of shit.
- Commented on Hi Cary, my parents greatly dislike my ex-boyfriend. After a year of not dating, we're getting back together and I'm wondering what's the best idea to bridge the gap and hopefully inspire a change of heart in them. Thanks.
- Commented on My ex and I had a tumultuous relationship for 2 years, during which he broke up with me 10+ times. Now he wants me back, says he is seeking therapy to become a better person and wants to marry me and have kids. I love him dearly. Should I believe him?
- Commented on My new boyfriend keeps offering to buy me a boob job. I tell him it's not going to happen but he's hoping I'll change my mind. How do I make him understand that I'd never have an elective surgery just for his pleasure?
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- Commented on I went out with a guy only to be frowned upon by my family (big influence) because he's 10 yrs older + experience. I stopped going out with him but I'm not sure. He is still trying but I don't know if I should keep him or dump him. Help!
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- Commented on Why do so many men think Tiger Woods is "the man"? Don't they get that what he did was grimy and wrong?
- Commented on A friend of a friend asked me out twice. The first time, he cancelled on me. The second time, he stood me up. Now he has been calling, texting and e-mailing me for the last year, but I haven't responded. How do I get him to stop without seeming rude?
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- Commented on We've all heard that guys don't see a girl's flaws, but how can you not? I cringe when my guy rubs his hands over my flabby stomach and back fat! What goes through his mind? He can't be thinking, "mm, yeah." I'm not stupid. I just want the truth!
- Commented on A friend of mine is always whining about how no girls like him, usually followed by him asking me out. I can never tell if he's joking, but I don't like him, so I say no. He then says he's joking, but DOES seem sort of upset. Is he really asking me out?
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- Commented on Hi Cary, what do you think of women who date men significantly older than them? I tried to go out with guys my age, but they make me feel motherly. I always seem to be attracted to men who are 10-15 years older than me. Is that a problem?
- Commented on I've been on a few dates with a guy and I really like him. The problem is, he's a pretty terrible kisser and it worries me that maybe it means he's bad at other things, too. Should I just move on?
- Commented on I screwed up by telling my boyfriend to 'just go away'. I was annoyed with his behavior that day. Now, he will not speak to me, text me back, answer my calls, nothing. What do I do?
- Commented on I have been dating an older man. Sometimes he will get upset at me and say very mean things, like how he's having sex with other women and they are prettier than me, etc. Then two days later he will say I am the love of his life. What gives?
- Commented on I'm 20 years old, and I've never had a boyfriend. (I'm not unattractive, and I'm in pretty good shape.) What am I doing wrong?
- Commented on How come advice and literature about men assumes they are horny, sex-crazed, one-track-minded people? I've known men who don't masturbate or talk sex all the time. Where is the advice to deal with these guys?
- Commented on How come advice and literature about men assumes they are horny, sex-crazed, one-track-minded people? I've known men who don't masturbate or talk sex all the time. Where is the advice to deal with these guys?
- Commented on My bf said he likes rougher sex, so we tried it and I've never seen him so turned on. Problem: It was scary. I was bruised and queasy afterward. He apologized but I feel uncomfortable with him now. Should I let it go or is this a sign of something else?
- Commented on How come advice and literature about men assumes they are horny, sex-crazed, one-track-minded people? I've known men who don't masturbate or talk sex all the time. Where is the advice to deal with these guys?
- Commented on How come advice and literature about men assumes they are horny, sex-crazed, one-track-minded people? I've known men who don't masturbate or talk sex all the time. Where is the advice to deal with these guys?
- Commented on Is "I'm not looking for anything serious" code for: I don't want to see you any more, or I want to take things slow?
- Commented on Is it a turn-off while making love if the woman sweats a lot?
- Commented on I gave him some oral services and he hasn't called or texted since...have i been officially dumped? Should i call to verify?
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- Commented on I recently broke up with my bf, but we've stayed good friends. However, when I text him stuff like, "So glad we're friends," "You're an incredible person," "I care so much about you; I want you to be happy," his only reply is a smiley face. WTF?!
- Commented on Am I too old to get married at 40?
