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- Commented on Hey Panama! I've been dating a guy for a month and I really want to sleep with him, and I know he's dying to sleep with me - problem is, my sexual experience ends at oral. I'm not a youngin' (I'm 25) so I don't know how or when to tell him that I'm ready,
- Commented on You asked for a silly one so here it comes! Does spending extended times in Walmart justify vehicular manslaughter via shopping cart? Yes or no, and why?~Nano
- Commented on When one bad thing happens, either in reality or just perceived by me, I can't recover from it. My mind twists everything around until I'm lying there, convinced that I'm stupid, worthless, ugly, deserve to die; convinced that everyone would be better off
- Commented on When one bad thing happens, either in reality or just perceived by me, I can't recover from it. My mind twists everything around until I'm lying there, convinced that I'm stupid, worthless, ugly, deserve to die; convinced that everyone would be better off
- Commented on On New Years Eve, I planned to end my life. Something prevented that (poor timing), but in the hours before, I felt peaceful about it. Am I bad person to have been so willing to accept my ends? I know from a theological standpoint suicide is bad. But is i
- Commented on On New Years Eve, I planned to end my life. Something prevented that (poor timing), but in the hours before, I felt peaceful about it. Am I bad person to have been so willing to accept my ends? I know from a theological standpoint suicide is bad. But is i
- Commented on On New Years Eve, I planned to end my life. Something prevented that (poor timing), but in the hours before, I felt peaceful about it. Am I bad person to have been so willing to accept my ends? I know from a theological standpoint suicide is bad. But is i
- Commented on On New Years Eve, I planned to end my life. Something prevented that (poor timing), but in the hours before, I felt peaceful about it. Am I bad person to have been so willing to accept my ends? I know from a theological standpoint suicide is bad. But is i
- Commented on On New Years Eve, I planned to end my life. Something prevented that (poor timing), but in the hours before, I felt peaceful about it. Am I bad person to have been so willing to accept my ends? I know from a theological standpoint suicide is bad. But is i
- Commented on On New Years Eve, I planned to end my life. Something prevented that (poor timing), but in the hours before, I felt peaceful about it. Am I bad person to have been so willing to accept my ends? I know from a theological standpoint suicide is bad. But is i
- Commented on On New Years Eve, I planned to end my life. Something prevented that (poor timing), but in the hours before, I felt peaceful about it. Am I bad person to have been so willing to accept my ends? I know from a theological standpoint suicide is bad. But is i
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- Commented on On New Years Eve, I planned to end my life. Something prevented that (poor timing), but in the hours before, I felt peaceful about it. Am I bad person to have been so willing to accept my ends? I know from a theological standpoint suicide is bad. But is i
- Commented on On New Years Eve, I planned to end my life. Something prevented that (poor timing), but in the hours before, I felt peaceful about it. Am I bad person to have been so willing to accept my ends? I know from a theological standpoint suicide is bad. But is i
- Commented on On New Years Eve, I planned to end my life. Something prevented that (poor timing), but in the hours before, I felt peaceful about it. Am I bad person to have been so willing to accept my ends? I know from a theological standpoint suicide is bad. But is i
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- Commented on What resources do you know of for those struggling with severe depression? I need this to stop. Something has gotta give here. I can't just roll over and let this destroy me. But I have no means of getting treatment, and even when I'm working, with the ex
- Commented on How do I get over an irrational hatred of women?
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- Commented on I was recently diagnosed with bipolar disorder. My boyfriend loves my highs and always has; he says it's hot when I'm hyper, but when I'm like that I feel like I'm spinning out of control. Should I be worried that he finds my mental illness "hot" or is he
- Commented on What resources do you know of for those struggling with severe depression? I need this to stop. Something has gotta give here. I can't just roll over and let this destroy me. But I have no means of getting treatment, and even when I'm working, with the ex
- Commented on What resources do you know of for those struggling with severe depression? I need this to stop. Something has gotta give here. I can't just roll over and let this destroy me. But I have no means of getting treatment, and even when I'm working, with the ex
- Commented on What resources do you know of for those struggling with severe depression? I need this to stop. Something has gotta give here. I can't just roll over and let this destroy me. But I have no means of getting treatment, and even when I'm working, with the ex
- Commented on What resources do you know of for those struggling with severe depression? I need this to stop. Something has gotta give here. I can't just roll over and let this destroy me. But I have no means of getting treatment, and even when I'm working, with the ex
- Commented on What resources do you know of for those struggling with severe depression? I need this to stop. Something has gotta give here. I can't just roll over and let this destroy me. But I have no means of getting treatment, and even when I'm working, with the ex
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- Commented on What resources do you know of for those struggling with severe depression? I need this to stop. Something has gotta give here. I can't just roll over and let this destroy me. But I have no means of getting treatment, and even when I'm working, with the ex
- Commented on I am a 44 year old woman. Am I completely out of the loop to expect exclusivity before having sex with someone? I've dated 3 men (long term) over the past 3 years and EVERY one has "cheated". They claim that we weren't "exclusive". I am now very wary
- Commented on So I have two girlfriends that don't know of each other. Don't ask why cause it just seemed to happen that way and is not the problem. The problem is that I don't really want to be with either of them and i also don't want my ride or other aspects of my l
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- Commented on I cut my boyfriend off from all the little niceties. I refuse to buy him food when I buy for myself, and I no longer let him use my netflix (amongst other things). This came about because of the way he has acted the last month. Was it right for me to cut
- Commented on I cut my boyfriend off from all the little niceties. I refuse to buy him food when I buy for myself, and I no longer let him use my netflix (amongst other things). This came about because of the way he has acted the last month. Was it right for me to cut
- Commented on MM Help!! I'm 17 years old, 3 months ago my bf was killed in a work accident, ever since then my life has spirals out of control I've started partying & drinking every weekend, experimenting with drugs and been hooking up with guys trying to make myself h
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- Commented on He says I'm "needy", when really I've just been suffering from severe depression, and yeah maybe I need a little more love that other girls. Why is this an issue if he loves me, or is this a sign that he doesn't? Either way, a girl's got needs and I need
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- Submitted the question “I'm pretty spectacularly anti-girly. But I actually kind of want to be more feminine. However, people react strangely to me when I do anything more feminine, like wear form fitting clothes or actually do my make-up. Is there anyway I can up the femininity without getting all the odd looks?”
