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- Website: engineeringnaturalbeauty.tumblr.com/
- Who is your celebrity look alike?I've gotten Janet Jackson
- Who is your celebrity crush?Jeffrey Donovan, Gerald Butler
- If you were stranded on a desert island and could only have two things with you (objects, not people or food) what would they be? Matches, Water Bottle
- Name one food you hate:Peppers
- How often do you talk to your mother a week/month?Every muthaf***in day
- Who is one person you would love to have dinner with?Lady Gaga, I wanna know if she's as weird as she seems
- Boxers, briefs, or freeball?Love freeball, play it every Saturday night
- Dog, cat, neither?dogs
- Name one magazine in your house right now:EW
- What is your favorite song?In My Place-Coldplay
- What’s your favorite movie of all time?The Mummy, Pride and Prejudice
- Do you text, email, or call?I do all three cause I'm super talented
- If you could donate $1 million to a charity – which one would you choose?The J.Leandre Foundation to support college students
- How many days in a row do you wear the same socks?none
- If you had a daughter, and she asked you real nice, would you let her paint your toenails?Sure why not
- Do you have any sisters, and if so, are they older or younger than you? If not, do you have any siblings at all, and where do you fall in the mix?Just one amazing older brother
- More about you?Well I'm a college student with plans of world domination after graduation
- Your Astrological Sign:Taurus
- What's your favorite sport?Mouth Wrestling
- What's your favorite professional sports team?New York Mouth Wrestlers
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- Commented on My boyfriend used to be all over me, now he barely touches me. Ive put on about 2stone - is that why? I also discoverd msgs between him and another (skinny) girl- he says they were jokes and her bf messaged me saying that but its left me insecure . He has
- Commented on How fat is too fat to wear a bikini? I'm 15-20 pounds overweight and have small love handles. My bf says I look fine but I feel like people are staring.
- Commented on Am I unreasonable for hating on my boyfriend for gaming 4 hours everyday with teenage boys and girls (as well as posting links on the teenage girl's facebook wall)?He thinks Im over-reacting, I think hes a 27 year old who needs to grow up! I love him, but
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- Commented on Why will a guy sleep with you and talk to you everyday but never take you out?
- Commented on My husband that I'm divorcing and have a daughter with appears to be seeing a girl who is about to graduate from high school. He's 24...am I wrong to be repulsed? I'm not jealous, just disturbed by it. Just strikes me as pathetic.
- Commented on I've been dating this guy for the last four months. I've heard that his parents are racist (especially the mother). How do I ask him about this issue? He's Indian and I am black (Caribbean girl).
- Commented on If a guy isn't calling, he isn't interested?
- Commented on Hello I am a black guy who likes Asian women. I'm financially stable, I don't fall into stereotypes and Im well presented. The bad news most Asian guys tell me that Asian women discriminated heavily on Black and Asian men ( go figure). Is there something
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- Commented on FG! Maybe you can help me. There's this really cute guy in my class that I want to talk to, but the problem is I have no reason to speak to him. The class is a huge lecture so its kinda hard to find a way/have a reason to talk to him. Any advice?
- Commented on When my boyfriend and I argue, he says things like 'I loved you once.' or 'I have to be in a relationship to love someone' when we feel on the urge of a break up. Is this normal? Is it too much to ask for him to come after me and say something sweet to fi
- Commented on Do guys mind stretch marks on breast, thighs, butt etc.
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- Commented on A while back I slept with someone with a girlfriend. I understand that it was a huge mistake, but he made me promise never to tell. Now she is getting ready to marry this guy, completely in the dark about this. I feel she deserves to know. Does the "other
- Commented on what do you think about ladies who are traditional & only live together with their man if they are married?
- Commented on whats you're view on chunky arms? I recently lost 30+ kgs. but my arms still feel huge!! am i over reacting? or are arms just not sexy and not something to worry about? thanks!!
- Commented on I was looking at some pictures on my BF's computer and came across naked pictures and videos of his ex. He has not dated her in 2 years. We have dated for over a year and are serious. I do not mind regular pictures, but naked?! He does not know that I hav
- Commented on My fiance is still Facebook friends with his ex he dated just before me. He still talks to her sometimes on Facebook chat. He said they broke up because he didn't love her. I believe him.Why then are they still friends? Can I ask him if he told her ab
- Commented on What's Worse: The Porn Star or The Ex?