- Commented on My boyfriend keeps asking me if i think he's big. Honestly, he isn't the most well-endowed guy ever, and I know better than to say THAT, but I'm a horrible liar. What's the best way to answer him in the future?
- Commented on O Great Wise-Ass, I am a freshman in college and a virgin. I've been intimate with guys before, just haven't lost the big V. I'm thinking I should just get it over with, since I'm not necessarily waiting until marriage, but I'm not sure. Advice?
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- Commented on so when you bf tells you that four years is too soon to start thinking about getting married and that we should wait ten, what does that mean?
- Commented on Hey Cary, I'm a single mom. My son is 6 years old and I really want to date but find that I'm blocked. I don't want to parade a bunch of men in and out of my sons life. How do I go about the dating scene with a young child in tow?
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- Commented on My boyfriend is going away for six months to backpack and see the world. What should I do?
- Commented on Is it possible to train your boyfriend? Teach him what girls like and don't like (bring her flowers, taking her out, no burping etc.)? Most girls seem to try but does it actually work?
- Commented on My husband is not my children's father and he treats them like they are the worst kids on the planet. He fusses at them constantly and it's getting old. We broke up once because of it and he promised to do better. I love him very much, any advice?
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- Commented on What do you say to a woman who hasn't dated in five years because she's afraid to get hurt again?
- Commented on You Don't Send Me Flowers Anymore. Okay?
- Commented on My boyfriend and I broke up a few months ago but now he is coming around being all sweet and trying to win back my heart. If he wanted me so much, why couldn't he be that way the first time around?
- Commented on I'm a 43 year old single mother of two. I've been dating this guy for 15 months and we have not gone out for dinner, movies, bowling, nothing except sex. Should I dump him or hold on?
- Commented on I'm a 43 year old single mother of two. I've been dating this guy for 15 months and we have not gone out for dinner, movies, bowling, nothing except sex. Should I dump him or hold on?
- Commented on So, since this is a site for women, how do we know you're not just telling us what we want to hear? Would you hold the same views, say, if this were Men.com?
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- Commented on My boss is constantly making lewd jokes about women who come into the store. I guess he tells me because I'm the only one in earshot, but it's obnoxious. I've told him to stop and he just says I'm being too sensitive. How do I get him to shut up?
- Commented on Do guys REALLY believe in love at first sight? Or is it just a bunch of crap?
- Commented on After the first date, is it bad if a gal calls up to three times to ask him out on another? Each call would be spaced out about every two or three days and would have a voice message,
- Commented on At what point in a relationship would you seek outside help? My on-again-off-again boyfriend wants to be on again. I think we should see a counselor to sort out our obvious problems, but he doesn't. I just want the cycle to end. Am I being unreasonable?
- Commented on Oh Wise One, I require your sacred advice. There is this guy I flirt with sometimes, and its all good until the flirting turns into lewd comments. Is there a polite way to tell him he crossed the line without totally turning him off?
- Commented on I'm dating a man who's absolutely perfect for me: hilarious, honest, hard-working, and treats me wonderfully. I'm very happy with him. One problem: he lives with his parents (age 28 and pays rent). He talks about moving out but hasn't. What's the deal?
- Commented on How can I get my boyfriend to stop asking me questions about my past? I told the truth about my sex number... and it's 4 more than he has slept with... now he is obsessed about knowing my sexual histories with guys.
- Commented on I have been married 20 years, and my husband does not satisfy me in bed. I've tried everything to help him -- books, porn, telling him what I like. Nothing works. He says I satisfy him fully. What else can I do?
- Commented on Quick Answers To Your Quick Questions, Vol. 2
- Commented on I have been married 20 years, and my husband does not satisfy me in bed. I've tried everything to help him -- books, porn, telling him what I like. Nothing works. He says I satisfy him fully. What else can I do?
- Commented on I've cheated on my spouse three times in our relationship. Now he wants to punish me by having a threesome with one of my friends. Is that fair?
- Commented on How do I tell a guy that he stinks without being rude?
- Commented on How do I tell a guy that he stinks without being rude?
