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- Commented on Until recently, I was engaged to an amazing man.The long distance didn't bother us, but his racism, jealousy, and lack of compassion for others hurt me. He was never cruel to me in any way, but refuses to change. Should I go back to him?
- Commented on How come every time I ask my boyfriend about his ex or their past relationship hi gets very mad and he doesn't want to talk about it. Does he still love her?
- Commented on Am I crazy to seriously contemplate stashing a hidden camera in my fiance's apartment so I can see what really happens at his bachelor party?
- Commented on My friend keeps making jokes around our guy friends about me being a slut. I do wear more cleavage-y clothes than her but I'm not a slut. I know she's just joking but I don't like it. How do I get her to stop?
- Commented on my boyfriend's white, and i'm...not. haha he wants me to meet his parents, but i'm really scared they won't like me (he comes from a very different type of area) what do i do?
- Commented on I am a guy, but after reading 10 or so of your answers you seem like a very . . . insightful man. So, can you tell answer this for me? Is it true that the nice guy never gets the girl. If so, why? And how can I change to not have this happen, but also not
- Commented on My recently divorced mother wants to start bar hopping with me (I'm 25). While she's very well preserved, it's obvious that she's my mother. If I were to meet someone, how freaked out would this make them?
- Commented on How do men feel about other men checking out their women? Especially if I am wearing a snug fitting shirt or low cut dress ?
- Commented on My friend was raped 5 yrs ago and has received incredible healing through therapy. She now wants to date again. As her overprotective BFF, I'm curious how guys will treat her once they find out. Is she setting herself up for heartbreak?
- Commented on I am a guy, but after reading 10 or so of your answers you seem like a very . . . insightful man. So, can you tell answer this for me? Is it true that the nice guy never gets the girl. If so, why? And how can I change to not have this happen, but also not
- Commented on What do guys think about receiving flowers?
- Commented on is it possible that my boyfriend could be cheating on me with someone that can be his moms age?
- Commented on Do Guys Like Bitches?
- Commented on I know it may seem trivial, but what's with the toilet seat? Is it some need to prove dominance and not give in, or is there some block to the brain?
- Commented on Help me out here, RP. I respect your honest opinion on this one. How do white guys feel about dating black women? Sometimes it seems like they try to hide it from people who know them, like they are ashamed or embarrassed.
- Commented on Are All The Chicks Doing It?
- Commented on How do I get my girlfriend to like anal sex?
- Commented on Hey Nick! Can you help? You seem *NICE*. ..so is the guy I'm seeing (shy, technology dude) and we've been dating 6 wks (talk daily, meet up 2x/wk). We're both young 40s. He doesn't want to have sex yet tho! Otherwise VERY affectionate. I sleep over-we cu
- Commented on Does it bother guys when a girl is extremely perverse and crude?? For some reason I am like this and I sometimes tend to talk crudely like a guy would and I was wondering if it could be a turn off??
- Commented on Who would you rather marry, Alicia Keys or Beyonce. And why?
- Commented on Do Guys Prefer You Without Makeup? Jessica Simpson Ditched Hers -- Should You?
- Commented on Would a guy be turned off if a woman watched/read porn or hentai (pornographic Japanese comics), or is that something she should keep to herself?
- Commented on From The "Not A Joke" Files: Japan Releases Rape-Based Video Game
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- Commented on Why do guys like to cuddle after sex?
- Commented on Do guys like to hear poetry a woman has written for them or about them, or is that a little too creepy?
- Commented on My bf said he likes rougher sex, so we tried it and I've never seen him so turned on. Problem: It was scary. I was bruised and queasy afterward. He apologized but I feel uncomfortable with him now. Should I let it go or is this a sign of something else?
- Commented on So, my boyfriend of a year asks me for oral sex daily, and today I obliged, but he wouldn't kiss me afterward because he says it's "gross" and "that's how people get sick." He didn't finish in my mouth and I know he doesn't have any STDs, so what exactly
- Commented on When a guy says "I love you", what does it mean?
- Commented on Why are black guys so infatuated with a women who has lighter skin? And also why are black men so into girls with big booties?
- Commented on Me & my husband just got married, but he is a virgin & I'm not (I have a 3 yr old... which he loves like his own). I want to have sex, but, he told me he is scared that he will suck (we are 23) and he thinks something is wrong with him. How do i get him t
- Commented on how do you tell your guy (who prides himself on his body and the amount of time he spends at the gym) that his belly is HUGE and looks really unhealthy?
- Commented on Can a really romantic movie persuade or even change a guy's mind about you when he sees it? Does it even affect guys?
- Commented on Does it mean anything for a girl if her guy friends have mentioned how they think her mom is "so hot", "so fine" etc. What about the girl?!
- Commented on Maybe I've been watching too much "He's just not that into you," but I refuse to text a guy first. If he is interested he will text me. Not only the first time, but like as we date he should always text me first. How do guys feel about this?
- Commented on My boyfriend is going away for six months to backpack and see the world. What should I do?
- Commented on One date. OK, a GREAT one date, but still one date. He sent me a Facebook friend request. I don't want him to be moving too fast. Is he? That's kinda a 5 or more dates thing, don't you think? What do I do?
- Commented on How do you know if you're in a guy's friend zone?
- Commented on If you told someone you loved them can you take it back? Also, if you are having doubts that you love someone should you tell them?
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cshel commented on
I am a guy, but after reading 10 or so of your answers you seem like a very . . . insightful man. So, can you tell answer this for me? Is it true that the nice guy never gets the girl. If so, why? And how can I change to not have this happen, but also not
Girls like to have sex with bad boys but they want to marry a good one. A girl who will put up with dick-ish behavior for longer than it takes to get off has no self-esteem or self-respect and you don't want to date a girl like that anyway. You keep being you, don't take MM's advice and be a dick. My husband is NOT a bad boy - he's a great husband and father and he has my eternal love and loyalty. He's also really hot in bed because he cares about my pleasure more than his own. When...
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Seagoatsarah commented on
Who would you rather marry, Alicia Keys or Beyonce. And why?
Casey Affleck is hot sex!...
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Seagoatsarah commented on
How do I get my girlfriend to like anal sex?
Just... no. If she doesn't initiate it, then let it be. Watch pr0n, and get over yourself....
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Smokiechick commented on
My bf said he likes rougher sex, so we tried it and I've never seen him so turned on. Problem: It was scary. I was bruised and queasy afterward. He apologized but I feel uncomfortable with him now. Should I let it go or is this a sign of something else?
Since you are asking how to figure out what you like or don't like, a BDSM Checklist might be helpful: http://www.evilmonk.org/A/checklist.cfm Just knowing what some people are into, and seriously thinking about what interests or appalls you, can be really helpful. A lot of people don't seriously sit down and think about what really turns them on - more should. And always remember your safeword ('red' is pretty common and easy to remember and say)- and use it the instant you don't feel safe. If he ignores you, you have every right to walk out and never turn back. I'm...
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Erica commented on
Why are black guys so infatuated with a women who has lighter skin? And also why are black men so into girls with big booties?
It's interesting that you said that. When my then best friend and I would go out, she would get all of the attention. Not me. I'm way lighter, but she had that "thing" that always got the attention of guys. She was more confident that I was. I was shy and maybe that had a little to do with it. So, maybe a female's skin tone alone doesn't attract a man? What do you guys think?...