- Commented on Ok, well I've got a bit of a problem, you see, I've got a guy as my BFF, and EVERYONE thinks we r dating. It's super annoying! I don't know how longer I can stand it. Any advice?
- Commented on Ask real men questions about anything and get real answers...do white guys only like black women for sex ?
- Commented on Ask real men questions about anything and get real answers...do white guys only like black women for sex ?
- Commented on I dated this guy for a very brief period of time, and we slept together last week. This week, he tells me he's not ready for a relationship, he has issues, and it's not my fault .he said he thought he had dealt with his shit but realizes he hasn't. I have
- Commented on As a single mom living with her boyfriend, should I allow my partner to pick and choose his relationship with my child? He sees himself as her father figure, helps take care of her, lets me know when he needs more appreciation for his effort, but doesn't
- Commented on I've worked very hard in my MA program and my department gave me a scholarship for a PhD program. I was excited and told a friend and he replied that I only got the scholarship because I have big boobs and the chair wants to f*** me. Is that really how it
- Commented on Hi Panama! Once I'm friend zoned, am I doomed forever? My guy friend is sending mixed signals and I'm thinking of taking a leap. What do you suggest?
- Commented on Oh Wise Ass, honest truth. What does a 26yo man (never married no kids) want with a (divorced with children) 33yo woman? Is he thinking " great f*ck/experienced teacher/story to tell or can he actually be in it for a relationship? Can this really go anywh
- Commented on A guy I've dated for months says he likes me but he don't see a future in us, he said he's very sad about that but he refuse to tell me the reason which keeps me hanging. I really hope he can give it a try. what can I do?
- Commented on Dear MM,A year ago, my mom killed herself. We fought beforehand, and for a day we weren't speaking. The last time I saw her, she had this awful look on her face. I recognized it as someone who just needed comfor
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- Commented on Is that true that white guys like a black women with a big butt?
- Commented on Totally not being racist here! On tosh.o he made a joke about black guys being grossed out and not going down on woman. Is that a common stereotype? I had never heard of it but my bf had. How true can that be?
- Commented on How can I make my boyfriend jealous without him knowing or making him angry?
- Commented on MM, I'm asking this in advance, but I'd really like your advice. I'm going to an out-of-state university in the fall to a place with only 30% girls. I've never had many guy relatives, friends, classmates let alone a boyfriend. I'm 5'1" and not intimidatin
- Commented on I never like guys (well I very very rarely like them) I've recently met a guy and I've turned into one of those annoying staring at my phone, obsessive, irritating girls who always talks about her man. My friends say it's cute but I'm terrified in case he
- Commented on I'm 34 and I avoid dating/relationships at all costs because to me, relationships equate to daily judgement. I don't want to be rejected when he finds out I have a stretch mark. I don't want to be cast aside because of some new-found intellectual deficit.
- Commented on What are some ideas for a guy for Valentine's Day? I'm broke, so I usually do some creative baking, but I wanted to add something extra special.My bf is kind of geeky and loves video games, but I hate them, so I need some help. What's a dude version of fl
- Commented on BFF, would most men decide not to date a woman if he sensed she earned a better living than he did? Guy pals have told me that while I'm friendly & approachable, men are likely intimidated because they can tell I'm financially independent and can take car
- Commented on Ex and I were hooking up then I couldn't anymore because I still had feelings. He tried even harder until I got upset with him. He apologized and is still friendly, but I feel uncomfortable. Not sure where to place him in my life now. I know it's an unavo
- Commented on Ex and I were hooking up then I couldn't anymore because I still had feelings. He tried even harder until I got upset with him. He apologized and is still friendly, but I feel uncomfortable. Not sure where to place him in my life now. I know it's an unavo
- Commented on Mystery Man, you wanted some silly questions so... how do guys feel about being undressed in front of girls? This jock heard me talking about him so he came up to me all smiley and half dressed. Was he even aware of his nakedness?