- Commented on My husband likes to look at porn on his computer and even though he tries to hide it, I know he does. I also found out he's been renting the playboy channel on TV and watching it while I am away. Is that normal or is he thinking about straying?
- Commented on Hey Cary! I would love to hear your view on this. I used to be really heavy and recently lost forty pounds. But I still have a bit of a tummy and my boyfriend constantly teases me about it. He says he is only joking but I'm not so sure. What do you think?
- Commented on What We Like About You: In Praise Of Women
- Commented on My boyfriend didn't get me anything for Christmas. He is out of work right now and says he only bought gifts for his son. Should I be upset he didn't get me anything? I don't expect much but at least a card would've been nice.
- Commented on Hi Cary! At what point in a relationship should one reveal mental issues -- that are completely controlled by medication -- like bipolar disorder? I don't want someone to feel ambushed but I also don't want to be shut down before they get to know me.
- Commented on My fiance has lied before in his other relationships and I've caught him in a bunch of lies as well. None of the lies really involve me. Most are about his past. I really do love him, but I don't know if I should keep forgiving him.
- Commented on Since you won my heart in an earlier post: Am I being too harsh by dismissing guys who payed me no never-mind in HS? I've been getting some special attention from guys who never even considered me WWAAYY back when. I just feel like they've ran their cours
- Commented on Since you won my heart in an earlier post: Am I being too harsh by dismissing guys who payed me no never-mind in HS? I've been getting some special attention from guys who never even considered me WWAAYY back when. I just feel like they've ran their cours
- Commented on 5 Simple Ways To Win A Guy
- Commented on 5 Simple Ways To Win A Guy
- Commented on Do men find it attractive when a woman masturbates? Not necessarily in front of them, but just in general?
- Commented on I'm 18. Can I be with a guy who's 64?
- Commented on I've recently met a guy who's PERFECT for me! He's easy to talk to, funny and treats me well. The catch? I'm not physically attracted to him. There's no "spark" for me. Should I hang in there and hope it changes? Or would it have already happened by now?
- Commented on Are large nipples a turn-off to guys? How common are large nipples in women?
- Commented on Are large nipples a turn-off to guys? How common are large nipples in women?
- Commented on Are large nipples a turn-off to guys? How common are large nipples in women?
- Commented on Are large nipples a turn-off to guys? How common are large nipples in women?
- Commented on I recently met a rich guy who keeps offering to buy me stuff, from groceries to larger items. I'm not a girl who's looking for a dude to pay her bills. Should I be saying yes or no to his offers? I don't want him to think that's all I want him for.
- Commented on Things Women Think They Know About Men But Really Don't
- Commented on Why won't guys ask me out? I'm pretty, smart, funny, laugh at jokes, and fun to be around but guys always seem to "just be friends." I don't understand! Please help.
- Commented on What are good comebacks for snotty mean girls?
- Commented on I am 23 and very attractive. Why are older men way better at sex?
- Commented on I am 23 and very attractive. Why are older men way better at sex?
- Commented on My husband of 43 years says he only has to be accountable to God. What is your take on this?
- Commented on My husband of 43 years says he only has to be accountable to God. What is your take on this?
- Commented on You Need Better New Year's Resolutions. I Can Help.
- Commented on When and how do I tell my husband that I think he drinks too much, again?
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- Commented on I had a great date with a guy who's 30 (I'm 21). We had a nice time but he hasn't called or texted me. What did i do wrong?
- Commented on What are your views on a woman with stretch marks?
- Commented on Chicks I Dug In 2009
- Commented on Chicks I Dug In 2009
- Commented on What would possibly possess a guy to say, "I love you but can't do anything about it"? No, he isn't married or in another relationship. Is he simply afraid to commit? What a weirdo!
- Commented on He is to pick me up at the airport. Last heard from him Dec.13th. To fly in to his town Dec.28th. I am worried he will not be there. I have left messages. No reply.
- Commented on He said he loves me after only two days of dating. Does he really mean it?
- Commented on My friend finally broke up with this idiot guy, but now she's considering getting back together with him. How do I convince her that it's a stupid idea?