- Submitted the question “You asked for a silly one so here it comes! Does spending extended times in Walmart justify vehicular manslaughter via shopping cart? Yes or no, and why?”
- Submitted the question “On New Years Eve, I planned to end my life. Something prevented that (poor timing), but in the hours before, I felt peaceful about it. Am I bad person to have been so willing to accept my ends? I know from a theological standpoint suicide is bad. But is it really bad to feel at peace about taking what control you can?”
- Submitted the question “What resources do you know of for those struggling with severe depression? I need this to stop. Something has gotta give here. I can't just roll over and let this destroy me. But I have no means of getting treatment, and even when I'm working, with the expenses of college and day to day stuff, I just can't budge it.”
- Submitted the question “I cut my boyfriend off from all the little niceties. I refuse to buy him food when I buy for myself, and I no longer let him use my netflix (amongst other things). This came about because of the way he has acted the last month. Was it right for me to cut him off until things get better, or was it childish? ”
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Mystery Man commented on
When one bad thing happens, either in reality or just perceived by me, I can't recover from it. My mind twists everything around until I'm lying there, convinced that I'm stupid, worthless, ugly, deserve to die; convinced that everyone would be better off
No. With a better therapist, you will get beyond it. Your safe place will become where you are AFTER therapy. That is as it should be. You are adult. Being able to talk to your childhood self is good. Yes, it happened. It was devastating. I CAN NOT possibly understand how devastating - yet other people who have replied here can and do, so you are still not alone. Remember that. You are NOT ALONE. Ever. You survived. You are tougher than you know, and that I respect. You didn't block out the memories, like many children do. No blame...
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chrissie1101 commented on
When one bad thing happens, either in reality or just perceived by me, I can't recover from it. My mind twists everything around until I'm lying there, convinced that I'm stupid, worthless, ugly, deserve to die; convinced that everyone would be better off
he's right, about everything, and yes he should be Sainted : ) don't waste time trying to figure out why this happened to you, i know it seems like that will make it better and easier for you to deal with, but it doesn't. and the reason is irrelevant to your healing. this happened because someone was sick and demented, and they took it out on you. they had no skills, no moral compass, and no capacity or empathy to understand the long term ramifications of their actions. and even if they did, they wouldn't care. people that do this...
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chrissie1101 commented on
When one bad thing happens, either in reality or just perceived by me, I can't recover from it. My mind twists everything around until I'm lying there, convinced that I'm stupid, worthless, ugly, deserve to die; convinced that everyone would be better off
i have the biggest smile on my face reading your comments here : )...
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chrissie1101 commented on
When one bad thing happens, either in reality or just perceived by me, I can't recover from it. My mind twists everything around until I'm lying there, convinced that I'm stupid, worthless, ugly, deserve to die; convinced that everyone would be better off
tears. good ones. bless your heart, i am touched, don't say that often. thank you. words to LIVE by....
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JuiceNJen commented on
Hey Panama! I've been dating a guy for a month and I really want to sleep with him, and I know he's dying to sleep with me - problem is, my sexual experience ends at oral. I'm not a youngin' (I'm 25) so I don't know how or when to tell him that I'm ready,
If he already knows that ur a "V" n hes not getting cold feet with you, then he obviously cares for u. just let him know, ur ready n u want it 2 b him... He should feel flattered, and also a little scared too... its a bit of pressure for him too... hes giving u your 1st experience... Im sure hed like to take it slow too. Just relax, the pain isnt all that horriffic, unless hes got a King Kong Dong! Have u been thoroughly fingered before? if so, youll do fine! I say go 4 it! Give...