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- Commented on I'm a 21-year-old college student with two majors. What worries me is that my education seems to be my passion, not people. I've never dated, never kissed, never anything; it's true I'm not at all pretty, and nobody's interested, but I've just not been in
- Commented on I'm 35 he is 26, are connection is amazing.He is very mature for his age. We have been seeing each other off and on for 6 mths. I chose to break it off two times because he wasn't ready for anything long term, but we keep coming back to each other. He sai
- Commented on while having sex he said to me this is my pussy and dont be giving it to nobody else
- Commented on On New Years Eve, I planned to end my life. Something prevented that (poor timing), but in the hours before, I felt peaceful about it. Am I bad person to have been so willing to accept my ends? I know from a theological standpoint suicide is bad. But is i
- Commented on Is too much sex a bad thing? My husband and I have literally known each other our entire lives..began dating at 15 married at 24..now we're 35. We have amazing sex on an average of 16 times a week..sometimes we don't leave the bedroom all day! Is this hea
- Commented on How can I stop being passive aggressive? One of my problems is I find it hard to put why I'm upset into words, so I find it hard to talk about with the other person (mainly concerned about some issues I've been having with my bf). I'm also just a non-conf
- Commented on Have you ever dated a SEX GOD?
- Commented on Hey, MM! I have a very nice and sweet friend who's kind of ignorant (it comes from a lack of exposure to people of color, not hate). I always try to educate him and we talk about race relations. He appreciated the educations since moving to NYC from his s
- Commented on Panama I need your help. I have a friend who's really nice and sweet but is kinda ignorant (it comes from lack of exposure to people of color, not hate). So we usually end up talking about race and I try to educate him. We have rational conversations and
- Commented on Is it unfair to give my bf an ultimatum that he won't like but that is for his benefit? I want him to either get his license and be in school or to get his license and get a job if we're going to stay together/if he wants to move in with me. Is that too m
- Commented on What does it mean when your girlfriend don't want to have sex with you no more?
- Commented on My boyfriend didn't acknowledge me as his girlfriend online. On Facebook, he is listed as single. Being extremely handsome, talented, intelligent, and charismatic, he has both men and women flirting constantly, but he didn't mention me. When I told him i
- Commented on Interested in an interracial relationship but why is it so hard, putting the public aside, to actually come by anyone out of your dating zone who actually has a genuine interest and is not just out to sample the buffet?
- Commented on should your man forward your calls to his phone without your permission what type of man he is
- Commented on My ex and I have been trying to work things out for a few months. He stopped trying and I kept trying and he got mad. So I started moving on which upset him. He says he wants us to date other people then try but still wants to be in my life and still send
- Commented on Hi GBFF! Do you think what we see as beautiful can change? ex I get looked at/hit on by 30+ yos quite often but then guys my own age (I'm 23) rarely look at me. Older guys call me beautiful freely while 20 somethings rarely even give me cute. Do you think
- Commented on Mixed Signals. In person he talks a lot,but on IM he practically ignores me. When we are together, he says he wants to spend lots of time with me. But when I say I'm free, he says he's busy. Doesn't even ask me what time I'm free. He got me a thoughtful X
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- Commented on Is it wrong for a girl to send pictures in her underwear to a guy shes dating, even if he swears not to send them? I say yes, but she thinks otherwise.. Help?
- Commented on At what age is it healthy for a dude to start watching porn? My fourteen year old brother stays at my dad's every other weekend, just the two guys by themselves. I know for a fact there is plenty available to him. Should I be worried? Or is this a case of
- Commented on What Does It Mean When A Guy Says He Got Baked?
- Commented on What Does It Mean When A Guy Says He Got Baked?
- Commented on I cut my boyfriend off from all the little niceties. I refuse to buy him food when I buy for myself, and I no longer let him use my netflix (amongst other things). This came about because of the way he has acted the last month. Was it right for me to cut
- Commented on I don't see myself as likeable/attractive/dateable, so I can't image that any man would. I'm 27, but feel that men think of me like an eccentric old neighbour - female but not in sexual/romantic way. I feel like an "untouchable" - a girl in a lonely, igno
- Commented on Is it emotional abuse if you're brunette and fair skinned when your boyfriend always talks about how he thinks tan blondes are the hottest? It makes me feel inadequate.