- Commented on This guy uses me as a booty call, but i really like him, so whenever he calls I go meet him. Should I play hard to get and stop answering his calls? He always avoids my questions about a relationship.
- Commented on How do you make a guy regret not getting with you when he had the chance?
- Commented on How do i get in a guys pants?
- Commented on When a guy asks if you want to hang out, how are you supposed to know if he means as friends or if it's a date?
- Commented on What are you really thinking when she's on top?
- Commented on 9 Gifts That Your Guy Doesn't Want This Holiday
- Commented on Is this a good present for my boyfriend: a box decorated with stuff he likes with 365 reasons why i love him in it? PLEASE i really need an answer!
- Commented on I'm in college and want to be asked out on dates. Any advice for single gals?
- Commented on From a guy's perspective, what style of jeans look best on most girls? ie boot cut, skinny jeans, etc
- Commented on I'm 18. Can I be with a guy who's 64?
- Commented on What is a nice way to say no to a guy when he asks you out?
- Commented on Why Are We Surprised When Celebrities Cheat?
- Commented on A Wise-Ass Holiday Gift Guide For Your Man
- Commented on How do you ask out a senior girl if you are a freshman?
- Commented on How do i nicely tell my boyfriend that I am not ready to meet his family? We have only been dating for two months.
- Commented on Went out Tue with a great guy, went well, ended with sex. He said to text or call him and we would hang out again. I sent a text that night and said thank you for a good time and let me know when you want to hang out again. Haven't heard from him.
- Commented on How do you deal with a boner in public?
- Commented on How do I go about telling a guy I like him?
- Commented on When a guy says, "We need to take a break from each other," what does that mean really?
- Commented on When you take a girl out to dinner, what do you find most attractive for her to order? Salad, nice and light? Steak, rich and meaty? Or something in the middle, like chicken, or whatever?
- Commented on How can I pick up women?
- Commented on I've been dating this guy for about two months. He said something strange the other day when we were talking about being exclusive. He said he's not into labels. What exactly does this mean?
- Commented on Is it a turn-off while making love if the woman sweats a lot?
- Commented on How do I know that my husband of 11 years (together 15 years) still thinks that I'm hot and beautiful? I feel like he's just going through the motions and only says nice things because he feels obligated.
- Commented on My boyfriend's mother is kind of a cold fish. I'd really like to get to know her better, but she's extremely intimidating and not very welcoming. Plus I think she still loves my guy's ex-fiancee. What can I do to get to her to like me?
- Commented on My boyfriend's mother is kind of a cold fish. I'd really like to get to know her better, but she's extremely intimidating and not very welcoming. Plus I think she still loves my guy's ex-fiancee. What can I do to get to her to like me?
- Commented on Why does is seem like all men have a former girlfriend in the their lives as a "best friend"? I find this ridiculous. How can a guy have such a close friendship with someone he's been in a relationship with and not have romantic feelings for her?
- Commented on I absolutely HATE giving blowjobs. I feel like they are so humiliating and I am completely self-conscious when I try to do it. Is this a total deal breaker for a guy?
- Commented on What's the difference between "hot" and "beautiful"?
- Commented on What's the difference between "hot" and "beautiful"?
- Commented on The Things Guys Say And What They Really Mean
- Commented on You blogged about "11 Things That Will Turn A Guy Off In The Sack." How about the flip side? What are some surefire turn-ons?
- Commented on What is it with men not looking me in the eye when I'm talking to them? Really, what I'm asking here, Wise-Ass, is for you to explain men's seemingly primal fascination with breasts.
- Commented on Just Tell Me What You Want
- Commented on I've been seeing this guy who says he really likes me, yet he seems never to be free. He's a student, so I know he's busy, but he takes days to call back and we only go out once a week. Wouldn't a guy make time for someone he really likes?
- Commented on Do you care what type of car a woman drives? Would you approach a woman in a mini-van?
- Commented on My boyfriend doesn't dig phone sex. I suggest it, ask for it, and have tried to start it, but he's never interested. We only see each other twice a week. I need it. How can I help him find interest?
