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• Commented on I am in college but I have a problem: I don't drink. Everyone else does and it's seemingly the only way to meet people. What should I do? I've been to enough parties sober to know that they are not fun when everyone else is completely wasted. Thoughts?
• Commented on Is it pointless to date someone who you know you won't marry, but you still enjoy their company, want to get to know them more, and are attracted to them? (and lets pretend for arguments sake that it is an absolute definite that you won't ever marry this
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• Commented on I have lost all hope in finding a man. Everytime there is a possibility, I'm seen as just a friend. I'm tired of it. I'm doomed to be lonely for the rest of my life. Even if I put myself out there, there's no man. What do I do? My heart can't go on.

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• Cary McNeal commented on Is it pointless to date someone who you know you won't marry, but you still enjoy their company, want to get to know them more, and are attracted to them? (and lets pretend for arguments sake that it is an absolute definite that you won't ever marry this
  Thanks....
• Nautilus commented on Is it pointless to date someone who you know you won't marry, but you still enjoy their company, want to get to know them more, and are attracted to them? (and lets pretend for arguments sake that it is an absolute definite that you won't ever marry this
  I second the motion... I loved this answer, Wise Ass. Infact, I'm gonna send this to my friend....
• Nautilus commented on Is it pointless to date someone who you know you won't marry, but you still enjoy their company, want to get to know them more, and are attracted to them? (and lets pretend for arguments sake that it is an absolute definite that you won't ever marry this
  You know what, you're right...she's a girl. Hahaha....
• Mags Happy commented on I am in college but I have a problem: I don't drink. Everyone else does and it's seemingly the only way to meet people. What should I do? I've been to enough parties sober to know that they are not fun when everyone else is completely wasted. Thoughts?
  Excellent answer, Cary. Covers all the important points. I have never been a big drinker from college on. The groups I hung out with then, most people would drink but not excessively so I didn't feel pressured to. Now, even after-work functions will find me having a cranberry juice with a slice of lime to squeeze into it, if it's not an iced tea (non-alcoholic version). Everyone's right here - you can seek out groups and activities that are not so centered on drinking and still have a good time. Nowadays, habits like drinking (and smoking, too) are more socially...
• DareDream commented on I am in college but I have a problem: I don't drink. Everyone else does and it's seemingly the only way to meet people. What should I do? I've been to enough parties sober to know that they are not fun when everyone else is completely wasted. Thoughts?
  I can totally relate to the question asker because i don't drink. Even though i'm constantly picked on at social gatherings because of that, i don't let that bother me much. It's who i am and i'm not going to drink to make someone else happy. To the question asker, i definitely understand you, but it's your choice, so stick to it. All my friends drink and it doesn't bother me when we are out. If you don't want to hang out with people who drink, Cary gave you some great suggestions. On a lighter note, there is a benefit...