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- Commented on GBFF, ur the most sympathetic. My ex who i haven't spoken to, seen, or heard from in 6 months (cheated on me) just finished his co-op. He'll be back in town next semester so he's tried to add me on facebook again. I denied the request but now i'm dreading
- Commented on I've been doing a lot of research, and I'm seriously considering becoming a vegetarian. I want to be good to my body. Problem is - my boyfriend doesn't support this. How can I get him to understand that I want to do this for my health?
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- Commented on Men in the midwest are laid back, easy going,AND grounded. I miss them a whole lot, now that Im living in the northeast...lets just say men here are YIKES! Why are they so uptight and anal? Mind you, some also have horrid accents that accentuate this anal
- Commented on I read an article from yahoo that revealed the results from a mens health magazine poll about the hottest women of all time and Jennifer Aniston was number one. Seriously? of all time? I wouldn't even put her on my top ten. So then I got to wondering what
- Commented on So much good music was nominated for Grammies this year! Wilco, Bon Iver, Fleet Foxes, The Decemberists, Mumford and Sons... but I had a frivolous question. Do you think Bon Iver or Mumford and Sons can take on the powerhouse that is Adele and win?
- Commented on hey bff! my bday is coming up and i'll finally be legal! i dont mind making out but i'm a bit worried that i might get too drunk and end up losing my virginity. i'm not too sure how i feel about this and don't really know what to do about it. any suggesti
- Commented on He's in Vegas right now with his best friend for the weekend; their other best friend is living out there for work. I wasn't worried until my guy friends started saying I should be worried since he didn't invite me to go along. Is Vegas' reputation really
- Commented on How do I make him not be mad at me anymore for being a bitch to girls that he is friends with and show him that I am making more of an effort? Also after we talk, how can I get him to want to have makeup sex with me?
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- Commented on For 2 years I have been living with a sexy tatted up boyfriend with a rock hard body. He works out regularly and I do not. I have a child from a previous relationship. I am a curvy woman with a chubby tummy and I still can't get butt naked in front of h
- Commented on Do girls masturbate while on their period? No plans on doing so, i'm just genuinely curious. An inappropriate question to ask a girl face to face so i will ask you, not sure if and why you would know this but i guess i'm hoping for commenters...Comment aw
- Commented on I'm 21& losing hope.I've heard &followed the advice "Join some clubs or volunteer, u can meet guys there!" but every club at school are mostly girls &the places I've volunteered at are full of girls! Either a few or no guys at all. Do u know which volunte
- Commented on Ok, the bf says that he wouldn't mind if I got pregnant and seemed genuinely disappointment that I wasn't. That kinda surprises me. Should I be concerned? Isn't that attitidue rather unusual? I love him, but we're not even engaged yet. Your insight
- Commented on You've Heard of the Mile High Club, how 'bout the Miles Away Club?
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- Commented on He played me, then left town without saying goodbye. Two years later, he calls out of the blue, and reluctantly, I spoke to him. Now it's been over a year, and we're talking everyday for hours. He won't tell me where he lives, and he won't visit. Why? I'v
- Commented on Hi! I'm naturally a high-maintenance woman. I was not conscious of it until someone told me that I was. Are males not attracted to high-maintenance girls? And should I change to become a woman who is less high-maintenance?
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- Commented on I dont have a job right now and my fiance' is starting to disrespect me and make sure that I know everything is hers. Is she ready to be married to me???
- Commented on Hes conservative, very catholic, and family oriented. And a good guy. Im liberal, atheist,+dont want kids. Can two people who have different political views make it work? Or will we grow to hate each other? We just started dating and I can tell were very
- Commented on I study computer science. I'm the only girl in my lab. I feel uncomfortable when I wear a skirt or a tank top because I'm afraid they might judge me on my physical appearance instead of my work. My boyfriend says I should'nt worry. What do you think?