- Commented on After my ex and I broke up, he became a lot nicer to me. However, he has also informed me that if I ever wanted to sleep with him again, I could. Is he just being nice to me so I'll it up again? Or does he truly want to be just friends with benefits?
- Commented on My husband is always driving and texting. He will not stop... even when our kids are in the car. It scares me. How do I get my message across?
- Commented on Not really interested in dating at the moment, as I have many things I want to focus on personally: money, career, etc. I think a break will bolster my chances of making a real connection in the future - or is a self-imposed hiatus a bad idea?
- Commented on I'm friends with my ex-boyfriend on Facebook. This bothers my current boyfriend a lot and he's even threatened to break up with me if I don't de-friend my ex. Do you think this is a reasonable request? I think it means he doesn't trust me.
- Commented on How To Blow-Dry Your Hair Like A Schmo
- Commented on The Joy Of Having Your Child Expose Your Mistakes
- Commented on Why do guys tune us out - do we sound like the adults on the Charlie Brown cartoons? Sometimes there's real info in there!
- Commented on Do guys really prefer it all shaven off down there? What is too much/too little?
- Commented on I've been married for years, but my husband believes that flatulent emissions should never be shared. I've practically jumped from a moving vehicle so as not to pass gas in front of him. Am I wrong to think this is crazy?
- Commented on I've been married for years, but my husband believes that flatulent emissions should never be shared. I've practically jumped from a moving vehicle so as not to pass gas in front of him. Am I wrong to think this is crazy?
- Commented on 11 Things That Will Turn A Guy Off In The Sack, Part 2
- Commented on 11 Things That Will Turn A Guy Off In The Sack, Part 2
- Commented on Are guys really okay with girls asking them out? Is that a turn-on or do you think a girl should wait for the guy to make the first move?
- Commented on My husband has a close working relationship with a woman who is a known swinger. He gets text messages from her at night that I haven't questioned. His biz is his biz - but how can I find out without being accusatory?
- Commented on Why are men such annoying babies when they get sick? Seriously, after 20 years together, I would gladly suffer a full-out case of H1N1 if it meant I could avoid putting up with my husband having the sniffles for a day or two.
- Commented on How do I tell my ex-boyfriend that I don't ever want (or need) to talk to him again? I am just done!
- Commented on What do you think is the best way for couples to share household duties? For example, are some tasks better suited to one gender or the other? Do you feel that there are any chores that, although a woman is capable of doing them, a man should do them?
- Commented on My husband swears all the time. I'm concerned because our 3 year old yelled out our window last night, "That f**king guy is making too much f**king noise!" He said it was my fault for reacting. What should I do?
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silkysly commented on
I used to be close with my cousin until he began dating my friend two yrs. ago. We were cool until I found out she cheated on him in the beginning of the relationship. He choose to forgive her and move on but I couldn't! My cousin says to let it go, but w
Life is too short to got though it angry....
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MiracleKrys7 commented on
I used to be close with my cousin until he began dating my friend two yrs. ago. We were cool until I found out she cheated on him in the beginning of the relationship. He choose to forgive her and move on but I couldn't! My cousin says to let it go, but w
Let it go. It's not your battle; it's his. It's pointless to lose sleep over something that the people involved aren't even losing sleep over. Those who anger you, conquer you. Remember that. Holding a grudge is the same as drinking poison & expecting it to kill the other person....
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LadyPayne commented on
101 New Year's Resolutions That Anyone Can Keep
Love it. There are about twenty items that are so happening, but the vacation thing really hit home. Florida, prepare yourself!...
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goodkarmagirl commented on
101 New Year's Resolutions That Anyone Can Keep
soooo...... 85 --> 99 --> 58 --->78? Wow. Happy NEW year! ha!...
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chrissie1101 commented on
The Funniest and Most Outrageous Tweets Of 2011
funny. i think the funniest discovery here was finding out that steve martin tweets lol zuker's and mike henry's were classic tho lol i have a twitter account with random strangers frequently requesting to follow me, which i do not understand as i think my last tweet was in 2010, frankly i just don't understand it enough, or want to, to spend the time there....
