Sadie
- Who is your celebrity look alike?Sylvia Plath
- Who is your celebrity crush?26yr old Antonion Banderas
- If you were stranded on a desert island and could only have two things with you (objects, not people or food) what would they be?My Arden copy of The Complete Works of Shakespeare & a pair of very sharp scissors
- Who is one person you would love to have dinner with?Vaclav Havel
- Boxers, briefs, or freeball?Boxer briefs...or freeball, depending on the context
- Dog, cat, neither?Blue Great Dane, named Finn
- Name one magazine in your house right now:The Economist
- What’s your favorite quote?No guts, no glory
- What’s your favorite movie of all time?Zelary
- Do you text, email, or call?Yes
- Do you have any sisters, and if so, are they older or younger than you? If not, do you have any siblings at all, and where do you fall in the mix?Oldest of 4 boys
- Your Astrological Sign:Taurus
- What's your favorite sport?Wrestling on the livingroom floor
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- Commented on It's been a month since I've responded, but he keeps texting me (from "I love you, I miss you, I want you" to "I hate you, I hope you get hit by a bus"). He's doing anything to get me to respond, I still have feelings for him but I refuse. I want to move
- Commented on It's been a month since I've responded, but he keeps texting me (from "I love you, I miss you, I want you" to "I hate you, I hope you get hit by a bus"). He's doing anything to get me to respond, I still have feelings for him but I refuse. I want to move
- Commented on It's been a month since I've responded, but he keeps texting me (from "I love you, I miss you, I want you" to "I hate you, I hope you get hit by a bus"). He's doing anything to get me to respond, I still have feelings for him but I refuse. I want to move
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- Commented on Please help! I told my boyfriend of five months that I love him and he said he isn't ready to say it back. I feel so rejected. Why can't he say it back?
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- Commented on I have a rendevouz set up with an off-limits guy. But everything in me is screaming no. How do I say no, do the right thing without looking like a total fool?
- Commented on I have a rendevouz set up with an off-limits guy. But everything in me is screaming no. How do I say no, do the right thing without looking like a total fool?
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Nautilus commented on
Please help! I told my boyfriend of five months that I love him and he said he isn't ready to say it back. I feel so rejected. Why can't he say it back?
I so love love love your answer to this Wise Ass...makes me feel good. Thanks!...
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secrets commented on
Please help! I told my boyfriend of five months that I love him and he said he isn't ready to say it back. I feel so rejected. Why can't he say it back?
love is a serious word...
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Tariana commented on
Where's the weirdest place you've met someone? Church? Prison? GuySpeak Group Question!
Some guy seemed fazed when I once boarded the train after my boyfriend dropped me off the station. I saw him by the tracks, looking up on the windows. Few minutes later, this guy showed up right in front of me and told me he'll never forgive himself if he didn't say hello and introduce himself. I turned him down since I'm already taken, of course. But I have to say... His effort and confidence might have won him a number from a lady. Not from me though since I'm really and still not comfortable meeting complete strangers in places...
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Isabel commented on
It's been a month since I've responded, but he keeps texting me (from "I love you, I miss you, I want you" to "I hate you, I hope you get hit by a bus"). He's doing anything to get me to respond, I still have feelings for him but I refuse. I want to move
Sadie, that is the WRONG type of flattery. Move on and find someone who will have a love-love relationship with you, that will make your heart beat fast without the crash afterwards. This guy just sounds like a desperate creep right now....
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goodkarmagirl commented on
It's been a month since I've responded, but he keeps texting me (from "I love you, I miss you, I want you" to "I hate you, I hope you get hit by a bus"). He's doing anything to get me to respond, I still have feelings for him but I refuse. I want to move
I know it seems "flattering" to have the control in any relationship, even if the control is having an ex do the e-stalking while his desperation level rises with every ignored text. I wish I could say otherwise, but I don't think it's because he loves you--sorry :( , but it's now because he wants to WIN, and take back the control, even if he doesn't want YOU. It's a competitive guy thing. He wants to break you down until you respond, thereby "winning" this toxic game. Sad, but common. It's kind of like a guy breaking up with YOU,...