- Commented on Ive noticed most of you guys on guyspeak tend to take the side of the woman in all or most of your answers. I wonder why this is the case...I mean I do know this is a site intended for woman, but has it ever crossed your mind that most of these women are
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- Commented on I've been dating this guy for 10 months (o_0) and he has yet to share any real details about his past relationships, but he has hinted that they were pretty bad situations... Would it be wrong for me to email his last ex in an attempt to get this info? Ot
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- Commented on My ex is getting married. I still love him. Should I tell him before he ties the knot?
- Commented on My ex is getting married. I still love him. Should I tell him before he ties the knot?
- Commented on I fell in love w a guy who's recently gotten gastric bypass surgery. Although he's starting to drop weight nd look good I am freaked out by the excess skin and rememants of love handles. I usually go for very thin guys. Am I being a jerk?
- Commented on I hate working. I've had 14 jobs in 7yrs; hated them all! I hate waking up early and being stuck in an office all day! My BF has a better work ethic than me; he actually LIKES working and thinks I'm crazy for hating it so much. But I think there MUST be a
- Commented on Three Reasons Why the Sammie Spades 'Story' Isn't One
- Commented on My boyfriend calls me whore,slut,bitch,dyke an then says hes joking. Ive told him this hurts my feelings, and he'll stop for a few days and then he does it again. I dont know if I should stick around to see if he changes, or kick his ass to the curb. Advi
- Commented on Bff- My boyfriend broke up with me because he's unhappy with his life, wants to get a different job, go to grad school, and move out of his family's house. He said (and looks like) he's miserable with out me, still likes me and is miserable, but won't get
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- Commented on Mr scary smiling hat.My guy is seriously turning me off with his enthusiasm. He calls too much, compliments me too much, everything too much. I'm terrified I'll lose interest, because I really like him. Tell him, but how? Only known him for a month, t
- Commented on You Can Pick Your Boyfriend, But Can You Pick his Bacne?
- Commented on I feel strong emotions for a guy that I'm dating. I freaked out about it one night and said that I just couldn't see him anymore. The night morning, I realized my foolishness and apologized. Although he said that he also regrets that night, he's been dist
- Commented on O MM, Is it unreasonable for me to ask my BF not to be "friends" with his ex's? He argues that they're his "friends" who mean a lot to him even though there's no more physical attraction. He keeps in touch with them on Facebook and on the phone, etc. I
- Commented on Might be a silly/too explicit question but I've never had an orgasm. So I tried a vibrator. Didn't work, I could barely feel the thing vibrate. Any other ideas for awakening the pleasure?
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- Commented on Hey BFF. I've been in a non-dating slump for a loooong time now and I know some of it is my fault because I rarely left the house but now I'm ready to go! The only problem is I have no idea where to start. Any advice on where a nice regular girl should go
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- Commented on Oh wise Mystery Man, please help, I feel so bummed out and confused. Why won't my crush for over a year ask me out? I am positive he likes me back, and has for quite some time. We talk all the time, walk to classes together, etc. He even told my friend th
- Commented on My bf will be temporarily living with me (and my roomies) over the summer. People keep saying we'll get sick of each other since we'll have so much free time. I don't really believe it, but I'm getting a little worried. Will it change our relationship? Wh
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- Commented on I lost my virginity by rape when I was 13, 7 years later I'm still scared. I have a boyfriend and he really wants to, but the mere thought of sex scares me. I never told anyone, so I don't know how to bring it up and I'm scared that he'll leave me because
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- Commented on Just found out I'm pregnant despite always using contraception. I want to just get an abortion without telling my boyfriend of a few months (who I know would really want to keep it) because I really can't deal with a baby in my life right now. Would this
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- Commented on Would you prefer a woman with a perfect body-supermodel status-who has low self confidence or a woman with an average body but with a lot of self confidence. In a nutshell-how much does confidence really matter? Is it sexy on an unattractive woman?
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- Commented on What are your thoughts on breaks in relationships? I once knew a guy who "took a break" because he wanted to bang another chick and then he tried to get back w/ his gf. That kind of break is wrong, right?
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- Commented on My boyfriend has a habit of not introducing me to people we run into out in public that he knows. It makes me feel awkward and it kind of hurts my feelings. Am I over reacting? He says he doesn't introduce me to people that aren't important to him but it
- Commented on How much "Training" of a SO is acceptable before you have to say "I can't make you something you're not. So maybe you aren't the person for me."
- Commented on If a guy hasnt text me in 9 days and I start missing him and I text him I miss you and then I ask honestly did you miss me he says kinda what's that mean?
- Commented on If you get set up on a blind date (something you really hate and not requested) by one of your relatives, is there an obligation to be on your best behavior? Or is it okay to explain your situation (ex: not looking for a relationship) and leave early?
- Commented on I'm seeing a self-proclaimed party animal. Is it possible he want a good girl that is going to "tame" him? Sometimes it seems he implies that...
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- Commented on My daughter wants to start dating. She's a 13 1/2 year old responsible young woman. I think she has to wait until she's 16, but she keeps telling me that all of her friends are dating and I should let her. What do you think?
- Commented on Hey Wise-ass,I have a question for you.I'm smart,funny and not bad-looking. But I seem to attract only those guys,that don't attract me at all. How to attract guys that I would like not only to talk with, but also have relationship with?
- Commented on I'm 5'4'' & a size 12. I've been told I'm beautiful & have a pretty face. I've been hit on by guys, but no one seems to ask me out. I've never had a boyfriend - I'm 20. Is it because of my size? Is it too late for me to have a bf? & I worry about being a
- Commented on I am dreadful on top during sex, something to do with co-ordinating the rhythm of my hips with their thrusting, so i prefer to be submissive. Is this a problem for most guys? I worry that they think i'm lazy as opposed to cripplingly embarrassed of f- ups
- Commented on How Much Does Personality Matter When It Comes To Hooking Up?
- Commented on How should chicks go about dating guys she isn't sexually attracted to? It's generally recommended that women ignore attraction and focus sorely on a guy being a "nice guy."
- Commented on I'm a teenage girl who has been with her boyfriend for a total of two months. Whilst I'm perfectly happy doing 'dirty' stuff (i.e. grinding, fondling etc.) he seems much more hesitant and wants to take it more slowly.
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- Commented on How do I know if a guy wants me for a playmate or potential partner? Guys are always thinking about sex, so what do I look for before I get intimate with a guy?
- Commented on If a girl is really short, would that matter to a guy??
- Commented on Girls Going Commando, Guys Fantasizing During Sex and Singles Surviving Valentine's: GuySpeak's Best of the Week!
- Commented on Even when I'm madly in love with someone, I still have moments or even entire days when I just don't really like him that much/am sick of him/feel like breaking up for some silly reason (none of these because I'm actually genuinely upset). I have talked t
- Commented on I am a single gal and with Valentine's Day coming up I was wondering if you have any suggestions for not erupting into a murderous rage on this dreaded holiday?
- Commented on my bf hit me. slapped and punched me a few times and then stopped and started to cry. i would tell anyone else to leave this relationship but my friends all say "the rules are different if your gay"; some say i should stay. i don't know waht to do though.
- Commented on I have a gay buddy that I had invited to come visit over the Christmas holidays. Me, my boyfriend and my buddy were drinking that night. My boyfriend was in a blackout and went to bed with my gay buddy. He says he thought he was in bed with me. Do you thi
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- Commented on I'm a virgin but my boyfriend isn't and that really bothers me. We've talked about it a few times and it definitely helped, but I still can't get over the pain of imagining him with her. Any advice? (And please don't tell me to just sleep with him because
- Commented on iPhone or BlackBerry? I own a BlackBerry but am thinking of changing. What would you suggest?
- Commented on iPhone or BlackBerry? I own a BlackBerry but am thinking of changing. What would you suggest?
- Commented on My fiancé asked me to sign a pre-nup. How do I tell him that I don't care about the money factor but am just really hurt that he is already thinking that that maybe our marriage will fail? Does the fact that he wants me to sign it mean that he doesn't lo
- Commented on Mystery Man, I like the cut of your jib. So, how about this: I adore my boyfriend of 5 months and he says he's in love with me. But, in all his major previous relationships he has talked about marriage early on, like in the first 2-3 months. With me, noth
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- Commented on I'm black and recently, a lot of people have been telling me "I can see you marrying a white guy." What does that mean...am I giving off some kinda aurora? I'm open to love, which means I'm open to whatever shade it may come in, but I've heard this commen
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- Commented on i see sex as a very intimate activity. my bf and i were broken up at the time and he had sex with another girl and he told me it was just sex. no more than that. is that possible? guys dont get attached? how can i understand what hes talking about?
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Submitted Questions
- Submitted the question “Hey, MM! I have a very nice and sweet friend who's kind of ignorant (it comes from a lack of exposure to people of color, not hate). I always try to educate him and we talk about race relations. He appreciated the educations since moving to NYC from his small midwest town. He recently asked me out, but I'm (Jlove 1/2)”
- Submitted the question “Panama I need your help. I have a friend who's really nice and sweet but is kinda ignorant (it comes from lack of exposure to people of color, not hate). So we usually end up talking about race and I try to educate him. We have rational conversations and really seems to appreciate the education, since moving (Jlove1/3)”
- Submitted the question “I am a single gal and with Valentine's Day coming up I was wondering if you have any suggestions for not erupting into a murderous rage on this dreaded holiday?”
- Submitted the question “I have been friends with a guy for about two years and recently we decided to become FWB (friends with benefits).I have never been in a FWB situation, and I was wondering, what are the rules/etiquette of FWB?”
- Submitted the question “Hey can you guys do a blog post about how to enjoy the holidays, if your single. Not all of us are in relationships, thanks!”
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Nick Nadel commented on
Let's Talk About Revenge and Other TV Season Finales
I don't think it's Jack's baby either. Love Alias. You mean with all the mythology and secret corporations and stuff? I can see that....
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Shnon commented on
Am I unreasonable for hating on my boyfriend for gaming 4 hours everyday with teenage boys and girls (as well as posting links on the teenage girl's facebook wall)?He thinks Im over-reacting, I think hes a 27 year old who needs to grow up! I love him, but
Be careful in addressing it, if you go in with " why do you -always-" or other really negative stuff it'll put his back up. But, yeah, if he's only posting to the teenage girls thats a little off....
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simplysara commented on
Am I unreasonable for hating on my boyfriend for gaming 4 hours everyday with teenage boys and girls (as well as posting links on the teenage girl's facebook wall)?He thinks Im over-reacting, I think hes a 27 year old who needs to grow up! I love him, but
Honey...I am not saying that every guy or every person is going to form those sort of emotional bonds. Everyone is different..and I know several people that are in relationships and the social aspect is mainly focused on strategy/game play/and mutual interests. I am not saying every man is a dog. It depends on the person...if a man/woman is feeling lonely even within a relationship (which happens with issues) they may be more likely to..reach out for those kinds of emotional relationships/friendships. Please understand I am in no way suggesting this of every person. I wanted to share my experience....
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simplysara commented on
Am I unreasonable for hating on my boyfriend for gaming 4 hours everyday with teenage boys and girls (as well as posting links on the teenage girl's facebook wall)?He thinks Im over-reacting, I think hes a 27 year old who needs to grow up! I love him, but
Oh I think...I may have been misunderstood...and did not explain myself correctly. lol. I have issues with communicating :p Here's the thing with the random woman that was added immediately post breakup. I had a feeling something was amiss beforehand. She is across the country....so no being together. My main point was trying to relay that substituting the needs he felt were not met with an emotional connection. It was obviously more then friendly or they would have been friends before the breakup. I am not saying it is wrong or right...it was a symptom of the problem between us...
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simplysara commented on
Am I unreasonable for hating on my boyfriend for gaming 4 hours everyday with teenage boys and girls (as well as posting links on the teenage girl's facebook wall)?He thinks Im over-reacting, I think hes a 27 year old who needs to grow up! I love him, but
Oh I completely agree with Name as well! My 17yr old friend..it's the exact same...his Mother is a mess. I have 3 boys and my oldest is 8. The thing is I have not met many men with the paternal gene towards teenage girls. From being a member of this site for many months...I can tell you are not a typical man Mr. X. I am not not trying to stereotype...but a 27yr old man can be useful in game for completing quests etc...but it's creepy..to have a friendship out of game..or even to be private chatting with a teen...
